Do you regret marrying? - Page 20

Botakhead · #**286** 06-07-2015, 03:33 PM

People go into a marriage for different reasons, many do it and regret it, some try it and found taste unpleasant, a handful step onto the spring and bounce around don't know for what, a bunch of them held onto each other till death do they part.

Which ever reasons, in Singapore, the males are sure to be the one to suffer more either monetary wise, emotional wise, pleasure wise etc. all because of the Womens' Charter.

Not every one is the same, thinking, endurance, persistence, some say can stay together without love for the children's sake, that is bull-shit.

Want to split, time to split, need to split, had to split, then split lor, why hang on to a relationship that causes more pain than pleasure. Just make sure you can stand back on your own feet and face reality with more fervor.

sunhuan-con · #**287** 07-07-2015, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Zeee

In Singapore, 99% couples definitely thought of divorce once during their marriage life. Regretted a lot of decisions in life and marriage is definitely the biggest one among all.

The grass is always greener at the opposite site. When single wants a partner , when married wants freedom....Modern days people are pampered liaoz.

khanh · #**288** 09-07-2015, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

The grass is always greener at the opposite site. When single wants a partner , when married wants freedom....Modern days people are pampered liaoz.

yep, we make life contradictory.
or we can tell ourselves life is full of choices.

hazel · #**289** 22-08-2015, 03:15 AM

Hi,

I have a question.
What to do if the guy doesn't wan a divorce, no matter how his wife tell him that she has no feeling for him, cannot accommodate his living style. he is also a bankruptcy, and wants the wife to take the hdb loan for the new flat. Claiming that he will pay the loan.
He has some violence symptom ,but had yet to hit his wife.

Ps: this marriage involved a baby.

Asking on behalf of a friend.
Hope to hear some advise.

HonkyTonkyMan · #**290** 22-08-2015, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by hazel

Hi,

I have a question.
What to do if the guy doesn't wan a divorce, no matter how his wife tell him that she has no feeling for him, cannot accommodate his living style. he is also a bankruptcy, and wants the wife to take the hdb loan for the new flat. Claiming that he will pay the loan.
He has some violence symptom ,but had yet to hit his wife.

Ps: this marriage involved a baby.

Asking on behalf of a friend.
Hope to hear some advise.

Pretty nothing much he can do to stop the divorce proceeding, worse thing is having violence symptom, she won't need much reasons just unreasonable behaviour alone is enough.

jon2000sg · #**291** 22-08-2015, 12:43 PM

I'm single all my life, many times I tell myself
did I make the correct decision to stay single ?

my bro married for 18 years and now marriage is on the rocks ...

Captainoceania77 · #**292** 22-08-2015, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by jon2000sg

I'm single all my life, many times I tell myself
did I make the correct decision to stay single ?

my bro married for 18 years and now marriage is on the rocks ...

There is a saying that modern days marriage is like a gamble or russian roulette...either win or lose .

VielSpass · #**293** 22-08-2015, 04:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hazel

Hi,

I have a question.
What to do if the guy doesn't wan a divorce, no matter how his wife tell him that she has no feeling for him, cannot accommodate his living style. he is also a bankruptcy, and wants the wife to take the hdb loan for the new flat. Claiming that he will pay the loan.
He has some violence symptom ,but had yet to hit his wife.

Ps: this marriage involved a baby.

Asking on behalf of a friend.
Hope to hear some advise.

Tell your friend to dump that guy unless she wants her children to treat how the guy treat her when the baby grow up?

hazel · #**294** 22-08-2015, 11:12 PM

Thanks bros for all the response.

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Originally Posted by VielSpass

Tell your friend to dump that guy unless she wants her children to treat how the guy treat her when the baby grow up?

U mean the baby will treat my fren the same as his father treated her now, when the baby grow up?

hazel · #**295** 22-08-2015, 11:14 PM

Another problem is, my friend don't have saving.
No money to hire lawyer also..

redhun · #**296** 22-08-2015, 11:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hazel

Hi,

I have a question.
What to do if the guy doesn't wan a divorce, no matter how his wife tell him that she has no feeling for him, cannot accommodate his living style. he is also a bankruptcy, and wants the wife to take the hdb loan for the new flat. Claiming that he will pay the loan.
He has some violence symptom ,but had yet to hit his wife.

Ps: this marriage involved a baby.

Asking on behalf of a friend.
Hope to hear some advise.

Dear Hazel,

Tell ur friend never stay with a violent man, ESP when there's baby involved! I'm a victim of a violent abusive husband. I should have left earlier!!! We both would not suffer so long n a baby is better off without a father thn grow up with an abusive one!

Beretta · #**297** 23-08-2015, 01:50 AM

Akamak..... now this thread oso infiltrated by AWARE supporters.
No need to come here and psycho the bros...... many of us are aware of the WC and will not fall into the marriage trap.

Although I am only in my early twenties..... my mind is already made up to live a bachelor's life until I die. I have seen too many divorces happening to those around me.

HonkyTonkyMan · #**298** 23-08-2015, 10:31 AM

Yup AWARE supporters have their own forum for that...I think flower something...anyway men our slogan should be "BEWARE OF AWARE"...

Jevv · #**299** 23-08-2015, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by redhun

Dear Hazel,

Tell ur friend never stay with a violent man, ESP when there's baby involved! I'm a victim of a violent abusive husband. I should have left earlier!!! We both would not suffer so long n a baby is better off without a father thn grow up with an abusive one!

Agreed...Freedom is better than tolerance

orangeproud · #**300** 23-08-2015, 10:49 PM

[QUOTE=hazel;13473876]Another problem is, my friend don't have saving.
No money to hire lawyer also..[/QUOTE

I think that if her hubby has violence inclination, it is a matter of time, sooner or later he will not only verbal abuse but also physical abuse towards her & it is a very unhealthy environment for a child to grow up in such environment. Hope that below info is helpful to her.

http://probono.lawsociety.org.sg/Hel...tyLegalClinic/