Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by calbts

Where did you find them?
It differs in the fact that the Japanese Mistress is much more feminine and does whatever she can to please the client. Many Western Doms want to please themselves first.

http://www.bizarremag.com/bizarre-wo.../la_siora.html

it is a magazine in uk about unusual thing.

Well, the reporter just saw one session and mistress might not be comfortable with reporter observing.

Another old article about La Siora, this one about the time when police closed them down.


Tokyo cops crack whip in fight vs. vice

April 21, 2009

Mistress Akiha of La SioraTOKYO (TR) – A leather-clad female physically punishing a compliant male into erotic bliss is the usual image one conjures for BDSM, or bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. Yet, to spend a Sunday afternoon with the ladies on the roster of La Siora, a high-end club based in Shinjuku, is to realize that the proper delivery of the craft’s techniques involves much more than wanton, grip-it-and-rip-it whipping.

A dominatrix, or mistress, must be proficient in handling a wide range of equipment, be able to read the body language of a “slave,” and ensure sanitary conditions at all times. But perhaps the greatest challenge involves the law.

Up until last year, La Siora, which opened in 1997, served its clientele out of an apartment building in Yoyogi, Shibuya Ward. Last April, a violation of the Law Regulating Adult Entertainment Businesses occurred during a session in which a dominatrix gave a 29-year-old male customer a sexual service not involving intercourse but still illegal given the in-house business arrangement and the club’s registration as deri heru (or delivery health, meaning an out-call service). The police, who made three arrests, had allegedly been alerted to the incident by nearby residents complaining of noise emanating from behind the closed doors.

“I didn’t know that the hand of a dominatrix and that of a slave were considered to be different under the law,” says Rie Asagiri, director of La Siora, during an interview at a Shinjuku coffee shop. Since La Siora would have been on safe legal ground had the slave been pleasuring himself, she adds, “The line of legality is fuzzy.”

The charges were eventually dropped due to complications over exactly who was renting the premises. La Siora has since moved to servicing customers on a dispatch basis inside hotel rooms as law enforcement in Tokyo increasingly puts the squeeze on adult activities.

In the notorious red-light district of Kabukicho, located slightly east of Shinjuku Station, police authorities have been relentless in an ongoing crackdown. The adult-entertainment law, enacted in 1948, was revised three years ago, an action that made it easier to shut illicit clubs, bars and pink parlors. Many insiders in the adult industry believe the increased scrutiny is due to Tokyo’s push for the 2016 Olympics.

As a result, many underground businesses are changing their practices to conform to the increased scrutiny rather than risk running afoul of the law.

Sex-trade publisher Creators Company Connection prints Deri Heru Manzoku, a magazine with ads for girls who can be ordered by phone or via the Internet. Chairman Hiroharu Kimura, whose office is just north of Kabukicho, explains: “The number of legally run deri heru operations has recently increased because of the crackdown on illegally operated brick-and-mortar sex shops. Shop managers have chosen legality over illegality.” (It should be noted that “illegality” refers to prostitution and “legality” to non-coital acts, which are permissible.)

Though certainly seductive in nature, La Siora is not a sex operation, Rie adamantly explains. Domination by the female with no nudity, oral sex or intercourse is the only possibility, but special supplementary services are available, as was made clear in the Yoyogi incident. The general approach, however, parallels the developments in the deri-heru trade.

Later that same Sunday at La Siora’s headquarters, an apartment inside a mansion off Yasukuni-dori, Rie was fielding phone calls from potential clients seeking reservations with her stable of roughly a dozen girls, each possessing varying specialties and experience.

Rie is the queen of La Siora. Confident and articulate, the slim, bisexual 43-year-old, dressed in purple fishnet stockings and a frilly black dress, asks callers about suitable times and the types of girls they are seeking.

BDSM is a consensual mix of violence and eroticism that breaks down the walls between fantasy and reality, a practice that Rie thinks is free form and open to everyone. “BDSM is a way of communicating with people,” offers Rie, whose last name “Asagiri,” or morning fog, is a performing name. “The most important thing for a dominatrix is to meet the customer’s fantasy.”

