Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by shysaint

U wanna mean 'LAN' 烂 😁 Or 'LA' 辣 🤔

Is lao jiao 老鸟 ba

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by shysaint

U wanna mean 'LAN' 烂 😁 Or 'LA' 辣 🤔

He meant lao jiao

[pusielover]

Originally Posted by FireShark

He meant lao jiao

Ya mbe in future lan jiao(guys) too.
Quite s number of Indonesian/Thai/prc/vn guys offer gay massage services here in sg lol

[damong777]

Originally Posted by FireShark

He meant lao jiao

Sorry. U know me best...lol

[justguy]

Sharing my sad ending story here.

I have been going to viet joints in sg for many years and never got hook deeply before by any of the girls. 2 year ago it happened.
I was attracted to her look before I got into the room .. later mummy brought her (T) in and of cozy choice is her.
T was the same as any other girls I sat with before. Pretty and playful. Didn't think much about it then.

So my fren wanted to bring a girl for hotel and askT if she wanna go with me as well. She agreed. So the 4 of us went out for supper together before going to the hotel.

T was quite green and mentioned she didn't go to hotel with customer only her bf. The typical kc hook. For some reason she was successful because the sex was really good .she make u feel that u can make her Cum more than u make any other girls did.

I dated her over the next few days before I flew off for my job oversea. We kept in contact throughout my trip of 2 month she also went back to Vietnam and came over for her second trip 2 month later.

So I met her when I am back in sg and we went hotel everyday with me paying her everytime to make sure I keep it a sex transaction.

But slowly she crawled into my heart.. we became a couple before I left for my next oversea work trip.

I requested that she stop working at the ktv with me supporting her
She agreed and went back Vietnam with me sending her money every month .
As new couples I wanted to be with her badly hence I brought her to where I am working at and stayed for 2 month together. That was the best time of our life and seal our relationship.
things were good after she went back 2 months later. But we can meet only once every 3 month due to oversea works and she don't want to travel so far and so long again.

Hence at the end of my contract I requested to be stationed in sg instead. This begin our nightmare..
with the change in work location , my salary was reduced by 2k per month. This seriously affected my monthly allowance for her.
With our 1 year relationship, I expected her to understand my difficulties. After some quarrels she finally accepted that I might not be able to help her as much. She decided to reduce her monthly expenditure and also find a permanent job.
things got back to normal and I was able to visit her every month now .

all this while she was bugging me marry her so she can come sg to work. I told her only after buying a hse for her stay then I will bring her over . We agreed and it will take me ard 1 year to get a hse when I reach 35 years old.

but fate like to make things difficult. She lost her job and did not have a income. With my reduced allowance things became difficult for her. She started blaming me and ask for more allowance. I tried giving her as much as I can but she was nv happy .

soon she don't let me stay at her room citing she gotta share rooms to reduce cost.
with the increase expenditure of hotel , I got even less money to spend on her.

Soon everything starts falling apart, she wanted to go back working in ktv which I rejected. Resulting In many quarrels.

soon she stopped replying msg as frequently as before. Resulting in even more quarrels. Things were going downhills.

2 months back , a photo of her n a guy in close proximity, lean against each other, appeared on her other fb. She had 2 fb , 1 for close frens and me the other for her customers and other frens.

She insist he is is a brother to her. As I am not in the other fb I can't see much also beside that 1 photo. Trusting her I did not press on. Soon she got more and more distance. Disappear for the whole day before replying my msg. This result in even more quarrels.

eventually she call for a time out. I didn't want to but no choice as she forced it on me.

As it was my grandma birthday soon, I took the chance to test her by asking her to come for the dinner.
She agreed so I tot she still wants to be with me. Then I bought the ticket and arrange everything. Before that I told her if she don't want to be with me then no need to come for the dinner. She was switching between coming and not coming before agreed finally to come. My mistake to trust her again.

On the day she arrived in sg, she told me she wants to be friend and will not be going for the dinner. She took advantage of my love for her to get a free ticket to sg. Although I am hurt I still tried to work things out with her. Eventually she agreed to be back if I up her allowance to 1.5k per month.

Heart overtake mind and I agreed. She was very good to me after that. We went shopping and have sex after.
next day she going back to Vietnam. She showed me her attitude again treating me like dirt.

I could not endured and broke off with her at the airport. She started msg me after she reach Vietnam but I refuse to reply her. This went on for a week until I finally heart over mind again and replied her.

she say sorry and ask me give her a chance. So I agreed. I decided to test her by adding her other fb. She added me to show she have nothing to hide. But maybe she forgot she got many close photo of her with this other guy in the fb.
I questioned her about it and her reply was to end our relationship instead .

now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by justguy

Sharing my sad ending story here.

now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man

If you had read this thread in full and understand this post then you will never kena from VB

https://samsforum.asia/showpo...ostcount=22921

I think you have all yourself to blame for your own debacle...just look forward and learn from the mistake...dun bother to revenge or take it out on anyone...you have the guts to write to share means you were hurt badly...and now willing to face the future...

