Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

lesson learned from my 1st marriage... when divorce, flat is hers, joint account money is hers

haizzzz...

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

lesson learned from my 1st marriage... when divorce, flat is hers, joint account money is hers

Thats why single rate is getting higher...I have few very rich friends in their 30s and 40s..all dont wanna get marry . One of them has an asset more than SGD 200 million .Guess they knows the woman charter well enough. A classic example is Aaron kwok...

[inluv07]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Not much problem... It is a mutual exchange... U pay for everything and in return she provides u with sex.

Thanks bro, I think along the same lines too, only have no experience if placed in situation where she is detained for questioning at immigration

[inluv07]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Dun see any problem except spend money la...and you get to bonk free...if you still have to pay her then very expensive...

She may not be allowed to get in if she stayed too long in sinkie previously..so the responsibility is on you to send her back to Vietnam...

She already has her air ticket to Vietnam but if granted another 30 days she will gladly forfeit it

[inluv07]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

You may be the one sided attracted by her..... I doubt she is attracted by you.

Surely she is attracted by your ability to extend her social visa so she can earn more by sleeping with more men.

The potential problem is "You may fall in love with a whore."

Yeah I'm sure her angle is to find someone to help her. I'm just after a few days and nights of free bonking

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by inluv07

She already has her air ticket to Vietnam but if granted another 30 days she will gladly forfeit it

this modus operandus used by VB, we knew too well...kkkk...

[curious76]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haizzzzzz....not sure you guys knew...once goes to divorce...the lawyers who will dig out and Court decides the percentage split of the assets...you can hide...but after a few years if your ex wife found out...still can apply to Court to claim...this is Women Charter Law...kkkk....

In vietnam got woman charter??

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by curious76

In vietnam got woman charter??

Even you marry in Vietnam or anywhere on earth...woman charter will be still apply in Singapore...This is what my lawyer told me one. Better dont let the viet wife knows about it..if not she can come Singapore and claim too....

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by curious76

In vietnam got woman charter??

no...but...if you are Singaporean then the answer below applies...

Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

Even you marry in Vietnam or anywhere on earth...woman charter will be still apply in Singapore...This is what my lawyer told me one. Better dont let the viet wife knows about it..if not she can come Singapore and claim too....

I had written the same statement for so many years in various threads...

[damong777]

There will be changes to charter soon....changing name to family charter hopefully

Also depends on what sort of judge u got? Pro charter or realistic one...had read some recent cases in 2013 and 2014 shown by my lawyer to me. Women may not get their way all the times now.

My friend divorce just finish after 2 yrs of legal battles....waste of tons of $$$...

Make sure you get a good lawyer who knows the charter well when you want to fight; if not waste of money and time.

[damong777]

Originally Posted by inluv07

Sorry if this is not relevant but I appreciate bros who have experience or advice to give. I met a sweet Viet girl here a few days ago. Kind of mutual attraction. I was surprised she asked me to bring her to a neighbouring country (Indo, M'sia, Thailand) and come back, so as to extend her social visit.

Anyone has experience to share? Is it safe? What are the potential problems.

If u r single, no problem. Married and u extend for girl, be prepared for some issues with your misses.

Any if the gal while on extension caught in raid, be prepared for some phone calls by ica to you.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by inluv07

Thanks bro, I think along the same lines too, only have no experience if placed in situation where she is detained for questioning at immigration

maybe immigration will ask you how are you related to her blah blah blah...

Originally Posted by inluv07

She already has her air ticket to Vietnam but if granted another 30 days she will gladly forfeit it

even if no extend another 30 days, just be it... do not ask why.
worst scenerio is custom don't allow her entry, then you need to send her back to malaysia to stay another few days/weeks then try enter or balik kampong from malaysia.

Originally Posted by inluv07

Yeah I'm sure her angle is to find someone to help her. I'm just after a few days and nights of free bonking

you decide if it is worth the free bonking (if any) lor...
by the way, malaysia custom may ask for $50 kopi money in/out hor


Due to all these troublesome stuff, i never drive any vb to malaysia for extension at all.
Even sometimes when my bx say drive to malaysia for shopping with her niece (already PR), I will ask whoesle going. It is always the niece who is the bad egg who wanna bring vb go extend becuase she can earn $300-$500 per extension. I told them that even give me $3K, i will not bring vb to malaysia.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

this modus operandus used by VB, we knew too well...kkkk...

ICA also knew very well.

Bring vb in, very troublesome and still need to fork out some money

as for vb asking carrot bring them to malaysia for extension is becuse they don't want comeout a single cent to do it. In the end, it is still the guy pay for everything..

just for bonking, not worth.
Mind as well give her some money (in exchange for bonk) and ask her find someone bring her in.Come back liao still can bonk.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

just for bonking, not worth.
Mind as well give her some money (in exchange for bonk) and ask her find someone bring her in.Come back liao still can bonk.

aiyo...we are laojiao...sure knew all these troublesome stuffs...only newbies will not knew...whatever VB strategies used think we all heard before...sure have ways to counter or deflect...

[stillgottheblue]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Relating a real life case of a friend of mine, a tour bus driver with a Viet spouse. He married the viet spouse around 6 years ago and they have 2 kids. He turned his back against his mother because of his bx and MIL couldn't get along well with his mother. They have their own 3 room flat now. MIL flies in very often to take care of his children. For the past 6 years, he has been trying to get PR for his wife but to no avail.

he has always been telling me that his bx treats him real good. Always stay home take care of children and cook his favourite viet noodles when he comes back from work. But of course, he had sent money to his MIL to let them built house and buy motorbike in the province. His wife mixed around with a group of viet spouse who all have singapore bfs outside, but his wife reassures him that she is not their kind.

6 months ago, his bx got her PR and things started to change. His bx started to go out with friends to karaoke to drink till late night, leaving children home with the MIL. He argued with his bx and she said since he is not earning enough , he should let her go out to work with her friends as VSOP promoter in the bar. He is mid 40s while wife is 26. Wife started work as he had no choice. As time goes by, he realised that his wife started to post more `suggestive pose' photos on her facebook. He couldn't take it and argued with his bx again. His bx told him `if you cannot feed me, don't control me'. He regretted getting PR for his wife and now the marriage seems to be breaking down.

The wife really got good patience to wait for 6 years to get PR before her pattern come out. Simply VVVerry Viet !!

Husband go outside play lah. Don't give bx anymore since she can fuck and earn outside. Bring girl home and don't give a fuck to her.

Why must he gets frustrated. It's good to know gi ally this girl is not the one.