Gf, not giving... buay tahan liao!

[babyeyes]

Bro, I think she feel you like sex with her more than luv or caring her.

[peekaboo]

TS, when a women start to feel that she is treated like a sex machine then things will become complicated.

Try showing empathy that you understand her feelings ...

[justanothergirl]

Just sharing my own experience.

I was in the same situation as you before. Not wanting sex for a period of time due to quarrels. It can put a damper on the sex life.

Maybe plan a romantic date to try get things going? Most women are emotional creatures, they think with their heart.

Good luck TS!

[iceman1978]

Originally Posted by Jizzer

Well true bro... recall last time when we are together, still in our honey moon period. I use to have sex with her till she squirt!

Recently quarrel on and off... probably this is the cause also.
But things start to tone down a little.
I hate it when she always say I'm taking her for sex = love.

wahhh biangg! she say this, she win liao loh!

Haha i have the same reason too

[hi2u]

I have the same issue too.
But nonetheless, a non-sexual relationship can be good too. Life is much more than just sex.
But well, when urges are concern, hmmm I think there are reasons why we visit this forum. Oxy-moron though, as much as much morally, it's not right to fuck another girl other than your own girlfriend, but oh well...

[fantasyinjector]

Talk to her. I think she might just be tired and you are not initiating in a right way.

[Johnbass]

I also buey tahan cos' wifey don't want this n that during sex... Dun know how to coax her... Showed her XXX videos on the different positions... But she shy.
Next option is 偷吃 bah.

[smallLJboy]

girl are very emotional creature and they feel the "feeling" more then sex.. of cos if during honey moon period.. everything is ok, sex is good.. but after time when she start to think that when ever you meet her and only want sex.. she will start to back off..

so treat her like a real gf and not a sex release machine.. you have to sweet talk to her and make her feel "lovely"..once they feel love and they naturally feel sexing and more open to sex..

go shopping with her.. I mean really go shopping as walk into the shop with her.. help her choose cloths (of cos u can choose those sexy mini type) and ask her to try on and then praise her how nice it look on her.. boost her confident level up..

do something romantic together..gal like to do things together with someone they love. so dont always said no time, boaring, want to play sccocer, play xbox etc etc.. go out and join some classes with her.. they will love it and eventaully when they feel love again, they will give it to you,

then when you have sex with her.. not just thinking of making yourself shiok only.. service her first.kiss her (not always her nibble) but kiss other place, touch her like touching a tofu, gently.. make her feel precious.. then she will reward you back once she get what she want.. eventually she will start to enjoy sex with you and not thinking that you are only here to make love with her..

in summary, gal want feeling more then action (sex).. so give her the feeling and make her feel that you really love her, enjoy doing thing with her.. and once her feeling is "full"..she will need to release it back to you (in another way)

[Augustus]

Originally Posted by Jizzer

Hi all,

I guess here is the only place for me to vent my frustration!

We have not been having sex for about 1 month plus already!
Sometimes this really made me no choice but to DIY, felt so pathetic and it's really not pleasing enough!

Talk to her about it but end up telling me, no feeling, too tired... worst still sometimes even got push away when I becoming touchy to get the ball rolling...

Super siann...! what to do?!

Originally Posted by noobster89

Dude, I have a gf too. The worst part about this close to 5yrs relationship is that she DOES NOT WANNA HAVE SEX! I have to DIY..........
I KNOW, I have a FUCKING sad life!!

And the most she does is bj & hj, that's it. THAT'S FUCKING IT! I've decided to seek sexual release somewhere else instead. I can't take it anymore.

Originally Posted by hi2u

I have the same issue too.
But nonetheless, a non-sexual relationship can be good too. Life is much more than just sex.
But well, when urges are concern, hmmm I think there are reasons why we visit this forum. Oxy-moron though, as much as much morally, it's not right to fuck another girl other than your own girlfriend, but oh well...

To the 3 bros above, you guys really speak my mind... There are a lot of reasons why our GFs are refusing sex before marriage. But we need it too, its good for the relationship, spirit, mind and everything!! Pros>Cons.

[wantanabee]

if you think she is worth maintaining as a gf and looking towards a marriage future then so be it lor. you can always sex elsewhere. meanwhile u should try to understand the problem from her. likely she woundn't say things that will hurt ur ego. but somehow u must proof ur desire to solve the problem.

however if not the case, then dont waste time liao...

as to why she refuses to have sex, too many possiblities.
1, u aren't performing and she doesnt feel good having sex with you, therefore it's another waste of time for her, or rather a one-sided enjoyment in the sex
2, she might be seeing someone else who can climax her, might not be someone. even a vibrator may work better than u
3, certain experience when having sex with you last time refrain her from committing again. eg, u dont wear condom, she scare shotgun, or u always forcefully make her perform bj? bbbj? or u attempt to sex her in some AV position where she dont feel comfortable.?
4, dont let her feel commerical. eg, you buy things for her in return for sex.

[wantanabee]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

I also buey tahan cos' wifey don't want this n that during sex... Dun know how to coax her... Showed her XXX videos on the different positions... But she shy.
Next option is 偷吃 bah.

certain AV positions are unrealistic lei... dont let ur mind be tainted with those AV vids. AV vid are deliberately made to enhance the visual effect and to increase the room for imagination.
imagine ur world w/o AV vids. that is how natural sex will be.

if u want a AV experience, find a whore

[Augustus]

qn to those bros, if you gf don't give you, and you are sick of DIY, will you turn to FL?

[fantasyinjector]

Originally Posted by Augustus

qn to those bros, if you gf don't give you, and you are sick of DIY, will you turn to FL?

Isnt the answer very obvious from all the bros?
Is whether you wanna do it or not only

[sundial]

Originally Posted by Augustus

qn to those bros, if you gf don't give you, and you are sick of DIY, will you turn to FL?

Of coz ... somehow have to settle it lar.
First few time guilty but later hack it! her fault not mine. I have my own needs and I need to take care of myself.

[Augustus]

Originally Posted by sundial

Of coz ... somehow have to settle it lar.
First few time guilty but later hack it! her fault not mine. I have my own needs and I need to take care of myself.

Devils at work... I have to agree on this bro. The lil brother needs to be served!!