Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Make sure you can down at least 3 big bottle.

Driving how to ?

[MIFAcafe]

You are the one whom suggested beer ma.....

Drink don't drive..... take taxi.

Originally Posted by Seletar

Can you spend me drink beer ? Then I teach you.

Originally Posted by Seletar

Driving how to ?

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by lasupking

I just want my child back here so that he is able to grow up in a better environment. All these vietnamese are dying to come to spore for a better life and she acutally wants to live in vn. dont know wat is wrong in her head

I had a friend who Bx did that to him too. The reason is can't get along with the mother in law.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

after so many years I dun understand VB fully...gave up trying to understand them...I did mentioned VB dun deserved to be nice...you must be harsh with them in order for VB to love you more..

Me too, sometimes can't understand my Bx too.

Originally Posted by Seletar

Problematic is not the agency but is your future bx to be. You need to feed the whole family. My bx's bro and sisters big big small small all want me to buy I phone for them, nia mah ke hai.

That normal bro. Luckily, my Bx use her own saving bought for your brother.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

You are the one whom suggested beer ma.....

Drink don't drive..... take taxi.

I may join if time permit. Recently too busy after long holidays and also too many entertainment from company's guest.

[FireShark]

Happy Belated New Year 2015 to all Bros here.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

How u reject them? Can teach?

You need to be taught meh?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by FireShark

I had a friend who Bx did that to him too. The reason is can't get along with the mother in law.

There bonds to be problem when staying with in-laws. Same every where.
Its just how to handle and communicate to resolve the issues.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by lasupking

All these vietnamese are dying to come to spore for a better life and she acutally wants to live in vn. dont know wat is wrong in her head

Vietnamese only like the luxury we enjoy
live in Sg short term ok, but for long term they prefer vietnam

[damong777]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Already bought ma, nia ma the custom at Tan Son nhat wanted $50 tax as he said the phone is new. I put in the luggage forget to put in the pocket, bargained to $20 but he said no so settled for $30.

lucky for me when i bought my ipad across for my bx...no tax

[devilcheong]

Very long time no post anything here already.. hehehe..
Any bros here lately got knows or newly have a VN gf?
Congrats cos maybe is my ex-vb which is prev I said to be my fb.. we just declared and cut off our ties after nearly a year together because she have found a nice guy which treat her well and I hope too the lucky guy can treat her good and maybe can get married soon
She abit temperamental sometimes maybe family pampered her too much but she would be very loyal to her partner if she confirmed he is her bf.. so if anyone of bros here is indeed gotten her heart.. please treat her with sincerity and gentle..
Name: Everyone called her Ah Loan.. I know her full name but better don't write here..
Looks: Very petite, cute, big eyes and very fair skin with very long hair
Height: 150cm or below ba
Weight: between 30++ kg and less than 40kg
VN: An Giang
Food preferred: VN, Korean and Jpn
I gonna miss her... but still her best friend for now..

[Genetic]

Thank you everyone for all the advise so far, thank you and happy new year.

[LOTR3]

Seeing that a viet wife would often remit money to her family after marriage, for a local guy with a mthly salary of less than 3k, will it be sustainable? Newspaper report that majority of guys who married foreign wifes from viet are low to mid income earners.

Plus, do every viet woman want children, or it depends on her age?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by LOTR3

Seeing that a viet wife would often remit money to her family after marriage, for a local guy with a mthly salary of less than 3k, will it be sustainable? Newspaper report that majority of guys who married foreign wifes from viet are low to mid income earners.

Plus, do every viet woman want children, or it depends on her age?

When Filipines and Sri Lankan maids came to work in sinkie land...large amount of $$$ were remitted monthly...today no diff with any nationalities...PRC, Myanmar, Indonesian...etc...2 billion S$ are remitted monthly...

If you earn 3k then you need to budget properly...is all about expectations...set expectations right..

Most viet gals are great mothers...they love children...plenty of single mothers in Vietnam....if you dun follow this thread then you dun know the hierarchy in terms of importance to a viet gal...

Before hv kids
Mother, father (some case no), brothers, sisters, then hubby/bf

After hv kids
Son, daughter, mother, father (some case no), brothers, sisters the. Hubby/bf

See you will always be last...

[rachgu]

Does the hierarchy for bf/hubby change if

1) bf/hubby is a vietnamese man.

2) Age gap between the girl and bf/hubby small, perhaps just few years. (eg. viet wife 21yr & man 25yr)

3) They marry the bf/hubby for love, not for reason like need money for their families, need get PR in singapore etc..

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Before hv kids
Mother, father (some case no), brothers, sisters, then hubby/bf

After hv kids
Son, daughter, mother, father (some case no), brothers, sisters the. Hubby/bf

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by rachgu

Does the hierarchy for bf/hubby change if

1) bf/hubby is a vietnamese man.

2) Age gap between the girl and bf/hubby small, perhaps just few years. (eg. viet wife 21yr & man 25yr)

3) They marry the bf/hubby for love, not for reason like need money for their families, need get PR in singapore etc..

1...no
2...no
3...yes if gal loves you...but still after children, mother, then you...u leapfrog siblings...

[rachgu]

Thanks for your expertise.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

1...no
2...no
3...yes if gal loves you...but still after children, mother, then you...u leapfrog siblings...