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Some people have been careful with their life all this while; only to take so much risk thinking of getting into something they don't understand and don't know how to handle.

VBs is a different breed of woman. When I first encounter one; they are lovely creature...... and after a while you will see their dark side.

This thread is full of examples; and yet still people post new story about how they fall in love with a FL.

The correct way to handle a VB; 99% of Singapore men will not be able to do.

Because we are brought up "to care".

The right way is "don't care".
Don't bother what they do.
Don't bother to control them.
Don't bother with their friends.
Don't listen to their stories.
Don't trust what they tell you.
Don't be angry with them.
Don't need to feel sad for them.
Don't need to plan future.
Don't talk about money.
Last and the least; don't listen to their father dying, mother sick; sisters schooling; house collapsing; dog give birth; uncle getting married........ because all this got nothing to do with "your happiness".

Before I forget....... what they do to you; you return "double". (classic H88 theory)

If you don't understand; you are just one of the 99.99% that don't. Don't need to feel bad.

But most will not listen and take the risk thinking "they got nothing to lose..."

Stupid boy; VBs are the one "that got nothing to lose...... you have everything that they don't have." And when they get hold of what you have; they will never stop..... they will look forward meeting other potential......"better man".

I learn a lot since June 2013. Thanks to H88 whom bring me there to see beautiful Vietnam and bring me to places to see pretty ladies. Past 2 years I have seen people with years of experience in VN; fall hard....... really hard.

Simply because they can do a lot of thing behind your back; and you can never detect it.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by justguy

now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man

sad to hear that bro; There are good and bad vb just that you met the wrong person. If the vb keep talking about $$$ you can forget about it. A lot of VB will say no $ no honey. Just learn from experience. Me too learn from experience.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by justguy

now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man

Chances are she no longer like or need you cos she found a newer better more interesting water fish

Even if her new love can give her equal or more than you do, yet
She still can forgo your 1.5k monthly, which is comparatively big sum, is it is too much effort needed to earn this extra amount?

Obviously she is a gone case

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by justguy

leaving me a poor and broken man

U should be happy instead, nothing lost except money n a bit of heart break n u learnt a lesson even the most elite MBA dun teach u.

Be smart next time.... dun fall for a WL. WL's main objective to work is $$$$$.

Again dun be sad. If u r truly looking for love, dun go KTV to look for 1. Look for proper channel. Good luck.

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by justguy

Sharing my sad ending story here.

feel sad for u bro after reading ur story. i know its hard to shaft this down ur throat. i wanted to end my relationship with my vietbu bc i realised she is not worth it. but many times just feel hard to let go due to the KC.

if u can share your story here, means u seen her true colours. so 'chang tong bu ru duan tong'. end it now and dun turn back. at least u save your next 1.5k allowance which is damn a lot lor to a viet.

think of ur extra savings of 1.5k and how to use this money to hook up your next vb for a fresh new pussie experience. hehe.. cheers!

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by justguy View Post

I m just curious what his age..

because, different age mean different thing..

Anyway, everything continue to move on.. because u r still alive..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by eddy72

Originally Posted by justguy View Post

I m just curious what his age..

because, different age mean different thing..

Anyway, everything continue to move on.. because u r still alive..

IMHO, age is no different...

I had seen different age group men bite the dust with VB...dun think older men wiser unless he had a great master behind or went thru painful past experiences...

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

IMHO, age is no different...

I had seen different age group men bite the dust with VB...dun think older men wiser unless he had a great master behind or went thru painful past experiences...

I probably can't express well in words..

what I mean is something like this..

when young buy stock lose $$$$$, nvm, work hard n earn again..

when mid age buy stock lose $$$$$, shd not lose too much n can earn bk..

when old age buy stock lose $$$$$.. shd see open..

[pusielover]

To our bro justguy, it's good to see so many of our bro here supporting u, be encouraged n move on... All the best to u

[damong777]

Originally Posted by justguy

now She stopped replying to any of my msg and deleted me from her fb. 2 years of love , investment and commitment down the drain like waste water..
leaving me a poor and broken man

Bro, think of as a painful investment gone bad.

To be honest, seeing her true colors now is better later u wanted to marry her, give her sp here. then what happened, once she get it and divorce you, is it better for it to end now and save you more pain in future.

Not sure which joint u know from.Once vb work in the trade, they are exposed to the colorful world and seducing power of $$.

If you really want good vbs, go vn and find from source. they are plentiful of which there who are not corrupted yet.

PS: dun ask me where to go to find them.