Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

u know i dunno which place to cheong... can we organise 1 before 7 dec before my wife come ?

any day i onzzzzzzzzzzz ...

sure bo,i now also temporary free man so can tag along if have

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

sure bo,i now also temporary free man so can tag along if have

will call u when kackbl organise 1.

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Golden question

what if your fear come true?what will u do?

If u know u able to settle but have to use up your saving,will u help?

If your wife tell u if u dont help,her mother will be beaten to death,will u empty your bank and help?

My fear is not that i had to help but how much my wife will be caught in btw. After the 3rd BIL case, she angry with herself already.. & Few yrs back, her nephew sick need operation, her mum ask us to help; i refused as i saw the 4th BIL rides a new bike.. They are very poor at recognising needs n wants.. Luckily my wife got what i meant never help.. Hopefully slowly she recognise all the patterns the BIL n sisters gives. For now she still naive..OJT in progress..haha

Previously if the reason is valid, i will help what i can but now with commitment coming no liao.. Bared minimal...if like what u say life n death matters must really see how she herself into debt... Gamblng is a big NO!

[Kim91]

Reading this forum helps alot.. Some exp bro are more extreme while some more lax.. But very fruitful reading here daily.. Hahaha
Some sharing: i make it a pt that if u borrow u must have valid reasons; for parents, i only give during cny or when my bx goes back.

Even our wedding there, i set a agreed budget n screen thru thr receipts & angpows so i know how much the parents keep the surpluses. After the wedding they used the money for renovating hse (which i think is fine and the renovating not too much) i help top up abit as the house so called will belong to my bx (she's the youngest)

Then come expanding their padi field. This is one i very angry with n i made known. They planned thinking i will help even my bx dun know. I set conditions: I demand the red book under my bx's name n i dun made monthly contributions since they be earning more. My philosophy is 'letting them have means to fish rather than i feed them. Thats why i help the 3rd bil setup biz eventually. So after past 'emergencies' now my cost centres from 4 to maybe 2 ( parents and her married eldest sister). I am mentally prepared for these 'emergencies', we cant avoid but its how we managed them.

Comments pls..

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Golden question

sure bo,i now also temporary free man so can tag along if have

Mind if i join too?? Really interested to know the bros here.. I also temp freeman

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by shysaint

will call u when kackbl organise 1.

Then u need wait long long Now I dun wan to trouble myself and kenna said xxx yyy zzz.

[KonKam]

Originally Posted by SingViet

When i first went VN a decade ago, i was pro-viet, very very pro. Now, i am against viet. This is after staying there and coming in contact with lots of viets.

Can you elaborate further?

[Peacock29]

Originally Posted by KonKam

Can you elaborate further?

Read 1000 over pages you will know

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Then u need wait long long Now I dun wan to trouble myself and kenna said xxx yyy zzz.

will u org one for me when i come back on the 21st Dec?

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by jf66312

will u org one for me when i come back on the 21st Dec?

Can, if the others are sporting

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Can, if the others are sporting

who are the others...hehe...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

who are the others...hehe...

His regular kaki

[Spectrre]

Jack Kor Kor, i met u once at Club Armani where Mazda Kor Kor organise the trip, remember me?

Got outing, i wan join also. Also temp free man. CNY coming, so a lot BX go home. Haha

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Spectrre

Jack Kor Kor, i met u once at Club Armani where Mazda Kor Kor organise the trip, remember me?

Got outing, i wan join also. Also temp free man. CNY coming, so a lot BX go home. Haha

Jack Kor Kor, I want to join also. I'm permanent free man.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Then u need wait long long Now I dun wan to trouble myself and kenna said xxx yyy zzz.

Bro Jackbl ...

why said llike that ? U organise I sure turn up ....

which Pig ... KN ... said that to you Just omit that AH loh ....