Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

[ahpui99]

We all had close calls

So we all need to band together and stay strong

Seen pple scew up theirwork, marriages for this type of pussy

[pstrike]

This.

I'm just coming back from overseas, and I met this girls at a massage place. I got her number after the first time, we chatted a bit. She would go out with me, but when I try to visit the same place to get service from her, she would refuse and say that it's awkward, and it just drove me crazy knowing that she was doing it with everyone else that came to visit.

It really screws things up once you get to know them too well. So after that I tell myself, when I visit, I'm visiting just to have some fun, not to make any friends, try to get into any relationship, or anything. Have a good time, and forget about it.

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

my best 2 cents advice is

1. Enjoy the sex while you can. Once she becomes a FB, GF, don't expect to have that kind of GFE that clients get, because you are not paying. At least not upfront. But of course like all gfs, girl you are chasing, for dinners, gifts, presents, etc....You start hearing stuff your wife tells you, I am tired, its painful, not tonight, I don't want do this, that etc.... And in your head you go mad thinking of all the wild stuff she used to do with clients, moan like crazy, and with you, now this cannot, that cannot. You might even be tempted to pay her to try her special service she used to dish out, because you aint getting that kind of "love or GFE". She might tell you she used to scream so loud, her sisters at the brothels would knock her door asking her to be quiet, but with you, she is don't do this, don't do that, or even not keen on sex with you.

[uglydoll00]

if one can overcome this and have ABSOLUTE trust then maybe you can try for it. if not you are just asking for mind fucked

Originally Posted by pstrike

This.

I'm just coming back from overseas, and I met this girls at a massage place. I got her number after the first time, we chatted a bit. She would go out with me, but when I try to visit the same place to get service from her, she would refuse and say that it's awkward, and it just drove me crazy knowing that she was doing it with everyone else that came to visit.

It really screws things up once you get to know them too well. So after that I tell myself, when I visit, I'm visiting just to have some fun, not to make any friends, try to get into any relationship, or anything. Have a good time, and forget about it.

[saabking]

Originally Posted by uglydoll00

Exactly - you will fucked up your mind when it comes to this trust issue. How could you trust her to be honest and not lie about her past or her future or time with you. Relationships with them will be tough because trust is nearly an impossible thing - the majority of them lead double lives and if they are willing to hide the truth from their closest relationships - their family while they rent their bodies and sell their soul, then they would have no qualms with lying through their teeth when they enter into a relationship.

So if you really got into it then..

一切只求顺其自然。
别说我不在意，在意了又能怎样？
我只不过是懂得了，看开了！　　　　　　
谁不虚伪，谁不善变，谁都不是谁的谁。
又何必把一些人，一些事看的那么重要。

[HappyOwl]

Maybe to fall in love with a FL's lust instead is ideal?

[shiokpleasure]

anybody ever fell in love with one overseas and brought them back to live in sg?

what are the steps to bring them in?

[ziwan]

It is just crazy and stupid to bring overseas FL back to sg to live.
Are you trying to prove you can give them a new life?

Originally Posted by shiokpleasure

anybody ever fell in love with one overseas and brought them back to live in sg?

what are the steps to bring them in?

[shiokpleasure]

Originally Posted by ziwan

It is just crazy and stupid to bring overseas FL back to sg to live.
Are you trying to prove you can give them a new life?

come here to find job, not come here to become FL.

if i think the woman is just plain lazy, she just deserves to stay and be fucked. but if she can do better, why not give her a chance?

no, i got no intention to bao her either. whether she survives or fails, it's up to her.

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by wolflust

If you are able to move off to another country with her and live a new life?

Other than that it's going to be difficult as Singapore is such a small place.

Or just pray for the next life like I do.

I can share your sentiments wolflust. Now in the midst of the same dilemma and challenge. Its getting kinda tough but several signs of her really having feelings do keep me going and altho its really tough now ( I wld go into a post soon ) I aint giving up. I guess I am next on the firing squad from the bros here but I have to admit I have a thing for PRCs, esp the MLs. Peace out

[shiokpleasure]

Originally Posted by warrior2013

I can share your sentiments wolflust. Now in the midst of the same dilemma and challenge. Its getting kinda tough but several signs of her really having feelings do keep me going and altho its really tough now ( I wld go into a post soon ) I aint giving up. I guess I am next on the firing squad from the bros here but I have to admit I have a thing for PRCs, esp the MLs. Peace out

well, just try kc many prc at the same time. you might see the same emerging pattern.

i think even for them, they know their situation and aren't really pushy about getting hitched or setled down. just to show care and concern may just be very well enough for them.

