Fell for a Thai whore

[anthonyKKW]

Thanks guys. Felt better now. I am quite disappointed with her too. On one hand she wants to retire quick, on the other hand she cannot live with a decent job (of course with much lower income)..

I'll probably text her again before I go BKK next month. If she goes out with me, that's good. If she doesn't, I’ll just pop by Nataree.

[notepad]

bro TS, i also go to bkk monthly. when is your next trip? mine is early next month.

[chanster]

This is a tactic , getting you out of desperate .. So when she list anything you will just agree and give ..

Very strong trap .. Beware

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Thanks guys. Felt better now. I am quite disappointed with her too. On one hand she wants to retire quick, on the other hand she cannot live with a decent job (of course with much lower income)..

I'll probably text her again before I go BKK next month. If she goes out with me, that's good. If she doesn't, I’ll just pop by Nataree.

all your plan still is for you to visit her. it just excuses for you to meet her.

for the next why don't you try finding other girls and move on from there. give her a cold shoulder for a few months and see her reaction. who know from there you realize she is not so important to you after all.

[fictionman]

Bro...Im not tryin to bring u down but do u see a future wz a WL??..I knw now while u r still head over heels wz her tt yr big brain doesnt function properly..All also no prob...In future, wat would u tell yr family & friends???...

[pakalolo]

I feel that WL are been harshly judge here,ask yourself why would a woman wants to sell her body if she have other choice?

Does being a WL mean one is condemn for life with no chance what so ever to lead a normal life again?

WL are women too as such they too would like to have a normal life with loving husband and a few kids.

Sure there are bad apples among the lots however lets be more forgiving to those who really want to turn their life around.

Everyone deserve a second chance in life that's what the yellow ribbon project is all about.

The bible say "He that is without sin among you let him cast the 1st stone"

[anthonyKKW]

Thanks guys.

This WL likes children a lot. I saw her FB communications with her friends... Unfortunately, her circle of friends are mostly WLs. She doesn't really know what she can do in BKK for a decent living without being a WL and she doesn't want to go back to hometown to do farming for 200bahts a day..quite sad for her actually.

Last round, when I was in BKK, without her, I was quite lonely. No one to chat with or go dinner/shopping with. All the activities in the MPs were all too transactional..and none wants to go dinner with me, they all need to work thru to midnight. Maybe I am just a boring SG guy..

Sigh. Just no luck for GFE. (Btw, I am quite sceptic about escort service...thought it is all so fake..).

[tenggiri]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Thanks guys. Felt better now. I am quite disappointed with her too. On one hand she wants to retire quick, on the other hand she cannot live with a decent job (of course with much lower income)..

I'll probably text her again before I go BKK next month. If she goes out with me, that's good. If she doesn't, I’ll just pop by Nataree.

Bro, i'll adv u not to go look for her again! You have been lucky so far as i can see you have been let off quite lightly by her already! Yes, i agree a WL is human too and deserves to be treated so but as long you have been good and fair with her, your consceince is clear.

Nataree is overflowing with chicks during the weekends why choose to bang the same one again????

Footnote: Some of these ladies keep several regulars and juggle them around like a Cirque de Soleil artiste before one or two falls off. You could have been one of them. Who knows? Don't bother to find out la...

[pakalolo]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Thanks guys.

This WL likes children a lot. I saw her FB communications with her friends... Unfortunately, her circle of friends are mostly WLs. She doesn't really know what she can do in BKK for a decent living without being a WL and she doesn't want to go back to hometown to do farming for 200bahts a day..quite sad for her actually.

Last round, when I was in BKK, without her, I was quite lonely. No one to chat with or go dinner/shopping with. All the activities in the MPs were all too transactional..and none wants to go dinner with me, they all need to work thru to midnight. Maybe I am just a boring SG guy..

Sigh. Just no luck for GFE. (Btw, I am quite sceptic about escort service...thought it is all so fake..).

Bro min wage in Thailand now is 300 a day and normal job like in the shopping centre is about 10000 a month and I am talking about north of Thailand,not sure about Bkk rate.
So if her financial burden is not great she can get by in Bkk but won't be enough to send home to some lazy relative except to support her kids.

As for girls with GFE you will have better chance with girls from beer bar if you are not fussy about looks,best time to start hunting is just after lunch time say around 1pm.
I met a few this way and if the chemistry is right she will be with you for the rest of your stay in BKK

AGG girls mostly only ST these days even if go LT will leave at 7 or 8am worse some will come up with "my sister no key" story after 1 shot.

[anthonyKKW]

Her financial burden in BkK is not great. Apartment rental is 3500baht a month, but need to send money to brother and papa in hometown who all refuse to work.

10000baht a month should be survivable and no need to be miserable... Good thing is that she quitted her gambling habits. She gambled a lot when she was bao-ed previously since money was easy. Now got to work, it's hard earned money for her, so she stopped gambling big.

How best do I help her to get out of WL? Is there social services where she can go seek help? I noticed she has low self esteem outside her circle of WL friends...

Btw, I got no future with this WL because I am married and has 2 kids. She also know we got no future that's why she never acknowledged me as her bf.

[stillgottheblue]

You said she will be working for another 2 years before retiring. How to help like that?

[anthonyKKW]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

You said she will be working for another 2 years before retiring. How to help like that?

Two month ago, she told me her target savings (which I cannot remember) and that she is getting old and only can work for another 2 years. I didn't volunteer to help her financially.

I still feel there is some good heart in her. At least she didn't sweet talk me...no matter how much I asked her to, she just refused. When I sweet talk her, she gave me disgusting look. When I sweet talk her too much, she will ask me if I want to marry her and she knows my answer.

My real desire: hope that she can get out of WL, find a proper husband and have a great family.

[pakalolo]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Her financial burden in BkK is not great. Apartment rental is 3500baht a month, but need to send money to brother and papa in hometown who all refuse to work.

10000baht a month should be survivable and no need to be miserable... Good thing is that she quitted her gambling habits. She gambled a lot when she was bao-ed previously since money was easy. Now got to work, it's hard earned money for her, so she stopped gambling big.

How best do I help her to get out of WL? Is there social services where she can go seek help? I noticed she has low self esteem outside her circle of WL friends...

Btw, I got no future with this WL because I am married and has 2 kids. She also know we got no future that's why she never acknowledged me as her bf.

That is the whole trouble with these lazy relative, they think that their sister/cousin/daughter are endless gold mine.mind you some make it known to the girls that they are expected to keep working in the sex industry just to keep the cash coming in.

To make matter worse these girls just feel obligated to help them just becoz of some screw up tradition of having to take care of the less well off family member

It is no wonder that the weaker one will snap and you will find some of the older WL going bonker due to the pressure,sad case.

One WL told me that in her next life even if she is born poor she don't want to be re born a poor Thai

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Is there no end to this madness????

Madness, I can concur. But I guess we are just mortals who are searching for the love in the wrong places.

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by Black_Hawk_Up

all your plan still is for you to visit her. it just excuses for you to meet her.

for the next why don't you try finding other girls and move on from there. give her a cold shoulder for a few months and see her reaction. who know from there you realize she is not so important to you after all.

How to move on, his 'small head' are controlling him