In Japan, historians trace modern forms of BDSM to nonsexual torture levied during the Sengoku Period (1467-1568), a time of near continual upheaval and wars. Then, in 1742, the Tokugawa government sanctioned various types of public punishment and torture, with whipping and suspension among them.

Rie started as a freelance dominatrix in Nagoya 15 years ago, but she wanted a bigger challenge so she came to Tokyo and started La Siora.

Over the course of a typical evening, Rie’s charges will arrive to pack up suitcases with gear (colorful ropes, hoods, head harnesses, mouth gags and various limb-spreaders) and venture off to meet a client inside a cafe situated at the east edge of Kabukicho. From there, the pair will move to a hotel room, often a love hotel, previously reserved by the customer.

Most of the club’s 70 weekly patrons are Japanese, but about a dozen are foreign. Women, too, are occasional clients. Occupations tend toward the well-heeled, with doctors and lawyers being common.

The change in protocol has not altered La Siora’s basic business plan. Its Web page includes detailed information in both Japanese and English about available services, which require membership registration. For first-time customers, a questionnaire asks about wardrobe preferences for the mistress (perhaps black lingerie, garters or high-heeled boots), particular erogenous zones, favored fetishes and any desired activities, such as caning, candle waxing and a gender switch (wigs provided).

Prices are not inexpensive and begin at 20,000 yen for 70 minutes and move on upward for multiple mistresses and additional time. Included in this fee are the costumes and many of the above- mentioned options.

Hygiene is also crucial. “It is a sin for a dominatrix to not know sanitation and safety,” Rie says. After performances, everything is sterilized at the office — from the tips of the boots to the snake whips.

The small apartment in Yoyogi is also the location for much of the girls’ training, which does not extend beyond the basics. Simple tying, yes, but elaborate details are left up to the trainee.

“If I teach too much, it crushes the personality of the dominatrix,” Rie explains. “It really depends on experience. If you improve your insight, your skill as a dominatrix will increase.”

Mai, dressed in a single-piece black dress, is primarily an instructor and assistant. She believes that perceiving just what it is the slaves wants is almost an art form.

“It is not just language, but body language,” she says. To explain, Rie then gets onto her knees on the office carpet. “Nonverbal communication is important, such as watching the movement of the slave’s hands, feet and eyes. If the slave says ‘it feels good,’ yet his hands are stiff,” the director says, hunching over, “then it is not right. Many times people will try too hard to feel good. Then it becomes a restriction.”

In spite of not being exhaustive, training crucially covers the prevention of accidents. Mai indicates that common mistakes at early stages of apprenticeship, which can extend from weeks to months, include a rope pulled too tight upon a nerve — a painful situation that could result in a hospital visit.

“But if you know where to put the rope or look carefully enough,” she says, “you would know before there is a problem.”

Yet in the current enforcement environment, the La Siora staff is wondering if even basic BDSM tasks could be considered criminal. “It has been a shock to our business,” she says of the police activities. “We are shaken and have become afraid to perform tying.”

Entertainment quarters like Shinjuku and Roppongi have no shortage of clubs offering BDSM performances, but Rie is concerned about the future of this subculture, saying that the random nature of the clampdown is a concern. She relates that the police occasionally make checkup phone calls to inquire about her new business arrangement.

“BDSM is a form of entertainment passed along through the years as an oral tradition,” she says. “Of course, there are textbooks, but mouth to mouth is the best way. The problem is that I am afraid that it will now disappear.”

[ydgduo]

http://www.bizarremag.com/sleaze/int...hool.html?xc=1

Another article from bizarre about new york sm club, which was also raid by police.

[calbts]

Oh Mistress Yui = Beautiful Goddess. There is a photo on her blog where she wears this black leather top. Just a stunning Japanese woman.
Also this:
I want to see her now very badly and dreaming up my Nagoya jaunt later this year. Thinking maybe 3 days and 2 nights - a session each day. I see that Yui and Tsubaki often do doubles together. That would be an incredible session.

