My first half f*cked experience

[pussylicious12345]

Originally Posted by soulempty

Yea i do know that condom itself does not provide full protection, there is still the risk of STD and HIV involved, however it is kept to a minimal from what i heard. In additional , i heard that the WL does go through mandatory check up once every 28 days and would require a license to operate , some even said they might be cleaner then the girls who have regular ONS.

Prior before reading this forum , i was very ignorant about sexual health risk , for example unaware that hiv can't be contacted via air or skin contact. The virus itself "die" when exposed to the air if i'm not wrong , However the risk of STD is still quite and very common.

I was really enlightened by the various health issues raise and learned quite a lot from here. Always remember the slogan about "raw is war".

Just curious how old were u when u first started and how many days/months/years that u have actually been cheonging? Did u actually come down with any sexual related health issues so far?

Legal chickens in Geylang should be quite safe. If not, chenghu won't allow this industry to be ard for more than 20 years.

[Tronx]

Originally Posted by soulempty

Yea i do know that condom itself does not provide full protection, there is still the risk of STD and HIV involved, however it is kept to a minimal from what i heard. In additional , i heard that the WL does go through mandatory check up once every 28 days and would require a license to operate , some even said they might be cleaner then the girls who have regular ONS.

Prior before reading this forum , i was very ignorant about sexual health risk , for example unaware that hiv can't be contacted via air or skin contact. The virus itself "die" when exposed to the air if i'm not wrong , However the risk of STD is still quite and very common.

I was really enlightened by the various health issues raise and learned quite a lot from here. Always remember the slogan about "raw is war".

Just curious how old were u when u first started and how many days/months/years that u have actually been cheonging? Did u actually come down with any sexual related health issues so far?

We always take things for granted and is just lust we can't avoid. I start when I was 18 because of this forum and friends hehehe now mid 20s. Playing around for maybe 2 to 3 years then stop. So far I am safe from anything, but when you have fear of getting something, you will find yourself wanting to go for a check up, I went for a full HIV and STD check up cost me more than $400.

Even if you hear that is safe for condom, WL go for check up, Blah blah blah. Ask yourself, Is it really safe? Condom we won't say cos is understandable that it still not 100% safe. WL go for check up? How do you know? When was the check up?? Even check up not accurate, cos they need a period of time after contacting something.

In the end is your decision, think about it when you contact into some HIV or STD. How people look at you, you will have a hard time trying to open up with families, friends and at work. Think about future, that what I have to say.

It all my past experience, well I said before if you continue it will be like drugs you will get addicted. Hope you found it useful.

[BodyLanguage]

Nice of those who shared their experiences.

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by soulempty

Thanks for the genuine advice guys.

The pleasure of sex really make one feel enjoyable, way beyond words can describe while u are in the act but at the same time u can also feel real "dirty" after the act , especially with the sense of guilt and shame. Do u guys even dare to look into the eye of ur partner or perhaps the wl after all the hanky panky and dirty deeds done on the bed? The after feeling of shame and guilt is real horrible.

I admit that i was avoiding her stare and eye contact after i popped. Just nodded silently and couldn't wait to get out of the room.

There is a reason why it felt horrible for you. It's because you didn't experience your first intimate moment with a woman out of love for each other. You would remember this for the rest of your life. Learn to deal with it.

When I was still a virgin, the idea of visiting a commercial sex worker did crossed my mind, but I never came close. I realized that, if I had already waited for so many years as a virgin, I don't want to do it with someone who doesn't love me enough or care about my feelings. I wanted to make love.

I do not know what sexual intimacy mean to you, but for me, it is never about me. I want that the woman I spend intimate time with, to understand and realize that I would do whatever it takes to please her in bed. And when you do, she would MAKE LOVE to you man, not just sex.

Everyone deserves a girl-friend experience, you just need to find yours! A proper GF.

[SamBoga]

Originally Posted by t4buzhsy

Legal chickens in Geylang should be quite safe. If not, chenghu won't allow this industry to be ard for more than 20 years.

Very well said

[catchmeltan]

dun need to feel guilty la. its a new exp for you and if u dun like it, then dun go back again that's all. must think of it as if u nvr try u will nvr know it.

[sony2002]

Ok la, u did it with condom, so you are still a virgin in raw sex.

So keep the first raw sex with your loved one ok? Once you tried raw sex, you will never turn back and you will forget about your first half f*ucked experience

[diputs1269]

Not bad TS still managed to do half fuck at least better than none.

[StealthBomber]

Good thing abt starting this 'bad' habit young is that still have energy and stamina to make the whole experience worth it. 2,3 shots,overnight,tarma all no problem.

Bad thing abt starting young is that a LOT more money is going to be flushed down this deep drain... money that is needed later to establish your home,family, etc.

[MouTakLouLah]

Originally Posted by StealthBomber

Good thing abt starting this 'bad' habit young is that still have energy and stamina to make the whole experience worth it. 2,3 shots,overnight,tarma all no problem.

Bad thing abt starting young is that a LOT more money is going to be flushed down this deep drain... money that is needed later to establish your home,family, etc.

Well said bro!

[soulempty]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

There is a reason why it felt horrible for you. It's because you didn't experience your first intimate moment with a woman out of love for each other. You would remember this for the rest of your life. Learn to deal with it.

When I was still a virgin, the idea of visiting a commercial sex worker did crossed my mind, but I never came close. I realized that, if I had already waited for so many years as a virgin, I don't want to do it with someone who doesn't love me enough or care about my feelings. I wanted to make love.

I do not know what sexual intimacy mean to you, but for me, it is never about me. I want that the woman I spend intimate time with, to understand and realize that I would do whatever it takes to please her in bed. And when you do, she would MAKE LOVE to you man, not just sex.

Everyone deserves a girl-friend experience, you just need to find yours! A proper GF.

don't think i will find or get one but thanks for the genuine advice

[Superfluid]

I wanted to write my story but I ended up replying yours. With the good command of language you possess, I really enjoyed your experience describing your spring chicken session

An easy way for you to forget this is just tell yourself you sought professional help to reduce your urges. She is, after all, a professional sex worker.

It's gonna be much like any other first time anyways, cumming faster than your shuttle-run, hugging the girl and not knowing what to do... but on the bright side, the WL is a PRO... she is used to seeing such things and will not get marred by the experience, thinking her BF is the '10 seconds man'

You might want to seek closure through a "re-evaluation" because it was pleasurable, but seemingly sinful and wrong. The choice, of course is yours.

Believe me bro, paid sex is always better than getting into a bad relationship. Sometimes, not getting emotionally entangled and blackmailed because of love and sex is the next best thing in life when compared to not getting any 'freebies' from your partner.

Pay, fuck and forget. Words to live by.

[Happycat]

Originally Posted by Superfluid

Pay, fuck and forget. Words to live by.

And also always use protection .

[Coup]

Originally Posted by Happycat

And also always use protection .

That is a must

[bejull]

Any more updates TS?