Fion's - nothing to hold on to, how to move on.

[siri]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Saw this article and it helped me with the closure I needed as I move on.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/maul-molli...eserve-better/




Oh yes, and after 14 weeks, I've finally deleted all our chats & your contacts.
Happy memories

all of us knew we deserve better. but none of us want to look for that better. because that person who told us we deserve better is always the better one wanted.

so it's not about deserving someone better, i believe we all are good enough but it's just not the right place or time.

and TC is always my fav reads.

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by siri

and TC is always my fav reads.

Agree babe! Happy Sunday!

Mine too! I'm sucha TC fan. Love many of the articles there.

Did u see this?

http://thoughtcatalog.com/emma-golde...irror-forever/

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by fion.18

yeah kinda, my sister doesnt judge la but she will say you should've known better. i always knew what i was in for, just that i wanted to take a gamble n see how things might turn out (YOLO rite) but cos when you play a losing game, you lose

Haha. If I know it's a sure lose game, I won't play on. 'Know mountain got tiger, still enter meh' Chinese Saying =X

Originally Posted by FallenLove

Agree.... No doubt u know they mean well, but those "I-told-u-so" statements just aren't what u need, at least not at that point in time. Guess that's the reason y some of us are in the forum.... At times, the simple action of typing out the bottled up emotions is in itself a sufficient release....

Yeah. I think sometimes we need is 'encouragement' words from them... Instead of telling us this is no good.. that is no good...

So probably forum is a good way to get advice... At least you can say out your idea, people give their judgement and idea through what you said, instead of pouring cold water... You will get sufficient idea to help you move on...

Originally Posted by siri

all of us knew we deserve better. but none of us want to look for that better. because that person who told us we deserve better is always the better one wanted.

so it's not about deserving someone better, i believe we all are good enough but it's just not the right place or time.

and TC is always my fav reads.

Do agree in a way. Love is blind perhaps. When you love a person, no matter how bad the person is, and how much comment others give, you won't give a damn to it.

But again, like mentioned earlier, if know it's a losing game, you put your head and headed into it?

Just like a rabbit... Came to a hole... The friends said... 'Hey its a hole.. Don't jump down...' But without you jumping into the hole, how you know it's deep or perhaps it's hole that you can call home one day?

Morale of Story: Sometimes in life, we need to try it, even others comment may be wrong, or don't seems encouraging.

Another side of the story: Again, wiser always speaks better. They may have experience in such, and when see the hole, they know it's not right for you. So heed it...

In life, we got to know what it's right and wrong.

But then again, don't lose the opportunity when you have it... and started to regret later on... It's too late...

[Johnbass]

[Yakuza]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Yeah... I like to come online to release too.
Better than PCC...

U nvr learn & chg after a tsunami of Zapssssss .... still talk tis way in TS's thread ..

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Now u've got more storage space for new chats and contacts.
Mai luan luan add though...

bro .. really admire u for ur courage after going thru such bad patch .. though my investment in u came to nothin' .. u r a classic example of a fallen hero .. cheersss ..

p.s. .. Mai luan luan add though... or Mai luan luan Zap though...

[Yakuza]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Saw this article and it helped me with the closure I needed as I move on.
http://thoughtcatalog.com/maul-molli...eserve-better/

Oh yes, and after 14 weeks, I've finally deleted all our chats & your contacts.
Happy memories

wat abt the other way round .. guys too hv heart crunching moments ...

Sad story about love and friendship (Thai MV with Eng subs featuring Ice Preechaya ♥)

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Good for u girl.
Now u've got more storage space for new chats and contacts.
Mai luan luan add though...

I will add with caution hehe

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Haha. If I know it's a sure lose game, I won't play on. 'Know mountain got tiger, still enter meh' Chinese Saying =X

Morale of Story: Sometimes in life, we need to try it, even others comment may be wrong, or don't seems encouraging.

Another side of the story: Again, wiser always speaks better. They may have experience in such, and when see the hole, they know it's not right for you. So heed it...

In life, we got to know what it's right and wrong.

But then again, don't lose the opportunity when you have it... and started to regret later on... It's too late...