I also love these quotes:
“The most important thing for a dominatrix is to meet the customer’s fantasy.”
"She believes that perceiving just what it is the slaves wants is almost an art form.:
-------This is what really sets apart Japanese from the rest. Maybe you should forward these articles to your Singapore Doms so they can get a hint and learn how it's done by the best

I have actually given some Doms here in Thailand DVD-rs of Japan SM videos and told them to observe. Whether they can watch and implement is another matter but at least they can see how it is supposed to be done.


Also thanks for that article on the New York club. I have never sessioned in NYC but I heard that it was a much freer and better environment for SM in the 1990's. Then Rudy Guliani became Mayor and cracked down and raided many clubs. Not to mention all the 9/11 BS if that affected it in any way. Pathetic US Puritanism at its finest.

[asslover22]

i'm posting my FR here that happened on friday the 13th.

i was scheduled to meet my Mistress at 12(supposed to be at 8am but she had a teleconference and she wanted to change the day to the day before but i couldn't cause i was in camp.) i arrived at the Hotel Tristar an hour early and texted her that i had already arrived. as i had arrived early i was told to wait untill i was told to go upstairs into the room.

upon arriving the room, i was made to stand straight(i was being analyzed by Mistress) and after awhile told to strip. she asked me what i liked and was into and i told her i'm all about what Mistress needs and wants. she humiliated me with some games when the real BDSM happened.

she told me to lie down on the floor with my arms covered. she then started burning the candle and let the candle wax flow through my body. as this was my very first session i wasn;t sure if i'd like it but i felt it was alright till it hit straight into my cock and balls. then she pegged my nipples and told me to stay in the bathroom till i was told to come out as she told me that the housekeeper was coming. after that she told me to come out and face the wall while she tortured me with some electronic play. it hurt but i was into making my Mistress happy so i controlled myself. then afterwards i was made to go on all fours and received some dog training by my Mistress. i was made to fetch her bone and lick her boots clean. the dirt from her boots was the best thing that i had ever tasted. then i had to take off her boots with my mouth and began to suck her toes clean. afterwards she asked me whether i wanted Mistress to take off the pegs on my nipples or i would do it myelf. i chose her. she took her cane and used her hookside to hook the pegs. she began distracting me with some army talk before she pulled them out with full force. i screamed in agony and excitement. the pain was well worth it. she then told me to get to the bathroom and lay on the bathtub. she entered and told me to open my mouth and closed my eyes. she started peeing in my mouth. it was a little saltish but i drank it up as i wanted Mistress to be happy. afterwards i got out and she told me to bend over and receive my punishment. she made me choose from 4 of her spanking equipment any of them for my punishment. i decided to mix it up and try them all. BIG MISTAKE. haha i thought i could handle it but it hurt like crazy. soon after she put the ballgag on me and told me to cum by the count of 21 if not the successive counts after that would deem my punishment. i had a problem with erection so i couldn't cum.(sadly i couldn't cum for my Mistress and i felt very bad) the exceeded count went all the way to 100 and i chose my punishment to be spanked. i bend over again and this time Mistress didn;t give chance. she spanked me till i was nearly crying and she was laughing. halfway through the spanking, she took cold water out from the fridge and began spilling water over my red ass. it hurt and i could actually feel blood swelling in my ass. then the other half was given and that was it.

as this is my very first time, i would say that it is a good experience all in all. though i wish there would have been some cuffing, more gagging, as well as some ass worship and facesitting.

but still she's a great Mistress and i'll definitely ask for her services again after chinese new year.

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by calbts

Oh Mistress Yui = Beautiful Goddess. There is a photo on her blog where she wears this black leather top. Just a stunning Japanese woman.
I have actually given some Doms here in Thailand DVD-rs of Japan SM videos and told them to observe. Whether they can watch and implement is another matter but at least they can see how it is supposed to be done.

more picture for you of Yui




Good luck to you for your trip to Nagoya.
Eh, I dun think there is much hope in thai sm or singapore.

