my affair with my sis in law

[joew2005]

aiyah ... jz continue with the stori la .....

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by joew2005

aiyah ... jz continue with the stori la .....

dont be impatient lah bro. sunday is family day.. i try my best..

anyway, sorry if its too long winded. its finishing soon. i reckon another 4-5 postings.

[reflexk]

Another great update!

Keep it coming, bro!

[ArtOfBonk]

Seriously my idol! Camping for updates!

[vins]

Bro, nice one... Keep going man, can't wait to know what's the ending...

[XesFocus]

Originally Posted by seowlang

Bro, my wife didnt suspect me. She was a lady that is not really into sex but that suits me fine. i wouldnt consider myself a high sex drive person.. i can go without it for a week somtimes, i can do it 2-3 times a day if im sexcited. But no, my wife is not a turnoff.

i have tried to spice things up even before marriage but probably her pragmatic behaviour was the reason why our marriage couldnt escalate to another level. it pains me to say this but she is good as a wife but not as a lover. u know what i mean?

Bro.....the way you answer this realli strikes a resonance with me man.....btw keep up the gd work and write more!!!

[seowlang]

We checked out of the hotel the next morning.. and life returned to normal..

Meanwhile, J started working in the bank which she did internship during her uni days. For the next 2 months, we were doing what normals couples do.. shopping, movies, dining together, karaokes, clubbing etc. We were holding hands, exchanging kisses and hugs, stealing glances at each other, whispering sweet nothings... enjoying each other's company. However, we were careful not to do it in crowded areas.. I guess deep down, both of us have a mutual understanding, an unspoken awareness that we could be seen by ppl who would not approve of this relationship.

As we grew even closer than before, somehow J's expectation of me increased as well. She wanted me to be a part of almost everything she did or required some decision making (eg. whether she should take up her masters, other job options etc.). Perhaps age being a factor and she needed guidance, I do feel mentally drained sometimes. However, I tried my best to be there for her, whenever she needed me. There were several occasions where J asked me to join her friends. I declined and she was always upset. I tried making up to her in other ways and she would usually be appeased by me, or at least I thought so. There were also many times where she wanted to meet me, but I couldnt because my wife was not working. J was rather understanding. she did not make things difficult for me. I felt guilty especially when I couldnt accompany her on weekends. And on several weekends, J just stayed at home when I was not available. I knew she has many friends to go out with, but she made a choice not to go out. I felt awful.

The biggest awkward moments during those 2 months were family dinners at J's place. My wife and I still go back on Fridays and it was really very uncomfortable having my wife sitting beside and J sitting opposite me. I could sense that J felt really uneasy too as dinners were no longer cheerful and happy like it used to be. My wife, J and I often teased and laughed at each other ever so often in the past.. but since J and I got together, it was often rather quiet. I guess the main reason was me. I was often the 'life' of the dinner, often poking fun at everyone, myself included. But I could no longer do it. It also didnt help that after dinner, our regular fruits and tv sessions were turning unbearable too. My wife would once a while snuggle up beside me, her arms under me and lying on my shoulder. From the corner of my eyes, I could see that J often steal glances at us but turned away very quickly. She would sometimes walked away and announced she had something to do in her room. I figured she felt uncomfortable too. We never really discussed all these when we meet but somehow, we knew those awkward moments will be unavoidable when J and I are together...

Unknowingly, reality was slowly seeping in..

[MarsIswar]

Bro the cut are painful I guess... The world longest distant is not at the other end of the world but is being next to you but unable to hold and care... Kudos to you bro Prost..

[BossQ]

Bro,

kudos to you.

This is indeed a very good story and i definitely have learnt about your situation.
A crucial learning point for me as i was about to taste the 'forbidden' fruit with my sister-in-law myself. Nearly got into the deep trouble.

[shenzhen]

Wow bro..it may turn out very bad...if she is out of control!!..take care

[horsehliao]

bro seow lang,

first, i must congratulate you on your great writing skills n expressions bcos you are writing from your heart with lots of emotions.

i have experienced some parts of your story too, thats why i can feel for you.

second, your story is quite unusual and rare but also interesting at the same time, tho the sex part description is minimal and clearly understood, the overall situation is still very sexciting indeed and it still make great bedtime reading.

third, while you sounded like a nice man, the feelings of lust n emotions will turn you to be "naughty" and dangerous at the same time if you both get caught, it will be the end of you and also for your SIL.

but at the end of the day, I am wondering how will your marriage move along down the road when you have said that you love your wife but she is not good in sex n here, you have great sex n feelings for your SIL, very contradictory.

