Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

Borrowing from Ox... no interest and no need pay back..
I met a few cases from my VB friend.. some borrow from best friends but won't pay back even they have earn some money later... then become enemies... haiz.. no good..

Dun need friends. . Family also this kind of pattern... ask them for money they kpkb says u rich why like tat...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

Borrowing from Ox... no interest and no need pay back..
I met a few cases from my VB friend.. some borrow from best friends but won't pay back even they have earn some money later... then become enemies... haiz.. no good..

the story I heard is borrow from friends, then of course later slowly ask ox to help. the problem is those borrowed $$ is used to buy luxurious stuff .. e.g bike, dun want honda Vision want S-Hug

[devilcheong]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Dun need friends. . Family also this kind of pattern... ask them for money they kpkb says u rich why like tat...

So the conclusion for VB is the meaning of Borrow = Give
Example: -
Can I borrow 6000.00 from you and I will return the money once I get my paycheck
Translated to: -
Hey.. can you give me 6000.00 since you are so loaded? I hope I will not see you again after I am able to earn some money..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

So the conclusion for VB is the meaning of Borrow = Give

borrow money in Vietnam means loanshark interest of 20% per month...so better think carefully thrice before you loan money to VB...usually goes MIA...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Saw my bx messenger with friend.... My pay is marked up by 50%

10K per month????

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

borrow money in Vietnam means loanshark interest of 20% per month...so better think carefully thrice before you loan money to VB...usually goes MIA...

vb said borrow from home town kopishop auntie friend is 10%/mth.
How to return? down-to-sea again?

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

the story I heard is borrow from friends, then of course later slowly ask ox to help. the problem is those borrowed $$ is used to buy luxurious stuff .. e.g bike, dun want honda Vision want S-Hug

Truth.... but SH model more lady like........ Recently, just quarrel with 1 of the egai. My friend went to An Giang for 10 days. Stay at her house and in the end, my friend spend $2.9K. I told her off and she tell me she used my friend $$ pay this pay that thus used $2.9K. I tell my friend if you wanna to continue the relation with her, wish you good luck. I really can't imagine what she spend. I went to my bx house; stayed there for 10days, not even $300 I had used.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Truth.... but SH model more lady like........ Recently, just quarrel with 1 of the egai. My friend went to An Giang for 10 days. Stay at her house and in the end, my friend spend $2.9K. I told her off and she tell me she used my friend $$ pay this pay that thus used $2.9K. I tell my friend if you wanna to continue the relation with her, wish you good luck. I really can't imagine what she spend. I went to my bx house; stayed there for 10days, not even $300 I had used.

very simple...any VB can buy this and that...easy to spend money so long money is not hers...or easi money...any VB will need many things...house is virtually empty...so to spend $2.9k or around 49mil is fast and super duper simple...walk in to Nguyen Kim electronics...can buy a LED TV at 6-10mil...washing machine for 5mil...any large dinner over a few days will be easily 5-10mil...li xi money for parents, grandparents etc also another few millions...taxi fare going round another few millions...the Vb will keep another 10-15mil for allowances...etc etc etc...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

vb said borrow from home town kopishop auntie friend is 10%/mth.
How to return? down-to-sea again?

VB can say anything...but nothing I can believe...usually only believe 20% max...

recently witness 2 aunties quarreling and abusing each other over money in a residential area...after that they whack each other...really like men fist fight...but then they may be sisters or relatives...then friends and relatives broke up the fight...all kinds of 4 letter words are out...worst that ever heard...evil $$$ is matter...

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

very simple...any VB can buy this and that...easy to spend money so long money is not hers...or easi money...any VB will need many things...house is virtually empty...so to spend $2.9k or around 49mil is fast and super duper simple...walk in to Nguyen Kim electronics...can buy a LED TV at 6-10mil...washing machine for 5mil...any large dinner over a few days will be easily 5-10mil...li xi money for parents, grandparents etc also another few millions...taxi fare going round another few millions...the Vb will keep another 10-15mil for allowances...etc etc etc...

