Going limp during sex

[hornyboy9000]

So recently I got this issue. I was having sex and about to ejaculate but managed to hold it in. Although I never cum, my penis start to become soft. I try to get it hard but cannot.

Is this ED? What should I do about it?

[Acemann]

See your doctor

[cloudangel]

Originally Posted by hornyboy9000

So recently I got this issue. I was having sex and about to ejaculate but managed to hold it in. Although I never cum, my penis start to become soft. I try to get it hard but cannot.

Is this ED? What should I do about it?

Most likely... go visit your nearest GP and probably get a Cialis or Viagra prescribed to you

[larue]

Originally Posted by cloudangel

Most likely... go visit your nearest GP and probably get a Cialis or Viagra prescribed to you

Just like that you can tell??? Truly expert.

TS you have DIY issues?

[Tremere]

I think checking with a doctor is better.

[tittylover]

It can be possibly a few things. Blood flow might be one of them. When you masturbate can you sustain an errected penis or go limp quickly as well?

[IAmAwesome]

Originally Posted by larue

TS you have DIY issues?

This could be a possibility as well

[porscheclub]

I had this problem & it's in the mind. Depends on who's the lady and how hard you want to screw her.

Train yourself next time and you may overcome it. It'll take quite a while though.

[Blue90]

Does eating Cialis or Viagra have any side effect??

[Big Sexy]

here is what a good friend of mine, Google has to says
http://www.rxlist.com/viagra-side-ef...rug-center.htm

Get emergency medical help if you have any of these signs of an allergic reaction: hives; difficulty breathing; swelling of your face, lips, tongue, or throat.

During sexual activity, if you become dizzy or nauseated, or have pain, numbness, or tingling in your chest, arms, neck, or jaw, stop and call your doctor right away. You could be having a serious side effect of sildenafil.

Stop using sildenafil and call your doctor at once if you have a serious side effect such as:

sudden vision loss;
ringing in your ears, or sudden hearing loss;
chest pain or heavy feeling, pain spreading to the arm or shoulder, nausea, sweating, general ill feeling;
irregular heartbeat;
swelling in your hands, ankles, or feet;
shortness of breath;
vision changes;
feeling light-headed, fainting; or
penis erection that is painful or lasts 4 hours or longer.

Less serious side effects may include:

warmth or redness in your face, neck, or chest;
stuffy nose;
headache;
memory problems;
upset stomach; or
back pain.

Originally Posted by Blue90

Does eating Cialis or Viagra have any side effect??

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Blue90

Does eating Cialis or Viagra have any side effect??

Viagra side effects :

General
The most common adverse reactions reported in clinical trials are headache, flushing, dyspepsia, abnormal vision, nasal congestion, back pain, myalgia, nausea, dizziness, and rash.[Ref]

Cardiovascular
Very common (10% or more): Flushing (10%)
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Heart rate increased, palpitations, tachycardia, hypertension, hypotension
Rare (less than 0.1%): Myocardial infarction, atrial fibrillation, sudden cardiac death, ventricular arrhythmia, unstable angina
Frequency not reported: Ventricular arrhythmia, sudden cardiac death, angina pectoris, AV block, tachycardia, palpitation, hypotension, postural hypotension, myocardial ischemia, cerebral thrombosis, cardiac arrest, heart failure, abnormal electrocardiogram, cardiomyopathy, shock
Postmarketing reports: Serious cardiovascular, cerebrovascular, and vascular events, including myocardial infarction; sudden cardiac death; ventricular arrhythmia; cerebrovascular hemorrhage; transient ischemic attack; hypertension; subarachnoid, intracerebral, and pulmonary hemorrhage have been reported in temporal association with the use of this drug.[Ref]

Gastrointestinal
Very common (10% or more): Dyspepsia (up to 17%), diarrhea
Common (1% to 10%): Nausea, vomiting, dry mouth, gastritis, gastroesophageal reflux disease, hemorrhoids, abdominal distension
Rare (less than 0.1%): Oral hypoesthesia
Frequency not reported: Glossitis, colitis, dysphagia, gastroenteritis, esophagitis, stomatitis, gingivitis[Ref]

Musculoskeletal
Very common (10% or more): Pain in extremity
Common (1% to 10%): Back pain, myalgia
Frequency not reported: Arthritis, arthrosis, myalgia, tendon rupture, tenosynovitis, bone pain, myasthenia, synovitis[Ref]

Nervous system
Very common (10% or more): Headache (up to 28%)
Common (1% to 10%): Dizziness, migraine, tremor, paresthesia, burning sensation
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Somnolence, hypoesthesia
Rare (less than 0.1%): Cerebrovascular accident, syncope
Frequency not reported: Transient ischemic attack, seizure, seizure recurrence, ataxia, hypertonia, neuralgia, neuropathy, paresthesia, somnolence, reflexes decreased
Postmarketing reports: Transient global amnesia[Ref]