[warrior2013]

Based on my experience, sometimes it does happen ( mine was ML, didn't want me to visit her, she comes over. she buys my ciggies, alcohol and breakfast do stuff that couples do etc ). I buy her daily stuffs nothing expensive at all throughout. Shit happens(you know what I am talking abt ) then she goes back,first few weeks bond is still strong, soon enough the pattern of replies and conversational terms used becomes less endearing, her wanting of meeting in her homeland dwindles in interest etc...

Overall she still bothers to communicate everyday via phone and messaging but the enthusiastic one wld be me altho it starts off with her or us.

She would ask for reassurance of not being forgotten, talk about possible marriage if my biz picks up and what not ( guess this is pretty common in most cases of bros who ever got involved. )

Guess on my end I was spared certain damage as she did not ask for monetary stuff but she spent some on our meetings and when she stay over at my place and never asked me for remittance when she goes back.


On the flip side, I am also at a position where I have no say whatsoever for whatever she does now in her homeland.

SHe might or might not meet me its a gamble. Cos It started off without the $ stuff altho first couple times were paid of course. Maybe its just a once in lifetime kinda encounter for me. I am just an average guy down the street who works out and self employed so I guess I was just lucky nothing more.

I guess if a relationship of sorts somewhat happens between a bro and an Fl, ML or anyone in the field, the bond sometimes die a natural death when she goes back especially when the time spent together in our land is very shortlived.

My conversations with her have become more platonic although she speaks kindly to me still and encourage me everytime we talk abt life, work etc.
But she hardly speaks about "us" and her answers to me about "us" only when I bring up the topic doesn't bode well at all in my opinion.

She went back to FL in her homeland and I have to prepare my heart for the devastation of not being able to meet her for whatever reasons she would feel suits her decision.

She was very upfront to me what shes doing now n where she works etc but unlike the time she was in our land, she wouldn't tell me about her work openly and she gets upset when I ask her about her work in mainland ( she might be hiding something )

I will never know the answer.

What I can say is sometimes a relationship does happen but many die natural deaths due to distance, time, her reality back home, the prospects she gets when shes in her homeland, hidden difficulties and other reasons we would never get to know. ( Even if she talk about having a baby etc with you )

I guess if gd things did happen, let them be sweet memories, if it doesnt last then the memories become a part of the soul if the lady was deeply loved.

I seen so many stories of bros who are so successful but fell and I start to think if all we ever have with them are but fantasies and wanderlust but those who successfully married them I stand respectful.

These ladies are fantasies in flesh but ..... too elusive...
my 0.5 cts worth

Cheers!

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by shiokpleasure

well, just try kc many prc at the same time. you might see the same emerging pattern.

i think even for them, they know their situation and aren't really pushy about getting hitched or setled down. just to show care and concern may just be very well enough for them.

Thanks for the advice bro.
I tried that and the patterns are rather different from the ladies.

They are quite unique.

That's what made me spellbound by my prc ML now. ( shes in dragonland Fling now )

[mimilee]

Originally Posted by ziwan

It is just crazy and stupid to bring overseas FL back to sg to live.
Are you trying to prove you can give them a new life?

before his fail, he always believe that he is different and can change something

[sammysgboy]

No wonder PRC FL called us Singaporean men stupid. TS must know they came here for the sole purpose of making money. Falling in love with them makes you pretty much stupid and silly. This is like going a restaurant and you fallen in love with a PRC waitress while having a dinner and she's the one serving you.
Should just go find and fuck every prc women in Singapore then you will have less problem falling in love with them. Yes, they might look attractive and had already conquered your heart but make sure you deal with them as if you are a playboy.
Men controlled women, not women controlled men.

[inuzuka]

This is the best ever thread for "Advice for people falling in love with WLs". Anyone who kena jialat jialat or going to kena soon should come in here and read.