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Haha I know u going to qoute these stories... I know...
I did mentioned somewhere b4.. Yeah it happen once. My wife 3rd sis ask for help for son small operation. No problem I give..the next day I saw the bro in law drive new bike. Its just a chance to seek sympathy. I made known my displeasure. then on the couple never dare to ask for anything.
n they know what I means.. there's no second chances..
No story here.
This are real life example which a lot of brothers here went thru.
You come to this thread to understand VBs, what is the point of coming here to learn and still get conned.
Learned from other mistakes so you do not have to go thru the misery.
One day you darling might just told you she lost and owe $5,000 gambling with her relatives. How are you going to settle this?
All this are not fictional.
yeah Anh deptrai, 1272 pg of stories n advices are not there for nothing.. I do hope I'm not wrong too.. only X yrs will tell. why bothers.. Once we made the choice, Just live n build the life we want to have..just with some awareness...
on my point of view,marriage is same same as gambling..
u win when u lucky n lose when u unlucky.
it dosent matter if ur spouse is Viet,PRC,Thai or even Sinkie as there are gd n bad people among them.
and people might change as times goes by.
true enough that many have met VBs that are after their money or Sinkie statues...but there are also plenty that i have known where they manage the family gd.
since we choose to marry VB then we gotta accept all the sweet and bitter then...
We are not worried about the vb asking for money but rather use money to our advantage and not feeding the insatiable appetite of the vbs and family...I refused to feed her lazy family members.
Give her fish no fishing rod...
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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
Vb said..."I just lost all my money gambling...give me money so that I can come see you" but usually she said she was robbed and not lost gambling...hehe...
We have a choice to pick vb with no gambling habit and with sustainable family.
Scan the vb background before commiting then such problem won't exist.
Seldom go JC and GL.
I go to places in Singapore where no one believe there are VBs.
On a good outing, I can get 5 VBs to sit with me together when I am alone.
(I am not talking about KTV, disco or pub, and I seldom give tip unless I got secret agenda.)
By the way; the best training I received is in HCM city. Cannot beat playing mind game; fighting lies; counter sad stories; quarrel; argue; playing; chatting; kc VBs in their home. Give them home advantage and see what they can come out with.....
We have a choice to pick vb with no gambling habit and with sustainable family.
Scan the vb background before commiting then such problem won't exist.
absolutely right...dun commit anything...you took 5 yrs...actually most Vbs cannot last beyond 2 yrs...
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