得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

[jonrai]

This remind me 22 years ago till now i still miss her pretty smile. As my prode I dun want to stir into triangle love, I gave up... Later she called me, but I miss the opportunity again. End up we get married same year and month but different partner.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

.....我心里已不存在了！！！！我已死心了！！！

I said the exact words to a girl 2 weeks ago.

[DAdults]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

你在我心里已不存在了！！！！我已死心了！！！

当女人对你说心灰意冷时，她真的是对你没有任何留念了！！！

I can only hope that you really gave up on him and wouldn't feel hurt. Wishing you the speediest of recoveries from your emotional scarring...

[tattoofetish22]

如果想哭我自己会找地方
你不必担心我会弄湿你肩膀
走在街上到处是寂寞的人
我想谁都不要同情的眼光
受一点伤并不是可怕的事
人就是这样才会愈来愈坚强
谁叫男人永远比女人清楚
爱情它何时该收何时该放

你走吧我不哭无论多痛苦
你走吧我不哭就算会迷路

明天一个人的我依然会微笑
虽然它或许也是伤心的开始
爱情的轮回总是一次又一次
是悲是喜终将都变成往事

明天一个人的我依然会微笑
那怕早已没有人记得我名字
别问我为何执迷不悟的尝试
女人生来就多这么一点痴

tis is hw I feel nw!!!! I wil n I muz move on!!!! thks for all e advices!!!!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Remember how you were before this person appeared?
You are just going back to that state, let your body adjust, it'll take some time but dun fight it neither look for a fast cure.
Look forward and walk forward, do not look back, neither let the chains of the past hold you back, cos if anyone is holding you back, its only you yourself.
Keep the memories but wake up to reality.
That's the way to embrace life!

[arsenal_84]

what's yours is yours.
if is not meant to be, is never be.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

如果想哭我自己会找地方

哭了就算了, 眼前的这个男人, 千般好, 万般好, 处处是优点, 他不爱你, 这点, 你永远改变不了. 分手时, 不哭. 当然, 不是要你一点都不哭. 当着面, 别哭, 背地里, 往死里哭, 但要提醒自己,这是最后一次哭, 最后一次放肆自己去痛. 心里能装着一些时间带不走的淡淡悲伤, 爱自己多一点, 也是一种幸福!

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

哭了就算了, 眼前的这个男人, 千般好, 万般好, 处处是优点, 他不爱你, 这点, 你永远改变不了. 分手时, 不哭. 当然, 不是要你一点都不哭. 当着面, 别哭, 背地里, 往死里哭, 但要提醒自己,这是最后一次哭, 最后一次放肆自己去痛. 心里能装着一些时间带不走的淡淡悲伤, 爱自己多一点, 也是一种幸福!

thks so much!!!!!!!!! i gonna b fine soon!!!!!!!!!

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Remember how you were before this person appeared?
You are just going back to that state, let your body adjust, it'll take some time but dun fight it neither look for a fast cure.
Look forward and walk forward, do not look back, neither let the chains of the past hold you back, cos if anyone is holding you back, its only you yourself.
Keep the memories but wake up to reality.
That's the way to embrace life!

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

what's yours is yours.
if is not meant to be, is never be.

thks!!!!!!!!!!! i'm gonna get over soon!!!!!!!!!!!

[Dickens1111]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

like wat's stated in e thread.... do u agree tt be it whether is in r/s or watever tt u wanted so much to have/get but cant get/have it n e tot of it keeps running ard in ur mind???? normally u can't concentrate in doing ur daily routine s per norm cos u been pondering over it??? can sumbody pls advice???? cos I'm encountering some of tis kinda problems n I'm gg bonkers soon!!!!

Hey girl, I am going through the same shit and it has been almost 2 $% years. Consider yourself lucky that the other party isn't continually pulling your strings and prolonging the pain, yoyo-ing you around. Then it drags and drags with bouts of hope then disappointment, betrayal, dispair then hope again,.... it's like going through breakups after breakups with the same person.

