Pinay Lover's Pub Crawl

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Bro Grecko,

There is no obligation for you to buy them drinks. When I go to a new (for me) pub I buy myself a drink first, then observe the scenery. If the ladies are not to my liking, there is too much attitude, etc. I finish my drink and walk out.

My experience has been that the above scenario is rare. Out of the 6-12 girls the typical pub has I have always found there is a percentage of them that do their job well. They are competing with each other, after all for your attention.

Obviously these places are not for everyone, but I would say it is a stretch to say that they are all bad. I have had a lot of fun in them over the years!

One more thing I missed out in my earlier post:

-Tactile contact, frenching, etc are part of the experience. I have never seen full service on offer and that should not be expected

[Granger]

Sage advice bro AMIGO. Never mind the trolls like Grecko.

After time we all know the game played by the Sg bosses, ph girls, and the customers. Know the game, and play it. No when to hold em know when to fold em..... As Kenny Rogers sang. And a positive attitude always brings greater rewards.

[manbaleno]

Originally Posted by AMIGO128

Bros,

Here is my (an experienced Pinay Pub patron) take on all this:

1. Pinay Pubs are expensive...you need to "pay to play." If you cannot afford to blow SGD 150 (or more) over the course of an hour (or more), then these places are not for you and you should not patronise them

2. The ladies are providing you a service. YOU are the customer, so whatever you say goes, no arguments. I agree they can be pushy, but you are in control. If you cannot be assertive enough with them, then these places are not for you and you should not patronise them

3. As Sammy himself advises, do not look to "make friends" with these ladies, take them out on dates, give them money in exchange for nothing, buy them things or otherwise try to "please" them. They are there for business, you are there for some brief fleeting fun. If you cannot accept that these pubs are NOT places to meet 'friends' then these places are not for you and you should not patronise them

Nowadays I don't waste much time. If I don't see the kind of quality lady that I feel is worth my money and time, I simply walk out and and try to find something closer to my tastes. I NEVER give them my contact details, and when they ask me personal questions I divulge very little.

On the rare occasion that I make a connection with one, I simply wait until she gets close to the end of her contract and ask for her contact details so I could get together with her as a 'normal citizen' when her stint is up (I have never followed up).

Hope the above does not come across as too arrogant, just trying to impart some wisdom

Nice advice there bro.

I am not quite optimistic about landing my target after doing some reflections and analysis on the cost and benefits.

Each time the bill comes up to around $60 plus, 1 LD and my own drink. I usually do not spend more than 1 LD when I know there is almost zero possibility of any action in the pub. Having said that, the $60 does not last me for long, drinks are usually finished within 30min. Not very nice to hang around and the girl's glass is empty.

So after a few trips down to "establish connection and know her slightly better", the money spent could have been used for a few bonks, depending on the quality of the girl you engage. That is actually a very tempting opportunity cost and a risky investment, considering my target is not those touchy type of girl. Maybe she is, but as far as I am concern, she is not.

As said, last time even proposals of $500 a pop could not even tempt her. She jolly knows that she does not need to resort to "selling her body" to earn and does not see the need to do so. She also does not consider getting into any sort of relationship.

According to my CSI again, she managed to hook an Ang Mo expat before. Then again, my pockets are not as deep as an expat.

Really tough nut to crack.

Can't play the carrot dangling way, can't play the nice and slow KC way. Whatever it is, with her buddy or no buddy, seems like a lose-lose situation for me.

For bros who want a preview of how she looks like, can PM me but I will be selective of who to get the preview.

[blackmumba]

Originally Posted by Granger

No when to hold em know when to fold em..... As Kenny Rogers sang.

Hey that's in my signature too

Wise words indeed

[ananroo]

Hi Bro,

Can you please share the place.

[deleted]

Bro Ananroo,

I cover this here:

http://samsforum.asia/showthr...=499268&page=8

[fishsoup84]

Thanks bro for the heads up

[manbaleno]

Originally Posted by manbaleno

Nice advice there bro.

I am not quite optimistic about landing my target after doing some reflections and analysis on the cost and benefits.

Each time the bill comes up to around $60 plus, 1 LD and my own drink. I usually do not spend more than 1 LD when I know there is almost zero possibility of any action in the pub. Having said that, the $60 does not last me for long, drinks are usually finished within 30min. Not very nice to hang around and the girl's glass is empty.

So after a few trips down to "establish connection and know her slightly better", the money spent could have been used for a few bonks, depending on the quality of the girl you engage. That is actually a very tempting opportunity cost and a risky investment, considering my target is not those touchy type of girl. Maybe she is, but as far as I am concern, she is not.

As said, last time even proposals of $500 a pop could not even tempt her. She jolly knows that she does not need to resort to "selling her body" to earn and does not see the need to do so. She also does not consider getting into any sort of relationship.

According to my CSI again, she managed to hook an Ang Mo expat before. Then again, my pockets are not as deep as an expat.

Really tough nut to crack.

Can't play the carrot dangling way, can't play the nice and slow KC way. Whatever it is, with her buddy or no buddy, seems like a lose-lose situation for me.

For bros who want a preview of how she looks like, can PM me but I will be selective of who to get the preview.

Bros, I finally gave up on this one.

Don't think it is worth the effort.

