Questions.....

[iporn]

hi, wanna ask if a family member juz passed away recently, isit 'ok' to go call pros still? or isit kinda 'sinful'?
thx

[Silent=Killer]

Originally Posted by iporn

hi, wanna ask if a family member juz passed away recently, isit 'ok' to go call pros still? or isit kinda 'sinful'?
thx

I believe its not the way to start your opening by asking whether any bros' family member juz passed away anot. IMHO, its rude!

Maybe you should go to temple or church to ask the priests there whether is it sinful anot instead of SBF.

[LostALau]

Ethically speaking, it is not right to enjoy oneself during a period of mourning.
According to some religious sources, one should not even make love with own wife or husband. It is considered very sinful.

I know of a case where a guy make love to his wife during the first few days of bereavement of his mum. He lost his job and fortune soon after. His luck was very bad and was down for the next twenty thirty years. His is still alive today probably because he is a kind person.

Another young guy went travelling overseas during the loss of his grandparent. He was killed in a car accident in the foreight country. This case was reported in the papers.

The above cases may be coincidental. Believe it or not, up to you brother.

[liberatte]

True story...
I was fucking my wife on the night of her grandma's passing.
I kena 2nd price Magnum the next day. For the next few weeks, I kena
a meelee of numbers...

However, its about how you actually take it. If you feel its wrong, then don't do it. If you feel that the mourning period its a taboo to even jack off, then don't. If you think its right, then nobody is stopping you to do anything behind closed doors. just a humble opinion.

[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by iporn

hi, wanna ask if a family member juz passed away recently, isit 'ok' to go call pros still? or isit kinda 'sinful'?
thx

errrrrr............. i heard from "unreliable" sources that we got to abstain from sex with gf/wife/fling/fb/pros and even PCCing for a period of 24 months...........

[BigBoy2]

"unreliable" sources that we got to abstain from sex with gf/wife/fling/fb/pros and even PCCing for a period of 24 months...........

[/QUOTE]

Bro, I think in accordance to older generation Chinese, there should not be any form of enjoyment 3 FULL YEARS not 24 mths la........

BB2

[deptrai4u]

Well, if that family member is your wife whom you have been trying to get rid of without paying alimony... then celebrate and organise a mass orgy instead!

[iporn]

thx for all the answers~ glad some of u answered my queries properly

[edmundhello]

Originally Posted by BigBoy2

"unreliable" sources that we got to abstain from sex with gf/wife/fling/fb/pros and even PCCing for a period of 24 months...........

Bro, I think in accordance to older generation Chinese, there should not be any form of enjoyment 3 FULL YEARS not 24 mths la........

BB2[/QUOTE]

If either 24mths or 3 years is the case, I think my songka will be next.

[LostALau]

Originally Posted by BigBoy2

"unreliable" sources that we got to abstain from sex with gf/wife/fling/fb/pros and even PCCing for a period of 24 months...........

Bro, I think in accordance to older generation Chinese, there should not be any form of enjoyment 3 FULL YEARS not 24 mths la........

BB2[/QUOTE]

I feel that whether it is 24 months or 3 years is only arbitrary. It is a time span set by man. The reason behind it is if a person is bereaved, he should not be having fun for a certain period of time as a sign or respect for the dead and also to show his sadness over the loss.

If a person has no feeling for the dead, no matter what close relationship they have, he can heck care and go on to enjoy himself. Whether there is retribution, it is up to individual to believe.

[XR29]

It depend on how close the relationship is bet u and the dead...But I dun think u still have to mood to enjoy if the dead is someone close to u....

[bangbangben]

This is all about traditions and belief...

You believe the belief than you follow...
No point going to pray to god when you don't believe.
No point going say I love you when you don't.

If you are not superstitious, there is nothing to follow.

Karma or not depends on your belief again.

Talk so much also no use la. Wanna fuck just fuck, if the person dead is someone real close, I think this will affect your mood and you won’t even be asking this question

[Bangerboy]

Originally Posted by bangbangben

This is all about traditions and belief...

You believe the belief than you follow...
No point going to pray to god when you don't believe.
No point going say I love you when you don't.

Agree with u.

[kumsiatiko]

I'm Free Thinker

[poison]

if u have need, then i think u will want to upload.

else just pcc lor.