Is your KCed WL lying to you?

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Being KCed by a WL does not mean you are a certified cheongster...

Being a certified cheongster means that you will not be KCed by the WL.

Too bad I still have not received my cert yet after so many years of cheonging.. sigh.

[somaur]

Well, I will just say that different cheongster behaves differently, those that never kenna KCed is just that they have not met that one gal yet.

However, if you do meet that gal, rather than be taken for a fool, perhaps we can have a litmus test, that's all I am thinking. Obviously this isn't fool proof, but I remember one bro wrote about KCed before, just need to imagine that WL after you walk out of the room and the next customer goes in, and she says the exact same thing to them. You will probably know better what to expect and not get yourself knee deep into shit.

However, there might just be that slim chance that the gal is for real, then I feel we would all be happy to care and have their companionship during their stay in Sg. We are not talking about long term or something, as in Papa Yong's thread, those things are like 1 in a 1000?

P.S: Errm...I am getting quite a few PMs with WLs that they wish to have them tested...Me only 2 hands 2 legs and limited funds...do give me a bit of time.

Cheers

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by yangguo

Being a certified cheongster means that you will not be KCed by the WL.

Too bad I still have not received my cert yet after so many years of cheonging.. sigh.

You are absolutely right...

A certified cheongster should not be KCed by any WL...In fact he should KC the WL without getting KCed by her...

[king bong]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

You are absolutely right...

A certified cheongster should not be KCed by any WL...In fact he should KC the WL without getting KCed by her...

Let's call it part of growing up haha learn from experience. Very rare can you kc a wl because they are experts. So learn to get kced by them then use it to counter attack and end up kc them haha call it the art of war

[bonkster]

The answer to the question "Is your KCed WL lying to you?" is simply YES!

In the judicial system, a suspect should be innocent until proven guilty.

In the KCed by WL/FL system, a suspect should be guilty until proven innocent.

[woail2]

Bro Somaur, I imagine u are still young, may be less than 40, and still have strong emotions about love & care, and you get electrified by a couple of PRC WLs you really like huh?
For old birds who have gone thru many love battles with PRC WLs before, they are hardened by now, and less likely to get KCed again. Nonetheless, there could still be a couple of old birds out there who earn a few hundred K a year, and they can afford to splurge 10% of their income on PRC WLs, changing from one to another, and not feeling kena cheated at all if things dont work out with the chickens.

[evildestron]

a WL tried to ask me to buy her an iphone4 , saying she will pay me back all those , at first i wanted to buy , after seeing this thread i realise and wake up time to move on !!

thanks for the wake up call bros !

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by king bong

Come on bro frankie, you must have been KCed even once it's part of being a certified cheongster haha

the furthest i would go is to only rtf her more often and remind myself that its only the sex not the feeling that makes me feel good been with her..

[king bong]

We all meet our match bro frankie! Haha like what yoda said in star wars the force strengthens when the bond grows

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by king bong

We all meet our match bro frankie! Haha like what yoda said in star wars the force strengthens when the bond grows

Well bro i been through it all thou not from a wl..like what they say "the grass may look greener"...unfortunately...

[woail2]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Is your WL lying to the KCed you? Get real. Only you are KCed. She just lets you think you've KCed her. Dumb question from a dumb guy. Now get real and get wise.

Bro Xgenre, please be gentle lah. Dont condemn any bro asking dumb question. It is a learning process for young cheongsters who dont have many years of battlefield experience in GL, and now we are facing sexenemies we have never faced before until 2009 Jan. So like LKY, we the old birds want to pass on knowledge & experiences to the younger generation of cheongsters. Let them ask all dumb questions, and old birds will tell the Hard Truths. This is wealth preservation man! If not, lots of money will flow to China and we will become fucking poor one day because we fuck the PRC WL too much without knowing how to control our finances. Tio-bo-tio, bro?

[somaur]

Originally Posted by woail2

Bro Somaur, I imagine u are still young, may be less than 40, and still have strong emotions about love & care, and you get electrified by a couple of PRC WLs you really like huh?
For old birds who have gone thru many love battles with PRC WLs before, they are hardened by now, and less likely to get KCed again. Nonetheless, there could still be a couple of old birds out there who earn a few hundred K a year, and they can afford to splurge 10% of their income on PRC WLs, changing from one to another, and not feeling kena cheated at all if things dont work out with the chickens.

You are spot on, less than 40! Perhaps that's why kenna KCed before. That WL have left already, guess still learning to harden myself, but so far so good. Haven't fall into trap yet.

However, seeing Papa Yong's thread kinda brings up memory so started this as a way to help some bro who are in the same predicament. Not all of us are earning a few hundred k a year, so if they were to find out earlier about the WL, the earlier and less loss they will suffer? That's my rationale at least.

That being said, I am not saying 100% of all WL are fake, there are also the true case as in Papa yong's thread, just that they are far and few in between.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by somaur

You are spot on, less than 40! Perhaps that's why kenna KCed before. That WL have left already, guess still learning to harden myself, but so far so good. Haven't fall into trap yet.

However, seeing Papa Yong's thread kinda brings up memory so started this as a way to help some bro who are in the same predicament. Not all of us are earning a few hundred k a year, so if they were to find out earlier about the WL, the earlier and less loss they will suffer? That's my rationale at least.

That being said, I am not saying 100% of all WL are fake, there are also the true case as in Papa yong's thread, just that they are far and few in between.

Age does not play a major part in whether a guy gets KCed by a WL or not. It is his approach to the whole thing that determines if he is going to fall into the KC trap. As I always maintain, the best philosophy is fuck and forget. Remember that whatever gfe you get from a WL is just a pretence 99.999% of the time. If you do not understand this simple concept, then u deserve what you get.

And asking strangers to test if the WL is lying to you is ridiculous. Who in their right mind would do that and if you find out that she is a liar, what are you going to do? KPKB here about how you got cheated of your feelings and money?

[enigma]

A mature adult knows the proper functions of every unit of the world, and accordingly, how he should, and should not, behave in each. You don't go inside a movie theatre to experience reality, and, likewise, you don't visit a brothel to seek love. Of course, you might have the illusion that love comes just when you don't expect it. But then, A: 99% of the time, it's just your illusion, and B: even it is real initially, love grown in wrong place will never get nurtured properly. Instead of joy, in time, it is pain and regret that it brings. As Shakespear put it,

"A bliss in proof,—and prov’d, a very woe;
Before, a joy propos’d; behind, a dream
---Sonnet No. 129"

If you taste something delightful in a restaurant, what you should do is to enjoy as much as you can and recommend to your friend. Why would you want to KC the chef? So that the chef can and will cook only for you?

But, having said all this, there will always be bros who fall victim. After all, men are just dumb dicks...

"All this the world well knows; yet none knows well
To shun the heaven that leads men to this hell.
--- Sonnet No. 129"

[enigma]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

the furthest i would go is to only rtf her more often and remind myself that its only the sex not the feeling that makes me feel good been with her..

Right attitude!