Ocular
Very common (10% or more): Abnormal vision (up to 11%)
Common (1% to 10%): Visual color distortion, retinal hemorrhage, visual impairment, vision blurred, photophobia, chromatopsia, cyanopsia, eye irritation, ocular hyperemia
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Conjunctival disorders, eye disorders, eye pain, lacrimation disorders, visual acuity reduced, diplopia, abnormal sensation in eye, photopsia, visual brightness, conjunctivitis
Rare (less than 0.1%): Retinal hemorrhage, arteriosclerotic retinopathy, retinal disorder, glaucoma, visual field defect, myopia, asthenopia, vitreous floaters, iris disorder, mydriasis, halo vision, eye edema, eye swelling, eyelid edema, scleral discoloration
Frequency not reported: Non-arteritic anterior ischemic optic neuropathy (NAION), retinal vascular occlusion, visual field defect, cataract[Ref]

This drug has lesser affinity for isoenzyme PDE6, an enzyme found in the retina. This lower selectivity is thought to be the basis for abnormalities related to color vision observed with higher doses or plasma levels.

Nonarteritic anterior ischemic optic neuropathy developed in one eye within minutes to hours after ingestion of sildenafil. Four of the five patients had no vascular risk factors for ischemic optic neuropathy.

-Abnormal Vision: Mild to moderate and transient, predominantly color tinge to vision, but also increased sensitivity to light, or blurred vision.
-Visual color distortions: Chloropsia, chromatopsia, cyanopsia, erythropsia and xanthopsia
-Lacrimation disorders: Dry eye, lacrimal disorder and lacrimation increased[Ref]

Respiratory
Very common (10% or more): Pharyngitis (18%), rhinitis
Common (1% to 10%): Nasal congestion, epistaxis, cough
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Sinus congestion
Rare (less than 0.1%): Throat tightness, nasal edema, nasal dryness
Frequency not reported: Asthma, dyspnea, laryngitis, pharyngitis, sinusitis, bronchitis, sputum increased, cough increased[Ref]

Dermatologic
Common (1% to 10%): Rash, alopecia, erythema, night sweats
Frequency not reported: Steven-Johnson syndrome (SJS), toxic epidermal necrolysis(TEN), urticaria, herpes simplex, pruritus, sweating, skin ulcer, contact dermatitis, exfoliative dermatitis[Ref]

Hematologic
Common (1% to 10%): Anemia
Frequency not reported: Leukopenia
Postmarketing reports: In patients with pulmonary arterial hypertension (secondary to sickle cell disease) taking Revatio (R), vaso-occlusive crises requiring hospitalization were more commonly reported. The clinical relevance of this finding in male patients treated with sildenafil (the active ingredient contained in Viagra) for erectile dysfunction is unknown.[Ref]

Metabolic
Common (1% to 10%): Fluid retention
Frequency not reported: Thirst, edema, gout, unstable diabetes, hyperglycemia, hyperuricemia, hypoglycemic reaction, hypernatremia[Ref]

Other
Common (1% to 10%): Cellulitis, influenza, bronchitis, sinusitis, rhinitis, gastroenteritis, vertigo, pyrexia
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Tinnitus, chest pain, fatigue, gynecomastia
Rare (less than 0.1%): Deafness, irritability
Frequency not reported: Sudden hearing loss, edema, face edema, peripheral edema, pain, chills accidental fall, accidental injury[Ref]

Psychiatric
Common (1% to 10%): Insomnia, anxiety
Frequency not reported: Abnormal dreams, depression[Ref]

Genitourinary
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Penile hemorrhage, hematospermia
Frequency not reported: Priapism, prolonged erection, increased erection, cystitis, nocturia, urinary frequency, urinary incontinence, abnormal ejaculation, genital edema, anorgasmia[Ref]

Renal
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Hematuria[Ref]

Hypersensitivity
Rare (less than 0.1%): Hypersensitivity reactions, including rash and urticaria[Ref]

Hepatic
Frequency not reported: Liver function tests abnormal[Ref]

[sammyboyfor]

Cialis side effects :

General
The most commonly reported adverse reactions were headache, nausea, dyspepsia, back pain, myalgia, flushing, nasopharyngitis, and pain in the extremity. These adverse reactions were dose dependent, transient, and generally mild or moderate.[Ref]

Cardiovascular
Most patients that experienced side effects such as myocardial infarction, sudden cardiac death, stroke, palpitations, and tachycardia had preexisting cardiovascular risk factors. Many of these events were reported to occur during or shortly after sexual activity.[Ref]

Very common (10% or more): Flushing (up to 14%)
Common (1% to 10%): Hypertension, hot flush
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Hypotension
Frequency not reported: Unstable angina pectoris, postural hypotension, ventricular arrhythmia
Postmarketing reports: Myocardial infarction, sudden cardiac death, stroke, chest pain, palpitations, and tachycardia, have been reported in temporal association with the use of this drug.[Ref]

