my tragic story with a thai FL.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Add-on: You will recover in 3-5 years time. Getting out of this mess is half-done, you need to stop licking wounds and get practical to work out a plan to sort out your loans repayment and a new life ($$$ is important). Kindly channel your negative anger and mind toward positive and constructive new roads and to change things in your new life. Thanks for sharing with us. Good luck!

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by fedomme

now 油价 will go up lao

You just look at the EIA data ba

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by etct88

Many good advice given....no need to repeat,

Should be "MUCH good advice given..." as "Advice" is a non countable noun.

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

the lessson learned braddah is to stay away from dark-skinned women from the third world countries. i feel for you braddah, but it could have been worse. these women got nothing to lose and play you for a game. doesnt it define logic for a SG man to pair up with a thai girl from backwoods thailand?

Wah lan eh... see this kind of post sibei hot arh!

Bro, who the fuck are you to dictate that there are no good girls in Thailand or any other countries?

You go find white-skinned women from 1st world countries lor!

[AhKel]

Originally Posted by Cheonging101

Wah lan eh... see this kind of post sibei hot arh!

Bro, who the fuck are you to dictate that there are no good girls in Thailand or any other countries?

You go find white-skinned women from 1st world countries lor!

cmon bro....dun be so hot la......yes there are good women in thailand....but from what everyone see in tis forum......most of rs ends up like mine...if not worse....WL really cant be trusted....unless.....

1) U dun mind her occupation (like i did)
2) U really know her for long time....claws...true colour pattern all see be4 liao.
3) she still stick with you after meeting other men.
4) dun mind ur puny flat...average payin job (co-related to pt 2)

then u can START thinkin abt more.....

or end up like me....if not worse off...

[fazer6s]

Lets not stereotype WL or dark skinned ladies or etc gals cos there have been also a certain number of bros who had luck with these gals.Gals who really do want to have a "cleaner" life for themselves.
Being in these forum I'm sure bros here will want to share their despair,sad ness and etc so in order to forewarn us and put us in a better path (not being KCed) on that note I thank fellow fallen bros.
As we all know generally speaking gals in this trade tend to be more money consious and materialistic and more.
Hence to find a real & truthful gal to spend the rest of your life with regardless of their past is remote but not impossible.
There are obviouly persepction,expectations on all parties in all of us

[baby85]

明天会更好

glad u woke up finally

n next time , don even fall in FL's lies so easily

take care bro

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by baby85

明天会更好

glad u woke up finally

n next time , don even fall in fl's lies so easily

take care bro

谁说明天会跟好？ 生命不是一首歌。好不好是看你选的路。

[President]

Originally Posted by baby85

明天会更好

glad u woke up finally

n next time , don even fall in FL's lies so easily

take care bro

Enough said, and saw lots of similar incidents happened b4, learn from other's experiences and dont try to be the actor and change the results, 99% the result is same.

You already wake up, so move on, 明天会更好

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

生命就是一首歌 - 每个人写下的心路旅程. 谁也不可能改写. 自己作词，自己谱曲，自己吟唱. 有了明天的人，就沒有眼淚，那怕今天受盡了痛苦與災難 - 挺过去，明天会更好

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by AhKel

no worries mate...of cse i went for checkup and stuff.....when i applied long term social visit pass for her got checkup for both of us.....only regretted reading bro harvest's thread 10 mths late......

1 thing that cannot be denied is tat i knew both of our love for each other is real....but in the end she eat her words and choose money

Alamak bro! How could u!??

Anyway, reading your story sure sounds like reading my own diary 10 years ago when I started out as a naive cheongster meeting my first thai tirak. But luckily I didn't marry her in the end, just supported her financially for a year only. Hehe.

You know, I had all the same justifications as you are having right now. But over the years I have come to realize that this is all part of typical Thai culture esp in the rural areas where fighting against poverty back home is the girl's #1 priority in life. Many kind bros have offered their valuable advice here so I shall not repeat them again. I've only these 3 pointers for you: When you made a mistake...

1) Admit it
2) Learn from it
3) Don't repeat it again

Take care bro.

[HCKing]

WL or non-WL, when come to choosing wife better be very very careful and never based on impulse. if not once the cert is signed the guy will be screwed big time!

[LCL7788]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

the lessson learned braddah is to stay away from dark-skinned women from the third world countries. i feel for you braddah, but it could have been worse. these women got nothing to lose and play you for a game. doesnt it define logic for a SG man to pair up with a thai girl from backwoods thailand?

Bro

Sometimes your postings are harsh but I think you still come across as meaning well. At other times.....
>Sighz<
This is one of them.
There is no need to be so malicious and vindictive lah. Relak leh.

Has the TS, his ex or the Thai people done anything to you to warrant such hate and anger?
Cannot be mah.
The racist and xenophobic tone of your post is very unacceptable leh.
especially in this globalized day and age.
What if one day most sinkies have to work for these 'dark skinned 3rd world people" then how arh? Many of them have more ambition and drive.
Go jump off a building?
Your vendetta agst foreigners is cute.
But crude. It also reflects your own ethnocentric and racist thinking.
Aren't there plenty of 'dark skinned' Singaporeans both native and foreign born already amongst us?
Here in sammyboy too.
Your idea of Singaporeanness seems to exclude them. Cannot like that lah. You never learn anything in school and NS? This kind of thinking already outmoded last century. If you carry on like that there might be no future for you.
You dont like PRCs you dont like dark skinned people you dont like third world countries. Might as well stay at home and wait for the world to end.
Like it or not the current third world is the future.
You might not like them but PRC and India will be major players in the world in the future. They will one day not be third world anymore.
And where will your small mind be?

Its not that you dont have a point.
Any r/s specifically exploiting the vast economic disparity of the two people involved esp if cross country kind is always going to carry some kind of extra baggage.
Even if not with a whore , mail order bride also sama sama.
Can really trust and communicate that smoothly meh? Got exceptions of cuz but I generally have many doubts.

But no matter what no need to be racist lah.

With whores of any skin color its a diff thing.
Cultural differences also play their part but I think you got to make a clear distiinction btw whores & non-whores in general.
Sounds a bit mean and stereotyping but read through this ENTIRE section and you'll get the feeling that whores are not or serious r/s
They are in a diff game and even when you want to exploit them they also end up exploiting and playing with you more.
Some bros will say the past is not impt.
Even if thatz true You can overlook a whore's past but can you overlook the fact that 99% of the time the "feeling" you have with her is FAKE?
Dont let your ego and heart rule you.
See and feel the truth early is the best.
There is usually no future in such r/s so unless you are a player who knows how to move then better not also lah.

Bro TS you have all our sympathy. Hope you can bounce back real soon!!

[baby85]

Originally Posted by DO_I_BJ

谁说明天会跟好？ 生命不是一首歌。好不好是看你选的路。

if u look at e bad side of ur life , u would be living in sadness

if u look at a better side of ur life, u would be living in a bit more happiness

whether e road ahead is good or bad , he still have to walk , but walking it sadly everyday or happily everyday is up to TS himself to decide ..

明天会更好 is wen he choose to look at e bright side

#sorry for e bad english

[Royster79]

This story serves as a good reminder to all bros here including me..