[WweJustin89]

Originally Posted by asslover22

i'm posting my FR here that happened on friday the 13th.

i was scheduled to meet my Mistress at 12(supposed to be at 8am but she had a teleconference and she wanted to change the day to the day before but i couldn't cause i was in camp.) i arrived at the Hotel Tristar an hour early and texted her that i had already arrived. as i had arrived early i was told to wait untill i was told to go upstairs into the room.

upon arriving the room, i was made to stand straight(i was being analyzed by Mistress) and after awhile told to strip. she asked me what i liked and was into and i told her i'm all about what Mistress needs and wants. she humiliated me with some games when the real BDSM happened.



she told me to lie down on the floor with my arms covered. she then started burning the candle and let the candle wax flow through my body. as this was my very first session i wasn;t sure if i'd like it but i felt it was alright till it hit straight into my cock and balls. then she pegged my nipples and told me to stay in the bathroom till i was told to come out as she told me that the housekeeper was coming. after that she told me to come out and face the wall while she tortured me with some electronic play. it hurt but i was into making my Mistress happy so i controlled myself. then afterwards i was made to go on all fours and received some dog training by my Mistress. i was made to fetch her bone and lick her boots clean. the dirt from her boots was the best thing that i had ever tasted. then i had to take off her boots with my mouth and began to suck her toes clean. afterwards she asked me whether i wanted Mistress to take off the pegs on my nipples or i would do it myelf. i chose her. she took her cane and used her hookside to hook the pegs. she began distracting me with some army talk before she pulled them out with full force. i screamed in agony and excitement. the pain was well worth it. she then told me to get to the bathroom and lay on the bathtub. she entered and told me to open my mouth and closed my eyes. she started peeing in my mouth. it was a little saltish but i drank it up as i wanted Mistress to be happy. afterwards i got out and she told me to bend over and receive my punishment. she made me choose from 4 of her spanking equipment any of them for my punishment. i decided to mix it up and try them all. BIG MISTAKE. haha i thought i could handle it but it hurt like crazy. soon after she put the ballgag on me and told me to cum by the count of 21 if not the successive counts after that would deem my punishment. i had a problem with erection so i couldn't cum.(sadly i couldn't cum for my Mistress and i felt very bad) the exceeded count went all the way to 100 and i chose my punishment to be spanked. i bend over again and this time Mistress didn;t give chance. she spanked me till i was nearly crying and she was laughing. halfway through the spanking, she took cold water out from the fridge and began spilling water over my red ass. it hurt and i could actually feel blood swelling in my ass. then the other half was given and that was it.

as this is my very first time, i would say that it is a good experience all in all. though i wish there would have been some cuffing, more gagging, as well as some ass worship and facesitting.

but still she's a great Mistress and i'll definitely ask for her services again after chinese new year.

Great FR bro! Way to go...btw what mistress? Is it a pro domme? Cause you did not state...

[WweJustin89]

Just check the rates of amazingasia from collarme, charge 400 for 1 and half hours...pretty ex.

Totally not enuff vitamin M for Japanese Mistress. So would like to gamble a Sgp one. Mistress Minky or Amazingasia? Hmm any recommendations from bros here who tried either one before?

[eugene_wong]

asslover22.....why didn't u request her to poop into your mouth too....
i read about great fun .....unfortunately not available in mal

[asslover22]

Originally Posted by WweJustin89

Great FR bro! Way to go...btw what mistress? Is it a pro domme? Cause you did not state...

Thanks. i'm afraid i can't really give that info out in public BUT if you were to pm me i would definitely tell you. respect her privacy.

