得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

[tattoofetish22]

like wat's stated in e thread.... do u agree tt be it whether is in r/s or watever tt u wanted so much to have/get but cant get/have it n e tot of it keeps running ard in ur mind???? normally u can't concentrate in doing ur daily routine s per norm cos u been pondering over it??? can sumbody pls advice???? cos I'm encountering some of tis kinda problems n I'm gg bonkers soon!!!!

[tattoofetish22]

tired is e only word I can tink of nw!!!! Lost of interest in doin my daily routines!!!!! Omfg...... tis is sibei unlike me!!!!!shit!!!! I tink it's reali bothering me!!!! been a wk n been tryin 2 make myself nt tink of him but juz dunno y it's runnin ard in my mind!!!! WTF is wrong w me???

你要结束我还想要付出，能不能最后的吻，能不能幸福没有伤痕。爱你爱到恨了你，恨你让我如此爱你，我恨你， 我恨你但是我更爱你。

[tattoofetish22]

我的離開 對你卻是自在
就算沒有她 你說結局也是分開
能不能捲土重來 能不能我等你回來
你的孤獨 對我卻是酸楚
愛走到末路 你要結束我還想付出
能不能最後的吻 能不能幸福沒有傷痕
愛你愛到恨了你 恨你讓我如此愛
我恨你 我恨你 但是我更愛你
愛你愛到恨了你 恨你讓我如此愛
不恨你 不恨你 那是不夠愛你
最愛最恨都是你 最愛最恨都是你


e above lyrics describe my feeling for him nw even though thr's no 3rd party at all

[boyzilian]

girl , let and let die . time will dilute the yearning , lust and love .

[magical]

This kind of feeling can last for years, i can understand cos i hv been thru. Everytime i go somewhere, i start looking into the crowd hoping to see her face.

And the worst thing i had done is looking for a galfren who looks like her to replace what i missed. And i found out later in life that although she resembles her, there is alot more missing other than resemblance. Nothing can replaced.

Either you do what u hv to do now to be with him, otherwise u will end up just like me, always looking for a replacement to fill up the empty void left behind.

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by magical

This kind of feeling can last for years, i can understand cos i hv been thru. Everytime i go somewhere, i start looking into the crowd hoping to see her face.

And the worst thing i had done is looking for a galfren who looks like her to replace what i missed. And i found out later in life that although she resembles her, there is alot more missing other than resemblance. Nothing can replaced.

Either you do what u hv to do now to be with him, otherwise u will end up just like me, always looking for a replacement to fill up the empty void left behind.

Looking for replacements wil nvr b fair for both parties!!!!!
juz dunno y I juz can't let go!!!!

[5ilver]

you can let go. and you will. go no contact and make yourself busy with other things.
the more you pine over him, the more you clingy and unattractive you will seem to him and the only end result is that you will push him away further.

going no contact, you will gradually think of him less and will help you heal yourself, and is your best chance to get his attention (in a good way). it's not a guarantee, but it's your best chance to get him. and if not, it won't matter because by then you'd not care at all. i know, because i was in the same boat. you'll get through this! i'm with you in spirit! remove everything about him from your life and find yourself!

[magical]

It happen more than twenty years ago, every now n then, i playback the events on my mind. If i can turn the clock backwards, i will never let her leave. It was pride, arrogant, dignity and i was young then and my world was so big, i totally ignored her. Yes now i have my regrets. I even took the trouble to find out where she lives n work but i hv no guts to approach her n anyway she is divorced with 2 kids. Sometimes when i m down, i drive all the way near her house just to catch a glimpse of her from far. And how i know she divorced from facebook lor.

I think u r just like me. It will come back n haunt u every now n then.

[keke]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

Looking for replacements wil nvr b fair for both parties!!!!!
juz dunno y I juz can't let go!!!!

You are still too young, after several years you will notice it is just a trivial, a experience, and not important at all

[Pilot Preceda]

Originally Posted by magical

It happen more than twenty years ago, every now n then, i playback the events on my mind. If i can turn the clock backwards, i will never let her leave. It was pride, arrogant, dignity and i was young then and my world was so big, i totally ignored her. Yes now i have my regrets. I even took the trouble to find out where she lives n work but i hv no guts to approach her n anyway she is divorced with 2 kids. Sometimes when i m down, i drive all the way near her house just to catch a glimpse of her from far. And how i know she divorced from facebook lor.

