Do you regret marrying?

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by williamlum1

I regretted married by wife, no more love, just because of kid we are still together. I know that she is having someone and knew that they are fucking at our home when I am oversea working, but I don't dare to say it out, afraid that will break the family, life is so sad for me.

I think you watch too much porn...
Catch "red handed" then say...

[Bris7]

Originally Posted by williamlum1

I regretted married by wife, no more love, just because of kid we are still together. I know that she is having someone and knew that they are fucking at our home when I am oversea working, but I don't dare to say it out, afraid that will break the family, life is so sad for me.

If your wife is having an affair, I would suggest you collect some evidence now. Since there is no love, one day might end in divorce. It could be when the kids are young or when they grow up (and have their own family). Either case, with evidence, then you don't have to pay her alimony or share with her your asset.

[hysteria08]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Then no need to give face liao.
U can go out and eat other girls too.
If u dun do that, u might be mentally unbalanced.
Stay strong bro.
Keep more private savings for yourself to safeguard your own interests.

Before doing that, you better protect yourself by having evidence. Later she act faster than you and find evidence of you playing and file for divorce and you really GG

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Bris7

If your wife is having an affair, I would suggest you collect some evidence now. Since there is no love, one day might end in divorce. It could be when the kids are young or when they grow up (and have their own family). Either case, with evidence, then you don't have to pay her alimony or share with her your asset.

Sorry you got it all wrong, it doesn't mean she won't get any alimony if she is caught with her panties down...that how powerful the Fuck up women charter act is...cos end of the day she still got the right to claim for her part of maintenance and asset..

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by senilespikey

My wife is as per above, but there's no love in the relationship... I have no fbs no lovers, yet I have no urge to touch her, we don't hug nor hold hands...
*** Very Lost ***

That's very sad. Why did you marry her in the first place?

[senilespikey]

Originally Posted by Harvest

That's very sad. Why did you marry her in the first place?

Rash decision made when young... Bearing the brunt of it right now

[jnudes]

If you decide to get married, one must learn not only to accept her strength but also her weaknesses. A lot of people look only at her bright and positive side when getting married but after married her weaknesses start to show up, more quarrels, more misunderstanding, quarrel with parents in law, financial stress, etc. That's why there are so many divorce these days. And for me being single is still the best option. Get used with single life for many years oredi.

[Kothaner]

So you dun intend to get settle down for the rest of the time ?

Originally Posted by jnudes

If you decide to get married, one must learn not only to accept her strength but also her weaknesses. A lot of people look only at her bright and positive side when getting married but after married her weaknesses start to show up, more quarrels, more misunderstanding, quarrel with parents in law, financial stress, etc. That's why there are so many divorce these days. And for me being single is still the best option. Get used with single life for many years oredi.

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by jnudes

If you decide to get married, one must learn not only to accept her strength but also her weaknesses. A lot of people look only at her bright and positive side when getting married but after married her weaknesses start to show up, more quarrels, more misunderstanding, quarrel with parents in law, financial stress, etc. That's why there are so many divorce these days. And for me being single is still the best option. Get used with single life for many years oredi.

The more you use to be single , high chance you wont get committed . Freedom is most important . Marriage is bond of two different world together and is not easy.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by Kothaner

So you dun intend to get settle down for the rest of the time ?

I was asked this question when I attended my friend's wedding reception during CNY 2015. My replied is 'I don't know'. This would be my reply to you too.

There are pros and cons being single. The pros are you get 100% freedom and this is perfect for me as I love travelling.

The cons are when you get sick it would be tough as you need to do everything by yourself. See doctor, buy medicine, shopping, driving, etc, you just hope you gonna recover soon and lead a normal and healthy life again.

I had been sick before so I know the feeling of fragility and uselessness.

[Ernnie]

Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

Sorry you got it all wrong, it doesn't mean she won't get any alimony if she is caught with her panties down...that how powerful the Fuck up women charter act is...cos end of the day she still got the right to claim for her part of maintenance and asset..

He is correct! The reason of the divorce is never taken into account when women claim their rights to maintenance and assets in court. Both cases are handled entirely separate.

[hugs]

I do not regret marrying. I have learned stuff i wouldnt have learned as a gf. Im ready to marry again

[Beretta]

Originally Posted by jnudes

The cons are when you get sick it would be tough as you need to do everything by yourself. See doctor, buy medicine, shopping, driving, etc, you just hope you gonna recover soon and lead a normal and healthy life again.

You need to correct this misconception that wives will sayang you when you fall sick..... in reality many husbands get cursed and nagged for falling sick.

My neighbor kenna dengue fever recently...... and every night I can hear his wife complaining to her parents and cursing at him for lying in hospital...... as she now has to send the kids to childcare and take public transport as he is not around to drive them.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Beretta

You need to correct this misconception that wives will sayang you when you fall sick..... in reality many husbands get cursed and nagged for falling sick.

My neighbor kenna dengue fever recently...... and every night I can hear his wife complaining to her parents and cursing at him for lying in hospital...... as she now has to send the kids to childcare and take public transport as he is not around to drive them.

I have been there. Agreed.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I have been there. Agreed.

oooh i feel for you bro...to have such an unsympathetic wife is by itself a curse..