Yes she's a pro-domme. and she's on collarme as well.

lemme know if you wanna know

[asslover22]

Originally Posted by eugene_wong

asslover22.....why didn't u request her to poop into your mouth too....
i read about great fun .....unfortunately not available in mal

haha i can only wish. but it was my first time so maybe she let me down easy haha. perhaps maybe after a little bit more experience who knows

[Walnutt]

Originally Posted by WweJustin89

Just check the rates of amazingasia from collarme, charge 400 for 1 and half hours...pretty ex.

Totally not enuff vitamin M for Japanese Mistress. So would like to gamble a Sgp one. Mistress Minky or Amazingasia? Hmm any recommendations from bros here who tried either one before?

No doubt my choice would be Amazingasia, you will not regret it... Have been with her a couple of times and I have never had a bad session...

[WweJustin89]

Originally Posted by Walnutt

No doubt my choice would be Amazingasia, you will not regret it... Have been with her a couple of times and I have never had a bad session...

Thank you so much bro, her figure is damn hot based on e photo! Haha didn't know she was that good, but confirm she super high class type. Sorry ah, ask you some info...is she local?

[totolim]

Slightly more than a week since I drank mistress Sayako sweet nectar and I must say I miss this great beauty !

I think it's the closest Spore gets to a premium Jap mistress, although she is considered westernized.

Image of her lying beautifully on bed smoking in her black gloves while i suck her toes and lick her soles keep appearing in my mind !

[XiaoGe2011]

Can share ctc?

[Mugenwhore]

Hi all

I will like to share with you guys on my recent bdsm experience in Japan. I too had a mind-blowing experience. I've tried most of the local, thai, phillipine and china doms listed in this thread and I've never bothered to write any FRs as there's nothing to shout about with regards to the sessions. I've also engaged Mistress Sayako while she was in sg and even though she's a jap, the standard in terms of looks and skills is still WAY behind the mistresses in Tokyo. I'm very particular on hygiene during sessions and play tools and the standard of hygiene is top notch in Tokyo.

I've engaged Sweet Devil and La Siora dominas. I've had 4 sessions during my 10 days stay in Japan and the following is a brief write-up on each session.

1. Naomi and Cecile (Sweet Devil)
Have a double domina session with both mistresses and Cecile being relatively new, the cost of engaging her is cheap as she's understudying Naomi during the session. Naomi is tall and slim with a matured slutty look and she looks hot in her OL attire with a figure hugging black tight dress with black stilettos and coupled with her long tinted hair curled to perfection, she looks hotter than any local OLs we see in Raffles Place. On the other hand, Cecile is the exact opposite as she's a syt with a girl next door look, thus I get to experience the best of both worlds with this combi. The highlight in this session is forced feminzation and Naomi is the best so far in terms of this area. I was tied up in rope bondage and Naomi started by applying make-up on my face. Naomi seems to be a professional make up artiste and she's very focused in trying to acheive the perfect feminine look for me by covering every single details. There's no mirror in front on me and I can only feel the loads of liquid foundation and powder applied on my face, with eye shadow, eye liner, eyebrow liner, thick mascara and thick lip gloss. The makeup is completed with long fake eyelashes glued to my eyelash. I can feel the weight of the ultra long eye lashes when I try to blink my eyes. The look was finally completed with a long wig secured to my head. I was then told to look at myself in the mirror. Having tried several forced feminization before, non of the mistresses have managed to successfully convert my looks into a feminine one due to my manly looks. However, to my utter surprise, i can't recognize myself when I look into the mirror! I've turned into a gorgeous and sexy lady with my new look and I can easily pass off as a chiobu if I walked on the streets in Singapore. Unbelievable! I was then dressed up in stockings with garter belt with all the lingerie and a sexy tight dress. The rest of the session is histroy with intense strap-on play with both Naomi and Cecile taking turns to rape my anal while i'm blowing the other. The session ended with Naomi fucking me in a missionary position while stroking my dick and cecile sitting on my face with her strap on in my mouth. I cum in no time.