Gastrointestinal
Very common (10% or more): Dyspepsia (up to 13%), nausea (up to 11%)
Common (1% to 10%): Diarrhea, gastroesophageal reflux disease, abdominal pain, gastroenteritis, constipation
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Vomiting
Frequency not reported: Dry mouth, dysphagia, esophagitis, gastritis, loose stools, nausea, upper abdominal pain, hemorrhoidal hemorrhage, rectal hemorrhage[Ref]

Musculoskeletal
Very common (10% or more): Myalgia (up to 14%), back pain (up to 12%), pain in extremity (up to 11%)
Common (1% to 10%): Pain in limb, musculoskeletal stiffness
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Arthralgia, muscle spasm
Frequency not reported: Neck pain[Ref]

Nervous system
Very common (10% or more): Headache (up to 42%)
Common (1% to 10%): Dizziness (1%)
Rare (less than 0.1%): Transient global amnesia, transient ischemic attacks
Frequency not reported: Hypesthesia, somnolence, syncope, paraesthesia
Postmarketing reports: Migraine, seizure and seizure recurrence[Ref]

Respiratory
Very common (10% or more): Nasopharyngitis (up to 13%), upper and lower respiratory tract infection (up to 13%)
Common (1% to 10%): Nasal congestion (including sinus congestion), cough, influenza, pulmonary hypertension, rhinitis
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Dyspnea, epistaxis
Frequency not reported: Pharyngitis[Ref]

Genitourinary
Common (1% to 10%): Urinary tract infection, menorrhagia (including uterine bleeding)
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Penile hemorrhage, hematospermia
Rare (less than 0.1%): Prolonged erections
Frequency not reported: Erection increased, spontaneous penile erection
Postmarketing reports: Priapism[Ref]

Other
In some of the cases, medical conditions and other factors were reported that may have also played a role in the otologic adverse events. In many cases, medical follow-up information was limited.[Ref]

Common (1% to 10%): Peripheral edema, fatigue, edema
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Tinnitus
Rare (less than 0.1%): Facial edema
Frequency not reported: Vertigo, asthenia, pain
Postmarketing reports: Cases of sudden decrease or loss of hearing have been reported in temporal association with the use of this drug.[Ref]

Dermatologic
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Rash, urticaria, hyperhidrosis (sweating)
Rare (less than 0.1%): Angioedema
Frequency not reported: Pruritus
Postmarketing reports: Stevens-Johnson syndrome, exfoliative dermatitis[Ref]

Ocular
Most of the patients with NAION, but not all, had underlying anatomic or vascular risk factors, including but not necessarily limited to: Low cup to disc ratio ("crowded disc"), age over 50, diabetes, hypertension, coronary artery disease, hyperlipidemia, and smoking.[Ref]

Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Ocular hyperemia, eye pain, eyelid edema
Rare (less than 0.1%): Changes in color vision
Frequency not reported: Blurred vision, conjunctivitis (including conjunctival hyperemia), eye pain, lacrimation increased
Postmarketing reports: Visual field defect, retinal vein occlusion, and retinal artery occlusion. Non-arteritic anterior ischemic optic neuropathy (NAION), a cause of decreased vision including permanent loss of vision, has been reported in temporal association with the use of this drug.[Ref]

Renal
Uncommon (0.1% to 1%): Hematuria
Frequency not reported: Renal impairment[Ref]

Hepatic
Frequency not reported: Abnormal liver function tests, GGTP increased[Ref]

[sammyboyfor]

Cialis and Viagra are potent drugs which should be consumed only via a prescription from a doctor who can monitor your overall tolerance to the drug and assess the side effects.

[cumblaster]

Just thought I should share something I discovered about my own limp problem and what I think is causing it. Started encountering this in my 30s and noticed it was getting worse as I grew older. Saw a doctor and was given cialis. Thought I'll be on it for the rest of my life now

About 3 months ago, I noticed I needed to pee *very* frequently whenever I drank anything with aspartame inside. I've been drinking about 2 cans of coke light a day for as long as I can remember.
So anyway, I stopped drinking diet drinks completely to test my observation. It proved correct and I resumed peeing normally.

Here's why I shared this story. I noticed I no longer need to take cialis anymore too. I'm able to maintain my erection again!

Thinking I was on to something, I did some googling and I was right! aspartame does affect our little bro. So if you are drinking a lot of diet drinks, stop immediately. They could be causing you to go limp.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by cumblaster

Thinking I was on to something, I did some googling and I was right! aspartame does affect our little bro. So if you are drinking a lot of diet drinks, stop immediately. They could be causing you to go limp.

Aspartame is just as toxic as sugar. You might as well just stick to the conventional stuff.