Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Not all WL are bad, but most as untrustworthy. You will be the luckiest man if you marry a good one. But for a 19 year old, the risk is very much higher as their maturity level is not there yet. A few months of `feeling good and romantic' may turn out to be a disaster. Personally, i will not marry a 19 year old. If a WL has reached the age of 25 and above, the maturity level may be there and they will be more stable. To us, we may not feel that there's anything wrong to marry someone that's much younger. The viet lady may just keep quiet about it. But the truth will be out when she mixes around with her same group and start complaining about the age difference of her and her husband and start to say `my husband is sooooo old' .

I always read SingViet's post and have tired neck after that (keep nodding with approval and impressed at the wisdom of his words).

Everything SingViet said above is more than true... but i just want to add 1 more point... money can compensate for the difference... if u give her and her family lots of money every month, then they will keep saying that u look so young.

Having said that... there is a critical age which even money cannot help u overcome it... and that is... u must not be older than her father!!! at least be more than 10 years younger than her father is important... as the gap draws closer, the money got to increase linearly proportionally to compensate for the situation... and if the difference comes within a figure of 5, now the money component have to increase exponentially instead... very steep.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by jf66312

1st step is to brush up your TV...hehe

Not necessary lah. Why the trouble? Ask SV kor kor, he got business there but he'll still say "toi kg hieu TV" hjhj

[Honey Boon]

KNN.... now I know why all the vbs always "hold" my hands very tightly ...

Originally Posted by KangTuo

some WL are ok and can be trusted
some WL do not go hotel or like to be groped by client. They will just move away and find other customer if the customer is dam tac

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

I always read SingViet's post and have tired neck after that (keep nodding with approval and impressed at the wisdom of his words).

Everything SingViet said above is more than true... but i just want to add 1 more point... money can compensate for the difference... if u give her and her family lots of money every month, then they will keep saying that u look so young.

I second this approval...had been reading this thread for past 5yrs...and used this as my Vn cultural encyclopedia...a must if you want to have a Viet baxa...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

I always read SingViet's post and have tired neck after that (keep nodding with approval and impressed at the wisdom of his words).

Everything SingViet said above is more than true... but i just want to add 1 more point... money can compensate for the difference... if u give her and her family lots of money every month, then they will keep saying that u look so young.

Having said that... there is a critical age which even money cannot help u overcome it... and that is... u must not be older than her father!!! at least be more than 10 years younger than her father is important... as the gap draws closer, the money got to increase linearly proportionally to compensate for the situation... and if the difference comes within a figure of 5, now the money component have to increase exponentially instead... very steep.

No lah. I just speak my mind and I know I offend some fellow samsters . I am glad we share some common views.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I second this approval...had been reading this thread for past 5yrs...and used this as my Vn cultural encyclopedia...a must if you want to have a Viet baxa...

Thanks bro for the encouragement.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

Shyshaint, we have met many times before lah... u ask Carrot gor gor....

Got Meh .. hahahahah .....

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

Anyway, i just want to say this... when i was young, some of my classmates, those guys with the name Chong Ming, turns out to be quite stupid... those girls name Mei Lee, turns out quite ugly... so that's why my name is deptrai!

hhahahahah ..... quite true .. quite true ....

[volcano]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

deptrai kor, u must be growing more and more deptrai... 29>25>22>21... hehe

aiyohhhhhhhh....bcos u guys dunno him lah...this year,he is targetting 21 yrs old,next year will be 20 yrs old....

and of cos he is "dep"....

me n him are the infamous duo "deptrai" in VN which is "dep" in another way...

tio bo blue monster.....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

No lah. I just speak my mind and I know I offend some fellow samsters . I am glad we share some common views.

This is true friendship point of advice .....

Everybody experienced differently ... BUT ... ALL on Common Platforms ...

Sharing Individual Views and Experiences ... NOT Copy - catted and plug from somewhere and paste here ...

We also know who has the experiences and who doesn't ... so when sharing here .. NO Need to Throw Smoke Bombs ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by volcano

me n him are the infamous duo "deptrai" in VN which is "dep" in another way...

u "DEP" in another way ... kekekekek .. I AGREE

[volcano]

Originally Posted by SingViet

No lah. I just speak my mind and I know I offend some fellow samsters . I am glad we share some common views.

why should bother if others feel offended when providing words of wisdom....

but frankly speaking,nowadays,there are more n more people being aquainted with Vietnam n Vietnamese gals in 1 or another way.and i have also met quite a number of it.but sad to say,majority feel that they know Vietnam inside out when they dont even know how many provinces does Vietnam has....

me having stay in Vietnam for a period of time already can only modestly say that i am still learning day by day and know peanuts only...

[volcano]

Originally Posted by shysaint

u "DEP" in another way ... kekekekek .. I AGREE

knn....i havent settle "old scores" with u....

where is my shio kwayyyyyyyyy......

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by volcano

knn....i havent settle "old scores" with u....

where is my shio kwayyyyyyyyy......

ok ok .. I OWE you that ... I won't denied ...

That time no choice ... Not in-time to BUY for you ...

I promise I will buy for u ...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

This is true friendship point of advice .....

Everybody experienced differently ... BUT ... ALL on Common Platforms ...

Sharing Individual Views and Experiences ... NOT Copy - catted and plug from somewhere and paste here ...

We also know who has the experiences and who doesn't ... so when sharing here .. NO Need to Throw Smoke Bombs ...

Bro, if i have offended you in any way, my apologies. I don't throw smoke bombs la, no intention to.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by volcano

why should bother if others feel offended when providing words of wisdom....

but frankly speaking,nowadays,there are more n more people being aquainted with Vietnam n Vietnamese gals in 1 or another way.and i have also met quite a number of it.but sad to say,majority feel that they know Vietnam inside out when they dont even know how many provinces does Vietnam has....

me having stay in Vietnam for a period of time already can only modestly say that i am still learning day by day and know peanuts only...

For me, every day is a new learning process. Seriously speaking, i don't think that i know VN that well, and i am still learning. Every vietnamese i meet provides me with new perspectives and i feel i am nothing compared to the locals.