Fion's - nothing to hold on to, how to move on.

[korean]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Heya, even with my limited mandarin I could so feel this song.
I teared when heard it. I don't know if it's cos there was so much hurt in the singer's voice or cos the lyrics struck a raw nerve in my heart. Either way this song is awesome. That hurt and that disappointment i can so relate to it. I like this song! So gg on my repeat playlist this Thursday evening.
Thank you.

Glad u like it unfortunately, I couldn't share this song with her as don't want to rub salt onto her wounds, or cause more misunderstanding, and/or let her cool down. I think it is becoz this song understand u, 我知道你很难过 :')

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by korean

I think it is becoz this song understand u, 我知道你很难过 :')

Yes indeed. But it will get better, I'm sure

[clevic]

I like that quote... that sometimes the heart needs some time to accept what the mind already knows...

But... sometimes...

The mind keep replaying what the heart can't delete...

[MonteCristo]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Share your thoughts with her.

Since we are at this topic..

Thoughts....

,the illusory prison that shackles the unwary who is caught in it;

yet the nursery of great opportunities and fresh experiences;

are meant to be watched with utmost caution, lest they become something much more fearful - regret;

and meant to be wielded to paint the canvas called destiny.

And then~

Pain...

the bitterness of which for one to truly experience the sweetness of joy.

Lastly~

Life...

,summarised in three words - it goes on.

Let your mind and actions be the forge to happier future~

Peace out.

[HappyOwl]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Her heart is so broken and at this point it's just focusing on surviving. She's finding all sorts of way to distract herself so that time passes, a day at a time, hoping that one day it would heal. Thank you for kind words HappyOwl

I know what you mean.

Taking little steps, one step at a time may be the best solution to ease yourself. Do take good care of yourself always.

Cheers!

[july3rd]

Few years ago after I broke off, I took nearly 1 year off from work and travel around. (I'm lucky my boss, he actually let me off for unpaid leave & hold on to my role)

Re-visits places to reminiscence all the sweet memories.

I always wonder how is he doing now.

But I told myself it gonna be a goodbye trips to all my memories as they gonna be deep buried into my heart.

I return back to work, change posting, change location

First quarter this year, he contacted me.

I feel lost but I stand strong. I request him to move out of my life.

But! Ops! end up having infatuate feeling towards a married man -.-

That not my main point

My main point is:-

Since you are going on holiday soon, take this chance to let it go you will grow stronger and tougher Fion: add oil!

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by korean

Glad u like it unfortunately, I couldn't share this song with her as don't want to rub salt onto her wounds, or cause more misunderstanding, and/or let her cool down. I think it is becoz this song understand u, 我知道你很难过 :')

hi bro just returned u fav to 830 ... thxs once again n appreciated

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by clevic

I like that quote... that sometimes the heart needs some time to accept what the mind already knows...

But... sometimes...

The mind keep replaying what the heart can't delete...

It will get better with time.

Originally Posted by HappyOwl

I know what you mean.

Taking little steps, one step at a time may be the best solution to ease yourself. Do take good care of yourself always.

Cheers!

Thank you HappyOwl
Yep little steps at a time, taking things slow and opening up my heart for new people to come in. The feeling of being missed & wanted, I kinda miss it. And I'm blessed to have friends willing to stand in the gap & be with me as I heal.

Originally Posted by MonteCristo

Since we are at this topic..

Thoughts....

Thanks MC, as I told u before, thank you I always appreciate your efforts spent doing all these meaningful comments

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by july3rd

My main point is:-

Since you are going on holiday soon, take this chance to let it go you will grow stronger and tougher Fion: add oil!

Heya babe! One year of unpaid is a long time! My boss will panic if he sees this hahaha! Wish I could thou, just take the year off to travel. Prolly need to find a tycoon and get married, or find a pilot to be his wife first so I can tag along

It's okie in the day. I don't really think so much about him or reminisce the places or things we've done. It's just randomly when I'm doing smth and it suddenly occurs to me, how nice if he was here to share this exact moment with me. It's times like this that hits me most. I secretly am guessing i don't really miss him. I just miss having someone there. Now, that is a much easier problem to solve.

Ah and since you mentioned it, I need to remind u, married man are dangerous waters to tread. I know cos I've tired and trust me it's a losing game that is destined not to be won right from the start. It's either he choose family (you lose) or he choose you. Bearing in mind he cheated to he with u so he can easily cheat on you next time (you lose again). Good luck to both of us! Be happier!

[july3rd]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Ah and since you mentioned it, I need to remind u, married man are dangerous waters to tread. I know cos I've tired and trust me it's a losing game that is destined not to be won right from the start. It's either he choose family (you lose) or he choose you. Bearing in mind he cheated to he with u so he can easily cheat on you next time (you lose again). Good luck to both of us! Be happier!

Haha your boss panic that will be great!
Because you can leverage on it and request on stuffs

I don't believe that works in the past but i was desperate so I tried that how I got my long break

Hmmm don't have to be 1 year maybe 1 month also good!

Mine was long because I was working too hard for past 7 years non stop and cranky hours.
I need a good rest too!

Oh, my ex is not a married man. He someone, I know when I was a teens!

Now! I'm old lady

Yup! I agree with you!

That why when I infatuate with the married guy, I post in the thread cos I felt lost. After some thoughts, I decide to step back after-all his family will be his main focus.

Yeah! We will be happier and stronger!

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by july3rd

Haha your boss panic that will be great!
Because you can leverage on it and request on stuffs
!

Hahaaaa no one is indispensable to a firm la. But ya la my boss lets me bully him sometimes out of goodwill but can't go overboard. One week leave still ok. Anything more he cannot hahaaaa

Me also old lady Liao although I refused to admit lol it's good u step back before you committed more love and efforts with the married man. Clever you! It was smth I kinda wish I did too. But oh well. Life is such. We learn from our past mistakes and emerge stronger than we were.

[JustLearn]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Hahaaaa no one is indispensable to a firm la. But ya la my boss lets me bully him sometimes out of goodwill but can't go overboard. One week leave still ok. Anything more he cannot hahaaaa

Me also old lady Liao although I refused to admit lol it's good u step back before you committed more love and efforts with the married man. Clever you! It was smth I kinda wish I did too. But oh well. Life is such. We learn from our past mistakes and emerge stronger than we were.

Just read your story, it kind of reminds me of my sister too who fell in love with a married man. It took her more than courage alone to walk out of this mess.

It's good that you are able to get a hold of yourself and step out of this mess. I hope you can heal fast and start your new life with better future.

Cheers

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by JustLearn

It's good that you are able to get a hold of yourself and step out of this mess. I hope you can heal fast and start your new life with better future.
Cheers

I think it helps that I left this r/s just before it became complicated. So at this stage the only mess reminding is my broken heart - which at the moment is healing because of all the TLC & attention it is receiving.

To happier days! Thank u

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by fion.18

I think it helps that I left this r/s just before it became complicated. So at this stage the only mess reminding is my broken heart - which at the moment is healing because of all the TLC & attention it is receiving.

To happier days! Thank u

Wanna get another broken heart ?

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

Wanna get another broken heart ?

Don't be so mean to me laaaaa

Hope I don't get my heart broken this time. I'll be cautious with whom I'll give it to. Twice bitten, thrice shy.