Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MIFAcafe]

Good luck.

If you pick a girl from village; she sure need your help.

If you find a city girl; you can date her like couple.

You will learn what is culture shock the hard way.

Originally Posted by eddy72

dunno lei.. hopefully not..

[eddy72]

the more info I get , the more complicated I am..

first time into marrying a vb..

can help the village girl, but not to the point of dragging myself down..

if really bad luck again, just my life.. got to accept it..

[milfmilf]

Try to get the girl with least committment ... no sibling and only one parent to support ... Lol

[eddy72]

many thing are plan to perfection..

however, result did not turn out to be the same..

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

Try to get the girl with least committment ... no sibling and only one parent to support ... Lol

Know one girl. Father die, no sibling.....

Dated a while until I find out something fishy........too bad.

[MIFAcafe]

It will be hard for you to distinguish "she need you" or "she love you".

You will surely have a place in her heart. The place will Not be very high up.

At least you are a brave man.

Originally Posted by eddy72

the more info I get , the more complicated I am..

first time into marrying a vb..

can help the village girl, but not to the point of dragging myself down..

if really bad luck again, just my life.. got to accept it..

[milfmilf]

Every month i try to save 40% of my take home after deduct all personal n household expenses. Will only spend a fraction of that monthly savings to supplement my vb expenses. No way to drag me down. Even my monthly savings. She Definitely won't smell my coffin capital.... lol

[iSaigon]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Know one girl. Father die, no sibling.....

Dated a while until I find out something fishy........too bad.

Oh, you meant the one you blocked

[eddy72]

wow,,

seem like really quite many bros got viet wife..

they are the brave ones.. no doubt there are many failures,

languages , culture shock n rotten heart are obstacles to be clear..

language - forget it, cannot even master my own dialect..

culture shock - hopefully the lesson on my fail marriage helps..

rotten heart - that a game on luck..

[milfmilf]

less commitment less culture shock

[iSaigon]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

less commitment less culture shock

True but human being always do something which others cannot comprehend

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by eddy72

next feb following a bro to hcm to look for a wife...

read a bit on this thread, feel complicated..

when vb marry viet guys, they dun seem to expect too much..

when sg guys marry vb, it seem got to take care of this n that..

one main reason for me is $$$$..

info on myself - 43 this year, divorced n earning 3 k per mth..

the good thing abt being single -- may not finish all the food in one meal..

the bad thing abt married -- may not have enough $$$$ to pay for the meal ..

zzzzzzzzz

do consider thoroughly before getting a foreigner wife.
earning $3k per month can hardly survive in sillypore now.
furthermore you are 40+ already.
Can you compete with the younger ones in the job market to upgrade your salary?
Buying a wife, prep for weddingis cheap but there are alot more $$$ commitment in a marriage.
Do not drag others to suffer with you if you hardly can survive in sillypore.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

do consider thoroughly before getting a foreigner wife.
earning $3k per month can hardly survive in sillypore now.
furthermore you are 40+ already.
Can you compete with the younger ones in the job market to upgrade your salary?
There are alot more $$$ commitment in a marriage.

I thought you always claimed you earned lower working as orpit boy...

so now many bros wanted to follow your footsteps...you are their idol...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I thought you always claimed you earned lower working as orpit boy...

so now many bros wanted to follow your footsteps...you are their idol...

yah.. low pay orpit boy as compared to others at my position
kanasia idol tio wu lah

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by eddy72

the more info I get , the more complicated I am..

first time into marrying a vb..

can help the village girl, but not to the point of dragging myself down..

if really bad luck again, just my life.. got to accept it..

why not consider local...
not that complicated and can easily be someone that can help supplement the income
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