I always believe that love needs good sex, failing which you will still be hunting for it, with any other women, openly or in dark secrets.

I have been married for donkey years n my home sex is zero, so I have to bonk outside my home, but I need bonks with "feelings" otherwise, I have problems with my little head down there.

anyway, I did enjoyed reading your write up very much, especially with the climax and anti climax parts, burning my midnite lamp...from 2am to 3am.... ha ha....

finally, I hope you have a good ending and also for your SIL, she sounded like a nice lady too.

cheers and best wishes to you and your loved ones.

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by BossQ

A crucial learning point for me as i was about to taste the 'forbidden' fruit with my sister-in-law myself. Nearly got into the deep trouble.

bro, im glad u didnt get into trouble. im also very glad that my sharing has prevented you from making a very serious mistake.

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by horsehliao

bro seow lang,

first, i must congratulate you on your great writing skills n expressions bcos you are writing from your heart with lots of emotions.

i have experienced some parts of your story too, thats why i can feel for you.

second, your story is quite unusual and rare but also interesting at the same time, tho the sex part description is minimal and clearly understood, the overall situation is still very sexciting indeed and it still make great bedtime reading.

third, while you sounded like a nice man, the feelings of lust n emotions will turn you to be "naughty" and dangerous at the same time if you both get caught, it will be the end of you and also for your SIL.

but at the end of the day, I am wondering how will your marriage move along down the road when you have said that you love your wife but she is not good in sex n here, you have great sex n feelings for your SIL, very contradictory.

I always believe that love needs good sex, failing which you will still be hunting for it, with any other women, openly or in dark secrets.

I have been married for donkey years n my home sex is zero, so I have to bonk outside my home, but I need bonks with "feelings" otherwise, I have problems with my little head down there.

anyway, I did enjoyed reading your write up very much, especially with the climax and anti climax parts, burning my midnite lamp...from 2am to 3am.... ha ha....

finally, I hope you have a good ending and also for your SIL, she sounded like a nice lady too.

cheers and best wishes to you and your loved ones.

thanks bro. much appreciated.

I do agree that a great marriage requires great sex as one of its component to be successful. that is however in an ideal world and unfortunately, we do not live in one. i have had several girlfriends before i met my wife and i can tell u that my wife fares mediocrely in terms of sex.

i have learnt to manage my expectations over the years. A person cant be good in all areas. while my wife may fall below expectations on bed, she made it up with her other qualities (i mentioned before in previous post) which my other gfs do not have. we gain some, we lose some. and if i have to choose again, id still rather lose some great sex and have those great characteristics of hers.

Maybe lust always gets the better of me. i can separate having sex and making love. i can still have sex without emotions involved... just pure physical attraction.

[Taisho75]

Originally Posted by seowlang

i was not only playing with fire myself but somehow also led my SIL into it. i was planning to go thru the turn of events in sequence but since u mentioned, then i will tell u that the relationship is already over. i must admit i dont know when to stop. u will know the details in my following few posts.

sorry and pardon me if i sound a little blunt, but let me ask u a question. why did u go into a relp with a married woman in the first place?i believe most men are the same. we can tell, by and large, what is right and what is wrong. i knew it was wrong but i went ahead with this affair and its something i regret till now. from bystanders' point of view, it is always easier and clearer to judge. just like u can clearly advise me about what to do and i thank u for that.

u obviously made the right choice to leave a married woman. and i honestly believe that if u really love a person, u will be happy when u see her leading a happier and much more fulfilling life.

Paiseh for the late reply. I was into the relationship unknowing. If not for the fact that I join a SDU function with her for Christmas dinner, I won't get to know she is married. It was a down hill ride after that.

Most young guys dun think with the big head, but with the small head first. Its only when they hit a wall that they start thinking.

Your story is closely related to what I experienced and I can relate to your story. Anyway I am looking forward to more of your story.

[hAvAnAs]

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