Overall satisfaction : 9/10

2. Ayatsuki (La Siora)

Tall and attractive lady. However sad to say, she's not my type in terms of her looks. She looks relatively matured as compared to the other mistresses and the session was not exactly fantastic probably due to lack of chemistry. However she can humilate and spit really well. I was covered in her spit for most of the session. Session ended with her stroking me with her bare hands. This is a plus point as Naomi was wearing gloves when she stroke me.

Overall satisfaction : 7/10

3. Ruiko ( La Siora)

Wow! Beautiful syt! Comparatively I prefer her looks over Naomi and Ayatsuki. She's like those Jap you see on the streets and railway stations whom you fantasize about. She looks hot in her bondage costume with a very slim figure and nicely done up hair. However, during our discussion before the session, I found out that she's more into hard sessions with caning and whipping. I'm more into soft sessions. Nonetheless, session was still satisfying as she got good looks and body and I get to taste the saliva and was forced to smell and licked off the sweat from her armpit and worship her foot. Her strap on play is the also best I've ever experienced. The image of her penetrating my ass in a missionary position while hugging me like a lover kept appearing in my mind. Unforgettable. However she's not really into forced masturbation and I'm ordered to jerk off myself while she's smothering me.

Overall satisfaction : 8/10

4. Shinobu and Nana

Engaged Shinobu for a 130 mins session and Nana for a 100 mins session due to time constraints from Nana. This is the BEST bdsm session I've ever had in my entire life and Shinobu is the best mistress I've ever encountered. She's a hot syt and her alluring looks more than make up for her lack in height. She met all my preferences in terms of looks and skills and she exceeded all my expectaions. Nana on the other hand, is a cute syt but is abit on the meaty side due to her arms but make no mistake, she's still slim but I prefer really slim gals like Ruiko and Shinobu. For the first 100mins, Nana and Shinobu take turns to tease me. The tease and denial play was the best in this session, as Shinobu taped 2 vibrators to my penis, one on the head and the other on the shaft. Another vibrator was inserted into my ass and 2 more vibrators on my nipples. I was tied to the bed with all 5 vibrators on me. The feeling of being restraint and helpless while being stimulated was mind blowing. Both then take turns to smother and spit on me. They also bite on my ears and thighs. I was told not to cum else I will be punished and I'm really trying hard to control myself. This is a session which I almost cum a couple of times but they immediatly off the vibrators when they see that I'm near climax. It was torturing when Shinobu sit on my dick and was also enjoying herself as the vibrator on my dick was stimulating her too. Nana told me to move my hips to 'fuck' Shinobu. It was really like fucking Shinobu. Best tease and denial session! After 100 mins, Nana left and I was made to kiss her heels before she left. I was then collared by Shinobu and was made to worship her body. The best part is to come, Shinobu grabbed my head and forced it against her cleavage. I was smothered as my head was in between her cleavage. Her breasts is soft and tender and I stole a few kisses. Thereafter my head was pushed against her armpits and was forced to smell and taste her armpits. Her sweat is sweet and her womanly smell is heavenly. And the best part is she sat down while i was kneeling in front of her and she grabbed my head head and pushed it into her pussy. To my surprise she pulled away her panties and I was allowed to lick her pussy for a good 10 seconds! This is the first time I'm tasting the pussy of a chio Jap SYT and this 10 seconds feel like a lifetime! Last part was she sat on my dick again with a piece of diapers sheet (they used it for hygiene purpose, it's to place below the ass when they doing anal play to avoid the bed from getting dirty) in between her pussy and my dick and she took out a big vibrator, which normally we see it in divine bitches/meninpain videos which the mistresses use it to stimulate themself. She placed the vibrator in between my dick and her pussy and the vibration was powerful! It was stimulating my dick and her pussy at the same time and the both of us cum in no time. Her looks and expression when cumming was priceless. It was really like having sex with her but with no actualy penetration. Wow! Best session I've ever had.

Overall satisfaction : 10/10

Hope you all like my FRs. I really want to share these experiences with you all as it was really an eye-opener for me and it's an experience that no one should miss out if you're into femdom/bdsm.

Thank you.