That why I'm very pissed off with her. This is not the way to spend $$ furthermore my friend is not that rich. I had checked with my friend; she didnt even buy any electric appliances, didnt give grandparents. Just only few cartons of Heineken beers and a bicycle for her daughter. They take bus from HCM to An Giang. The vb own a bike in an giang. I really don't know thus I question her. In the end say I don't believe her. I told her off, don't treat my friend like a idiot; until now didnt sms me.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

VB can say anything...but nothing I can believe...usually only believe 20% max...

recently witness 2 aunties quarreling and abusing each other over money in a residential area...after that they whack each other...really like men fist fight...but then they may be sisters or relatives...then friends and relatives broke up the fight...all kinds of 4 letter words are out...worst that ever heard...evil $$$ is matter...

That normal, even brother and sister when $$$ is concern, it will end in this way. Can you imagine when a sister lending $$ within the family, this sister will count interest.

[damong777]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

borrow money in Vietnam means loanshark interest of 20% per month...so better think carefully thrice before you loan money to VB...usually goes MIA...

Heard such stories too. And faced one recently...but just ignore the gal and delete all contact...

May be naive in beginning...but once come to $$, I rather c my $$ every day and be an atm.

Seen how desperate vb can pull tricks to get money and cannot take no or tomorrow for answer

[milfmilf]

sometime think of it I laugh at myself
is like I get my monthly pay Daily, will never finish using
so many medical needs, different debts, phone spoil, new Blurberry

[devilcheong]

My own terrible experience with my 1st VB

1.Borrow money say want buy ticket for going back HCM - settled
2.Wanna buy nice Viet style clothes but not cheap and cosmetics/medicine - settled
3.Wanna go back HCM.. want go nice saloon to get me chopped - settled
4.Bring her to eat nice nice food - settled
5.Buy her a gold necklace and pendant - settled
6.Say family now already build houses on others people land and the landlord wanna come and collect rental or will ask them to move - I not so believe.. so no give..
7.Say already near few days to Tet.. want buy new clothes to parents and some money for parents to buy things for celebration - I no give because she cheated me say no bf at that time and I ask her back why her bf never contribute to her family meh?
She answer says the bf help her abit only and not enough.. n not love him anymore.. says wanna return me back the amount 3500 but I rejected her coz I learned and already read through this thread / forum about all these VB stuffs..
This is my experience with a WL VB.. really sucks

[curious76]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

My own terrible experience with my 1st VB

1.Borrow money say want buy ticket for going back HCM - settled
2.Wanna buy nice Viet style clothes but not cheap and cosmetics/medicine - settled
3.Wanna go back HCM.. want go nice saloon to get me chopped - settled
4.Bring her to eat nice nice food - settled
5.Buy her a gold necklace and pendant - settled
6.Say family now already build houses on others people land and the landlord wanna come and collect rental or will ask them to move - I not so believe.. so no give..
7.Say already near few days to Tet.. want buy new clothes to parents and some money for parents to buy things for celebration - I no give because she cheated me say no bf at that time and I ask her back why her bf never contribute to her family meh?
She answer says the bf help her abit only and not enough.. n not love him anymore.. says wanna return me back the amount 3500 but I rejected her coz I learned and already read through this thread / forum about all these VB stuffs..
This is my experience with a WL VB.. really sucks

Thanks for sharing your experience

[damong777]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

My own terrible experience with my 1st VB

1.Borrow money say want buy ticket for going back HCM - settled
2.Wanna buy nice Viet style clothes but not cheap and cosmetics/medicine - settled
3.Wanna go back HCM.. want go nice saloon to get me chopped - settled
4.Bring her to eat nice nice food - settled
5.Buy her a gold necklace and pendant - settled
6.Say family now already build houses on others people land and the landlord wanna come and collect rental or will ask them to move - I not so believe.. so no give..
7.Say already near few days to Tet.. want buy new clothes to parents and some money for parents to buy things for celebration - I no give because she cheated me say no bf at that time and I ask her back why her bf never contribute to her family meh?
She answer says the bf help her abit only and not enough.. n not love him anymore.. says wanna return me back the amount 3500 but I rejected her coz I learned and already read through this thread / forum about all these VB stuffs..
This is my experience with a WL VB.. really sucks

Just curious...a rough sum of how much $$$??