Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[69ASIMO69]

I do have a wife which is also a Vietnamese... We are married for closed to 2yrs and we have a cute son which is close to 9mths old now. Recently I get to know a Working Viet gal.... Usually I am those who know I have a family at home.... I just fuck and pay tats all...... Now this gal really given me those sweet days of courtship..... I have been going out after work more often now, always giving reasons like entertainment with customer. Starting to go hay wire already..... Recently I do think back am I too young to get married as I am only coming to 28 with a gd job and a nice car with no lack of gals if I were to party nightly like what I am in the past.... Now I feel my life seems boring as I am a family man now but in terms of financial I have been taking care of my family well providing them comfortably but in terms of mindship.... I think I am still not mature to get married... I still have that party spirit in my heart...... Feelling shit!!! I dont wanna spoilt my marriage as I dote my son to the fullest and wanted to give him the best enviroment and growing up happiness.... But on the other hand I feel if I carried on flirting with the viet gal, I may ruin my marriage 1 day as I have been doing things behind my wife's back now with his gal... I feel if I dont stop now, 1 day.... something sure happen.... It will be either my wife found my sparephone and simcard and all things will be reveal to her.... Wanna stop all e nonsense but no determination!!!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69

But on the other hand I feel if I carried on flirting with the viet gal, I may ruin my marriage 1 day as I have been doing things behind my wife's back now with his gal... I feel if I dont stop now, 1 day.... something sure happen.... It will be either my wife found my sparephone and simcard and all things will be reveal to her.... Wanna stop all e nonsense but no determination!!!

Honeymoon love is always the sweetest but once this period gone, life will be back to normal.

Trust me, assume u broke with current and marry this WL. Soon u will find another attractive ger and this will start over again. The reason is simple u will never get enough of attractive gers.

U r adult and married with kid. Be mature, think of your family. U r not like teenagers when puppy love is so beautiful. See 1 ger love 1 ger.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69

I do have a wife which is also a Vietnamese... We are married for closed to 2yrs and we have a cute son which is close to 9mths old now. Recently I get to know a Working Viet gal....

Dump the WL and go back to your family ...
Re-ignate the flame between you and your wife by going for a romantic holiday.

Going oversea will also means staying away from the viet WL for awhile

I understand how it feels to be 'in love again' especially with puppy love. I get to know 2 vb recently. 1 can bonk, 1 is so lovey dovey. I choosed the lovey dovey one and brought her out for straight 3 days. Today she go back vn and will not be coming back again.

End of the day, I still feel that my galfriend is the best.

[coper99]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69
I still have that party spirit in my heart...... tell u a story.. i was jus like u wen i got married at 30.. party spirit simply refuse 2 die off.. do it 4 a few mths,n wen fear of gettin caught sets in,i stop.. n i would do it again wen my fear subsides.. e kicks u get fr it,,r simply amazin.. but..it means puttin my family on e line. e curtains finally came down aft 7 years wen i was caught red handed! divorced now,for nearly 8years,..payin alimony every mth but stil gets 2 talk 2 my ex wife like a frd n sees my kids every now n then,,basically family is stil intact but not livin 2gether though,,. now,e best part of e deal is,,i get 2 party as n wen i like w/o any fear n gets 2 keep my family in a way,hehe.. marrige 4 me again,? over my dead body.. not an encouragement 2 u but a true life story of my own.. n purely 4 ur reference.. afterall e decision is stil yours 2 make,, jus decide wisely dude.. gd day..

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by naemlo

See 1 ger love 1 ger.

I still like that lei "see 1 ger love 1 ger...!!" how!!!???

damn tiring but still got the grin on my face... heh heh heh..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

I still like that lei "see 1 ger love 1 ger...!!" how!!!???

I see 1 ger, want to boom boom 1.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69

I do have a wife which is also a Vietnamese... We are married for closed to 2yrs and we have a cute son which is close to 9mths old now. Recently I get to know a Working Viet gal.... Usually I am those who know I have a family at home....

KC trap here is very strong...

Bro...you went thru all the trouble to marry this Vn wife...you meant you want to give it all up and re-do all over again...this time involves a painful divorce and long waiting time for court to finalise...alot of legal money and alimony involved...

WL is open for money...they ruin families...

Bro Naemlo said and I quote " I somehow dun trust FL / WL..."
My suggestion - just pay and have fun or have another baby with your wife...

[strauss88]

i read this thread and find many bros here are very much in the know abt life in vietnam. Any bros here can tell how much it takes to get a driver's license and taxi license in south vietnam? Is it difficult to earn a living as a taxi driver. Am thinking of helping my BIL as it seems that work don't come easy there...any other ideas?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by strauss88

i read this thread and find many bros here are very much in the know abt life in vietnam. Any bros here can tell how much it takes to get a driver's license and taxi license in south vietnam? Is it difficult to earn a living as a taxi driver. Am thinking of helping my BIL as it seems that work don't come easy there...any other ideas?

with a foreigner as BIL, of course tell you work difficult to find la. driving license will cost you around 6 to 8 million vnd while to drive a taxi, you need to place over 10 million vnd as deposit with cab company.

[strauss88]

that is quite a bill...how much can a taxi driver earn? was thinking of the roi...

[KangTuo]

Communication...

Do you bros tell or discuss with your viet wife/galfriend things that you are doing (in process) or tell them after it is done (got result).

Yesterday my galfriend press me for an answer of when I do complete my divorce. I am actually in the process of doing it but never tell her about it. I thought that when the deal is done, I will tell her about the it. But she blamed me for not informing her the progress.

She say I always never share with her things that is going on (not only on the above matter). I will tell only when asked.

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by strauss88

that is quite a bill...how much can a taxi driver earn? was thinking of the roi...

Huh..a lot? Maybe in terms of no of millions..but honestly, 20 millions thereabout is less than Sing$ 1,500.
I always feel like an elite from Sing everytime I go Vn...cos I have tens of million VND in my pocket...ehhehe

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

She say I always never share with her things that is going on (not only on the above matter). I will tell only when asked.

Guess depends on character.... for me, I won't say anything till it is concreted. I am someone who just keep every shits by myself which sometime is bad.

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

I always feel like an elite from Sing everytime I go Vn...cos I have tens of million VND in my pocket...ehhehe

No wonder u spent like king when u in Hanoi. BTW u always keep millions of swimmers too. Ba xa oi....

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Communication...

Do you bros tell or discuss with your viet wife/galfriend things that you are doing (in process) or tell them after it is done (got result).

For me, it depends on what the issue/thing is....If its something that concerns her or have something to do with the kids and family as a whole, i will discuss with her...

If its my own personal issues and things that does not really affect her, then I will just carry on and tell if she ask.

Sometimes, some things are better left unsaid and undiscussed so that it can be done without much fuss....But I think they key is to let them know that even if we do not tell them some things, we are doing it with their interests in mind..

[sundance]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Communication...

Do you bros tell or discuss with your viet wife/galfriend things that you are doing (in process) or tell them after it is done (got result).

Yesterday my galfriend press me for an answer of when I do complete my divorce. I am actually in the process of doing it but never tell her about it. I thought that when the deal is done, I will tell her about the it. But she blamed me for not informing her the progress.

She say I always never share with her things that is going on (not only on the above matter). I will tell only when asked.

I am going through a divorce which I hope to finalize soon and have told my Viet girlfriend about what is going on. She is very understanding and supportive. There are some things I don't discuss because it may not be of much interest (e.g. work). It depends on your relationship. I trust her and have never been disappointed so far.