You just have to ride this out. Everyone can give you logical answers and direction but your mind is never at the heart, so it is damn$% useless and sometimes down right boring and frustrating hearing the same old advice which you could very well give to someone else if you weren't in the shit pile. If you are conscious enough, you've probably given yourself that same advice in those moments of 'enuf is enuf!'. After a while, time won't heal, but you'll get used to it and there will be sufficient distractions to divert your energy. But pray he doesn't come back and rekindle that little hope that you'll carry with you forever.

Before I signoff, here's a BIG HUG from a fellow brother who is still sitting in his pile of shit similar to yours... *HUGS and MUACKS*

[Stormy]

爱情是什么？
　　小时候的爱情是蓝天，希望有白云给它做伴，
　　再大点的爱情是船，希望有海洋给它做伴，
　　再再大点的爱情是沙，希望风能给它做伴，
　　婚后的爱情是小溪，希望山涧给它做伴，
　　中年的爱情是干柴，希望烈火给它作伴
　　老年的爱情是地球，希望月亮给它做伴。
　　很多时候我们感叹自己没有真爱，得不到爱，
其实我们都爱过，被爱过，体验过，追求过，放弃过，
　　有些人看透了，有些人放不下，放不下是因为看不透，
　　看不透是因为觉悟低，觉悟低是因为追求低，
　　追求低是因为没志向，没志向是因为受挫折，
　　受挫折是因为爱错了，早知如此何必当初，
　　所以不要去抱怨哦，
　　也不要说对不起哦，
　　哈哈，反正爱情就是个神奇的圈圈，
　　别被它诅咒了，
　　人生有很多个圈圈，
　　勇敢的去被诅咒吧.

[Pilot Preceda]

Originally Posted by hugs

altho i have no power but up u in my heart bro

thanks...
up you back... (in my heart of coz)

[honda81234]

Hi all,

Actually r/s thus type of thing take 2 hand to clap. And most importantly is to find someone tt love u and u love him/her. There is really no point dragging on when he/she don't love u as there won't be any happiness. Personally I have encounter a few bad experience and I learn from there.
Anyway life is short and why not we spend our life happily and cheerfully. Hope all bros/Sis here get over with it soon.
Tattoo: ur post here v emo. Hope u really 放下来了而不是欺骗ownself as I know it's not easily to say put down then put down. But moral support here for u

[babygalluv]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

如果想哭我自己会找地方
你不必担心我会弄湿你肩膀
走在街上到处是寂寞的人
我想谁都不要同情的眼光
受一点伤并不是可怕的事
人就是这样才会愈来愈坚强
谁叫男人永远比女人清楚
爱情它何时该收何时该放

你走吧我不哭无论多痛苦
你走吧我不哭就算会迷路

明天一个人的我依然会微笑
虽然它或许也是伤心的开始
爱情的轮回总是一次又一次
是悲是喜终将都变成往事

明天一个人的我依然会微笑
那怕早已没有人记得我名字
别问我为何执迷不悟的尝试
女人生来就多这么一点痴

tis is hw I feel nw!!!! I wil n I muz move on!!!! thks for all e advices!!!!

bitch!!!!!!!!!!! can you like tell me what's happening????

[DAdults]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

如果想哭我自己会找地方
你不必担心我会弄湿你肩膀
走在街上到处是寂寞的人
我想谁都不要同情的眼光
受一点伤并不是可怕的事
人就是这样才会愈来愈坚强
谁叫男人永远比女人清楚
爱情它何时该收何时该放

你走吧我不哭无论多痛苦
你走吧我不哭就算会迷路

明天一个人的我依然会微笑
虽然它或许也是伤心的开始
爱情的轮回总是一次又一次
是悲是喜终将都变成往事

明天一个人的我依然会微笑
那怕早已没有人记得我名字
别问我为何执迷不悟的尝试
女人生来就多这么一点痴

tis is hw I feel nw!!!! I wil n I muz move on!!!! thks for all e advices!!!!

TS, I hope that your feelings has, or will soon shift from the above song to this chorus.

走在漫漫人生路
点点滴滴都幸福
为爱勇敢付出失败从不在乎
哪怕我一生孤独
回头看看来时路
对与错我都满足
就算起起落落只要不枉此生
走在漫漫人生路