Can tell she is not even a single bit interested in me, despite a few hundred bucks spent on her on LDs over a few visits.

I tried to ask her out for a simple dinner on 3 occasions, all kena fly aeroplane.
First time she was too drunk from the night before.
2nd time she was sick.
3rd time I tested her. Told her a few days before my proposed meeting day to block her time to go dinner together. She said ok. I even visited her the day before to remind her we would meet tomorrow evening. I told her a tentative time and meeting place and that I would double confirm on the day itself. She said ok. But on the actual day I intentionally don't text her. She did not even bother to check with me if the date was still on.

A bit pissed off with her. And I realise through whatsapp, she always see my messages already but somehow never reply. Sometimes I need to message 2-3 more times before getting a reply from her.

So conclusion is that I have failed but I have cut my losses. Although still thinking about her double D melons, don't think there is any chance I can have them.

[etsys]

Originally Posted by manbaleno;12738040.

So conclusion is that I have failed but I have cut my losses. Although still thinking about her double D melons, don't think there is any chance I can have them.

So many fish in the sea bro ...

Too bad I burnt my monthly drinking budget or could have offered to share a San Miguel with you ...

[bignround]

Originally Posted by manbaleno

Bros, I finally gave up on this one.

Don't think it is worth the effort.

Can tell she is not even a single bit interested in me, despite a few hundred bucks spent on her on LDs over a few visits.

I tried to ask her out for a simple dinner on 3 occasions, all kena fly aeroplane.
First time she was too drunk from the night before.
2nd time she was sick.
3rd time I tested her. Told her a few days before my proposed meeting day to block her time to go dinner together. She said ok. I even visited her the day before to remind her we would meet tomorrow evening. I told her a tentative time and meeting place and that I would double confirm on the day itself. She said ok. But on the actual day I intentionally don't text her. She did not even bother to check with me if the date was still on.

A bit pissed off with her. And I realise through whatsapp, she always see my messages already but somehow never reply. Sometimes I need to message 2-3 more times before getting a reply from her.

So conclusion is that I have failed but I have cut my losses. Although still thinking about her double D melons, don't think there is any chance I can have them.

Bro, name n location we revenge for u. By theory n courtesy, no fuck can understand. But fly customer aeroplane is so wrong.

[etsys]

Originally Posted by bignround

Bro, name n location we revenge for u. By theory n courtesy, no fuck can understand. But fly customer aeroplane is so wrong.

revenge for what ?

no lah .. don't like that

she may have steady/bf/sponsor/husband, who knows

again the admirer was only trying his best what ..

she never confirm and disappoint what ..

just saying !!

[deleted]

Bro Etsys,

I agree with you...they're just simple working girls...

[manbaleno]

Originally Posted by etsys

So many fish in the sea bro ...

Too bad I burnt my monthly drinking budget or could have offered to share a San Miguel with you ...

Thanks bro. Yes a lot of fishes in the sea but some fishes are rare and of higher quality meat than others. But no need to worry, I have gotten over it.

Originally Posted by bignround

Bro, name n location we revenge for u. By theory n courtesy, no fuck can understand. But fly customer aeroplane is so wrong.

Thanks bro bignround for your intentions. Don't really need revenge. I know all these flying aeroplanes are part and parcel of the game. At least I get to know that she is maybe totally not interested at all.

Originally Posted by AMIGO128

Bro Etsys,

I agree with you...they're just simple working girls...

Yes, she is just trying to earn for the family. Won't be holding grudges.

[etsys]

Originally Posted by manbaleno

Thanks bro. Yes a lot of fishes in the sea but some fishes are rare and of higher quality meat than others. But no need to worry, I have gotten over it.

Still any time, a beer on me if you are ok !!!

I do go to pinay bars, with cute chicks but none can take away, I know the score, so don't bother to hunt them .. though some guys claim after spending few thousand they score .. not worth it .. and few thousand is my monthly salary :P

Originally Posted by manbaleno

According to my CSI again, she managed to hook an Ang Mo expat before. Then again, my pockets are not as deep as an expat.

Re: above old post of yours, not all ang moh deep pocket, they have sweet tongue and promise of marriage from ang moh is more convincing than others .. that's my 2 cents, again !

[grue76]

Area 1:

Not the most obvious place for pubs. In an area with many tuition centres..families go there. 2 pubs there. Quite chilled out and affordable drinks LD ard 30-40. Generally quite pleasant and doesn't feel as cut throat as other places. Playablility is quite low though. Girls average, but a nice place to just relax with no expectations of much more than conversation.


Area 2:

Singapore's most obvious place probably. 4 floors....etc. A number of pubs here that are very well documented. Playability here really depends on individuals...some really hot girls but can be very expensive. Personally dislike the basement pubs though they have prettier girls. Much quieter than the old days. Does anyone feel like it has almost become a tourist attraction?


Area 3:

An old classic for pubs but now far reduced in number. Many restaurants along this road, and you can find pubs off the main street too. Went into the largest pub...didn't really enjoy myself. Very aggressive girls, one tried to pour her beer into my mug. Poor service on the whole, but maybe I just had the wrong vibe. Limited playability though better than area 1. Waste of money.


Conclusion: The scene is rather quiet. Think the offloading of girls on Phil side has had an effect. One of my old darlings is stuck at home.