I think u r just like me. It will come back n haunt u every now n then.

Actually i got attracted by the title "得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?"
For my situation, it was "得到了又不会珍惜最怀念的，最遗憾的。"

My first love was the perfect girl (attitude, behaviour, face, figure)...
But during that time I was looking for greener pasture as I thought I could find a better one (was young and dumb that time)...
Then after the breakup (which I initiated), immediately i felt a sharp pain in my heart and she left with face full of tears (i think she must be 5 or 10 times more painful than me)...
Yes and now years on, i still feel the pain in me, although i have a wife now and she is good but still no where near her...
And like bro magical said, I drove to the place she works to catch a glimpse of her but no guts to approach her...
One most agonizing moment was when I just stood 2 meters away from her back while she was carrying a heavy load and I have no guts to offer to help her, just stood there and tears poured down my eyes...
5 years past and until now she still remained single and no bf after me...
I think I've ruined her life...

But i think time is still the best remedy...
Somehow human beings need to learn, either the hard way or the soft way...
I learned the hard way and my advice for those bros who always like to flirt and look around........PLEASE CHERISH THE ONE BESIDE YOU NOW!!!

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by Pilot Preceda

"得到了又不会珍惜
5 years past and until now she still remained single and no bf after me...
I think I've ruined her life...

But i think time is still the best remedy...
Somehow human beings need to learn, either the hard way or the soft way...
I learned the hard way and my advice for those bros who always like to flirt and look around........PLEASE CHERISH THE ONE BESIDE YOU NOW!!!

yes.....珍惜眼前人肯定没错的。否则会后悔莫及。

tt's I tink it's rather true than u cherish watever u have nw!!!!! cos u nvr knw when is e next moment u gonna lose e person/thing.
ppl always say I'm nt thinking rational enuff when it comes to things like tt.... I dun deny e fact tt i'll put in more effort than anybody when it comes to emotional....is tt bcos I'm lack of self confi??? I always ask myself y m I always at e losing end??? cos I'm a lady? NO!!!!! I'm losing cos I'm investing too much emotions!!!! maybe it's juz me who is plain dumb to ppl who r always nice & dotes me!!!!! at e end of e day, do wat i deem fit n follow my heart is all I do nw!!!!


I thank all of u for ur advices n apologize if I've made u tink of ur unhappy n 痛苦's past!!!! thks ppl!!!! E world wun stop spinnin due to a lil setback

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Pilot Preceda

Actually i got attracted by the title "得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?"
For my situation, it was "得到了又不会珍惜最怀念的，最遗憾的。"

One most agonizing moment was when I just stood 2 meters away from her back while she was carrying a heavy load and I have no guts to offer to help her, just stood there and tears poured down my eyes...
5 years past and until now she still remained single and no bf after me...
I think I've ruined her life...

But i think time is still the best remedy...
Somehow human beings need to learn, either the hard way or the soft way...
I learned the hard way and my advice for those bros who always like to flirt and look around........PLEASE CHERISH THE ONE BESIDE YOU NOW!!!

altho i have no power but up u in my heart bro

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

珍惜眼前人肯定没错的。否则会后悔莫及

遗憾有时是伴随着后悔的情景. 失去了他,实在可惜. 他已走远, 就让内心一点点残存的残念陪着你吧! 因为后悔是比损失更大的损失, 比错误更大的错误. 调整你的视线, 生命正在驶向下一站, 不要在伤感中错失沿途的景观.

Perhaps you might want to read this:
http://samsforum.asia/showthread.php?t=232578

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

遗憾有时是伴随着后悔的情景. 失去了他,实在可惜. 他已走远, 就让内心一点点残存的残念陪着你吧! 因为后悔是比损失更大的损失, 比错误更大的错误. 调整你的视线, 生命正在驶向下一站, 不要在伤感中错失沿途的景观.

Perhaps you might want to read this:
http://samsforum.asia/showthread.php?t=232578

Thks!!!! I'm ok nw!!!

[tattoofetish22]

你在我心里已不存在了！！！！我已死心了！！！

当女人对你说心灰意冷时，她真的是对你没有任何留念了！！！