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Re: my affair with my sis in law
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I won't whin much but all i can say now the only content now for me is having and watching my 2 beautiful warrior princess growing up. The rest of it i really just let it be as it is........... ![]() |
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
Bro Seowlang I support u man ,who in this world won't want this or shall I say which cat don't eat fish.most important of all is
不再互天长地久,只再互曾经永有。 I believe that all the bro really envy ur truly encounter and it is really onces in a life time that u find a true love ,well remember all the beautiful moment that u are wif J and keep it deep inside bottom of your heart ,and move on wif yours.story is always the same ,girl that u marry may not be your most beloved gal but u will have to accept whatever have happen |
#363
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
I don't think you did the wrong thing. (In fact, I don't believe in "the wrong thing") What would you be if this did not happened? Would you really give up the experience and the things you learnt, if you could?
I think we all make ridiculously stupid mistakes at times, but it is through that we learn and become wiser. I believe in these 2 types of people, 1 who would rather be ignorant and happy and another who would rather suffer but grow wiser. (But then again, I guess that when you're wise, you won't perceive suffering as suffering.) So it really depends on what kind of person you are. But I doubt you are the former, are you? |
#364
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
Bro Seowlang,
All these pains are not the end here....when your SIL gets a bf and brings him home and you guys have to have family dinner together....fuuaaahhh...u will be burning hot....when she gets married and you hv to go home and imagine how her new hubby is humping her and u hear her moaning...u gonna go nuts!! If she is other woman, she will just disappear into the crowd but in your case...she is your SIL and she will appear in front of you for the rest of your life! Talk about a life time of suffering man! You better be prepared! I'm not a sicko but just telling you whats coming soon...akan datang.... ![]() |
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The best thing about life is you will not get your report card tomorrow but you will only get it at the end of your life& it not shown to you but shown to the other that are still alived... The best thing about human is we live to learn , we learn to adapt we adapt to live... Just my 2cents worth of tots... Cheers and Prost peace no war
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The dumb will never learn from mistake The clever learn from his own mistake The smart will learn from other mistake Cheers and Prost peace no war
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
Originally Posted by 8387
it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. Quote:
like i said, together with bro 88387's statement, yours made this numbed skull thought for quite a while. i kinda of agree with u initially but after much thinking, maybe not. the best scenario was seriously to have done mission impossible (to be at least) ie. to have rejected J and never started this. It would have just stayed the way it is: she having a crush on me and me fantasizing about her. period. it is a very different case if J was married. if that was the case, probably it could only be lust between us. had it ended, it would be less unpleasant and sadness as no emotions were involved. ok, let me amend that to LESSER emotions involved. I totally agree with Bella's take that as long as its an affair, emotions and feelings are involved. its total bollacks if someone says no. those who dont know about Bella, go read her thread under "a woman's perspective". great insights from a woman's point of view. anyway, what happened has already happened. u r absolutely right to say that i had someone who didnt belong to me in the first place.
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
In many cases, we just think of the kids. we want them to grow up in a normal family environment. we so-called bear with the 'suffering' or whatever u call it. Unless we have reach the breakpoint
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#369
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
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![]() Seowlang, as much as I want to comfort you, you'll move on fine... It's either becos u r in the phase you don't have "someone now" or becos u still have to face her now and then. U knew it was never meant to be for have you seriously considered swapping the status of the sisters? Good night, Bella
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
tissue paper please ..........
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Bro, pls cont ur wonderful story! Or has it ended, dun keep us waiting pls !
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I think it's a blessing in disguise that the SIL found the courage to call an end to the r/s, because my guess is it's very difficult for TS bro to stop it himself.. because the fact is there will be no good ending or happily ever after... the process is just so sweet to want it to end. Well, in this light, casting all irrational thoughts aside, it's a good ending in itself. Imagine what disaster it will be if wifey found out: - Family mayhem -
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
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Can I handle I? i would honestly like to answer u *in my most macho voice that i can muster* "yes i can". but the truth is, i cant. my prob with J clearly spells it all. I am really surprise at how writing it out helped me alot to clear up fustrations and pent up feelings. i would say that i am recovering alright and if i have to rate myself from 1 to 10 (with 10 being totally recovered), i would say i was a 4-5 before writing and prolly a 7 or maybe even 8 now? I cant really say the same for J though but she is progressing along fine. On hindside, maybe i should have started the thread earlier and would have the courage to meet samsters here for drinks when i needed someone to talk to most. drinking alone in a pub (and belting out songs) really made me seriously looked like a bloody loser but i didnt had a choice back then. you last question was something i asked myself and also posted earlier in the thread.. let me repost what i wrote.. quote I shudder to think if one day my wife were to grab my shoulders, ask me to look into her eyes and ask: am i the person u love the most in your life? unquote from above, im sure u know my answer. have a great day ahead! cheers seowlang
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
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using a phrase i have learnt from bros here, i had someone that doesnt belong to me in the first place. therefore, why on earth am i unhappy if she can find happiness with another man? i have mentioned that one of the reasons why im sure protective over J is bcos she is a very vulnerable girl that may be too fragile for this cruel world. i just dont want to see her being hurt.
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Re: my affair with my sis in law
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"the process is just so sweet to want it to end." process was bitter sweet and also, i was living day by day, not knowing how to end too.. its totally different from what u said. still, u summed it up very well. cheers
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