Even though I know what danger lies ahead I still will try. Because if I don't, I'll forever live in my regrets and will keep thinking 'what if'.

At the very least, now that I've tried and got myself broken, I know I gave it my best shot. And all the beautiful memories are mine to keep. I didn't have a love that lasted a lifetime but I had one who gives me hope for the future. Someone who taught me how to love, and despite all the hurt, made me a better person

No regrets and if I had to choose all over again, I'll still choose this losing game! Because what I gain from this game is so much more than that lost.

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

bro .. really admire u for ur courage after going thru such bad patch .. though my investment in u came to nothin' .. u r a classic example of a fallen hero .. cheersss ..

p.s. .. Mai luan luan add though... or Mai luan luan Zap though...

Hehehe, he very irritating hor. But okie laaa Fion kinda miss his irritating comments.

Originally Posted by Yakuza

wat abt the other way round .. guys too hv heart crunching moments ...

Sad story about love and friendship

Omg this is soooooo sad!!! I like Thai MTV and commercials leh. Their storyline always so good and thugs at ur heart strings. Makes me wanna tear everytime.

Japanese mafia also like Thai adverts? Hehehe

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

U nvr learn & chg after a tsunami of Zapssssss .... still talk tis way in TS's thread ..



bro .. really admire u for ur courage after going thru such bad patch .. though my investment in u came to nothin' .. u r a classic example of a fallen hero .. cheersss ..

p.s. .. Mai luan luan add though... or Mai luan luan Zap though...

Chill lah, premium bro...
TS also never scold me, u scold me...
Hong Lim Park also can kbkp liao...
This is Internet nia leh...

Mai luan luan join zap gang hor...

Tiagong where fall down where stand up...

[FallenLove]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Yeah... I like to come online to release too.
Better than PCC...

Haha, should have been more careful with choice of words in this forum....

[FallenLove]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Saw this article and it helped me with the closure I needed as I move on.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/maul-molli...eserve-better/




Oh yes, and after 14 weeks, I've finally deleted all our chats & your contacts.
Happy memories

That's the 1st step
The day u feel indifferent when thinking of the past is the day u truly let go....

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by FallenLove

That's the 1st step
The day u feel indifferent when thinking of the past is the day u truly let go....

Yeah I guess so. Think even if you don't wanna let go, as time passes you'll start to forget. Even more so for someone with short term memory like me.

I'm quite blessed laaa it hasn't been that difficult. I sulk, pout & frown because it's just me throwing tantrum at myself for landing myself in sucha state but now that the worst is over, I'm happy Fion again.

[Yakuza]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Omg this is soooooo sad!!! I like Thai MTV and commercials leh. Their storyline always so good and thugs at ur heart strings. Makes me wanna tear everytime.

Japanese mafia also like Thai adverts? Hehehe

Warm romances with heart felt feelings ==> Thai video, cos it can even bring a harden mafia close to tears ..

Mysteries, Detectives and actions ===> Jap video, especially love the drama series "Galileo" & "Galileo, part II"

Yakuza love checking on SEA ppl, especially SG lovebirds .. the after effect of failed romances with heart wrenching stories .. to help them back on their feet. To give moral support, a shoulder to lean on and understanding emotionally, so that they can get on with life... and life goes on.

...the next one will be .. as u get along .. be happy and enjoy ..
MUSICA ZEN: MEDITACION, YOGA, TAICHI, ZEN RELAXATION, MUSIC FOR BALANCE

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

Warm romances with heart felt feelings ==> Thai video, cos it can even bring a harden mafia close to tears

Yakuza love checking on SEA ppl, especially SG lovebirds .. the after effect of failed romances with heart wrenching stories .. to help them back on their feet. To give moral support, a shoulder to lean on and understanding emotionally, so that they can get on with life... and life goes on.

Mafia with a soft heart. Awwww...

Moral support + shoulder to lean on + emotional advice. That's really sooooo sweet of you and yes, life really does move on leh. If fact time passes so fast lorrrr

*feeling zen and calm now*

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Oh yes, and after 14 weeks, I've finally deleted all our chats & your contacts.
Happy memories

You should delete after 4 days