They work here for money nia. Not for friendship or customer relationship. No money, no honey.
A chio ML that recently went back China during one of the sessions "confided" in me that she wanted to venture into childcare in Singapore and that I am ok as someone to get married to. Now RTC wechat deleted. It's all part of the game.
Managed to get a slot with Chi zi ytd night for today, countdown 10 days. I never knew i liked girls with short hair until today! Imo she is pretty and really service level is high. Boobs were so soft i rly enjoyed caressing them. Massage and sensual has been much reviewed by fellow bros, but what rly attracted me was her smile which she has on her face throughout, really contagious and happy to see her smile. 10days bros, even i a newbie can get a slot so if u are considering, just send the text and ask for a slot!
They work here for money nia. Not for friendship or customer relationship. No money, no honey.
Was in contact with a AP who rtc but recently went radio silent.. prob no offer of help from me after telling me her sob story.. Honestly I was kc by her and helped her once.. good that she never contacted me again..
I think the fundamental attraction towards this MLs initially is that these ML are usually more attractive in the looks or figure department compared to local ladies, coupled with their "skills" really do make the initial dating process with them really fun and exciting. I think another trap that most bros fall into is that they realise at the beginning how different this ML is compared to other MLs you visited, the ML will tell you her stories that she had no choice but to step into this line, that she is not in this line for superficial reasons but to improve their standard of living etc, when confiding or stepping into the inner emotional circle of these ML, we will often commit a cognitive biases that we think this ML is special and so different from others. One of the common sentences I hear is that oh this ML" 没有心机的”。But we often forget something that in the vast China population, the amount of girls that decided to step into this trade are still the minority. For these girls to step into this trade, there is something within them there are already different from normal girls whom had not step into this line before. All in all, these girls come here with the clear purpose of earning money. And for brothers out there who are stuck in a complicated relationship with MLs I really do urge you guys, if you really do have the money, there are plenty of "better" girls out there and if you don't, don't ever step into their inner circle because what you get eventually will be just emotional hurt and pain. I had the honour of having a rather intimate relationship with one of the very famous ML recently and it has dawned upon me a lot of realisation I wouldn't had knew previously. If my time allows I would be glad to share my story in a subtle manner without revealing who the ML is in the future. To all bros out there, keep your rational mind in check and not let your emotions and little brother take over you. Cheers!
A chio ML that recently went back China during one of the sessions "confided" in me that she wanted to venture into childcare in Singapore and that I am ok as someone to get married to. Now RTC wechat deleted. It's all part of the game.
Bro, I think I know who you mentioned. She told me the same thing about childcare business thingy, except she did not mention anything to me about the marriage thingy.
Yeah, don't take words from them too seriously. Later, get KC-ed then jialat...
Was in contact with a AP who rtc but recently went radio silent.. prob no offer of help from me after telling me her sob story.. Honestly I was kc by her and helped her once.. good that she never contacted me again..
Thanks for the long and meaningful wake up message. To be honest, i kinda fall for this trap currently. Everytime when I decided to get it out, i got kc-ed again. Its hard when they are so good in manipulating us
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I think the fundamental attraction towards this MLs initially is that these ML are usually more attractive in the looks or figure department compared to local ladies, coupled with their "skills" really do make the initial dating process with them really fun and exciting. I think another trap that most bros fall into is that they realise at the beginning how different this ML is compared to other MLs you visited, the ML will tell you her stories that she had no choice but to step into this line, that she is not in this line for superficial reasons but to improve their standard of living etc, when confiding or stepping into the inner emotional circle of these ML, we will often commit a cognitive biases that we think this ML is special and so different from others. One of the common sentences I hear is that oh this ML" 没有心机的”。But we often forget something that in the vast China population, the amount of girls that decided to step into this trade are still the minority. For these girls to step into this trade, there is something within them there are already different from normal girls whom had not step into this line before. All in all, these girls come here with the clear purpose of earning money. And for brothers out there who are stuck in a complicated relationship with MLs I really do urge you guys, if you really do have the money, there are plenty of "better" girls out there and if you don't, don't ever step into their inner circle because what you get eventually will be just emotional hurt and pain. I had the honour of having a rather intimate relationship with one of the very famous ML recently and it has dawned upon me a lot of realisation I wouldn't had knew previously. If my time allows I would be glad to share my story in a subtle manner without revealing who the ML is in the future. To all bros out there, keep your rational mind in check and not let your emotions and little brother take over you. Cheers!
Bro, I think I know who you mentioned. She told me the same thing about childcare business thingy, except she did not mention anything to me about the marriage thingy.
Yeah, don't take words from them too seriously. Later, get KC-ed then jialat...
Lol,i know WHO too. And i bet she told you to not tell anyone correct? That she trust you only so only share with you? Right or not? Turns out she trust quite a few battlelions of bros out there
Another classic reminder to us all, when a ML tells you is for your ears only, it's because she wanna play us like a puppet
Thanks for the long and meaningful wake up message. To be honest, i kinda fall for this trap currently. Everytime when I decided to get it out, i got kc-ed again. Its hard when they are so good in manipulating us
It's normal. We go for massage and at the same time look for that kind of lovely dovey feeling. If no gfe there will be no rtm and won't get kc. Just have to get out of this dream as soon as you can
Thanks for the long and meaningful wake up message. To be honest, i kinda fall for this trap currently. Everytime when I decided to get it out, i got kc-ed again. Its hard when they are so good in manipulating us
No problem bro. I am mostly a visitor in this forum but my recent experiences calls for my humble contribution since bros have been discussing about this. The MLs always say that Singaporean guys “素质好”, I am sure you guys heard before about this, where they explain that most Singaporean guys are willing to conform to their requests and not be too overboard. The underlying message of this "compliment" is just saying that Singaporean guys are easily manipulated, where many of us are willing to go beyond our limits and boundaries to help them, even when we know we will get nothing at the end of the day. There is a larger societal context on why Singaporean guys are generally "gullible", it is a separate topic after all but fundamentally it got to do with local guys' late entry into the society because of national service, and our local culture, education and information we been receiving since young. Of course the initial process of "relationship" is always fun and interesting, especially when you get "special treatment" or even receive "special services" from them. But these are not permanent, and when the physical fun subsided, what is left are the seek of emotional comfort. And that's when we fall into the "KC trap".
One more story to share for bros who are stuck in a relationship with these MLs. Because of my relationship with the ML recently, I had the chance to know many of her friends/colleagues back in China who are also now in SG working as ML. I asked them sometimes on why they chose to step into this line, a common response would be that "因为当时的男朋友/老公没法给我想要的生活，所以没办法只得努力赚钱." Now, I am not trying to criticize these ladies from a moral perspective, trying to pursue a better material life is a mentality where most human beings have. But, as the common saying goes:"once stepping into the dark side there is no turning back. " The fact that these MLs chose to pursue "money" over "relationships" at some point of their life, there is absolutely no guarantee that they wont do that again especially...... where they have tasted the fruits of stepping into this trade; an indeed higher spending power. My point is simple. To marry is to marry someone whom you can tide through thin and thick, to put it simply and I dont want to over-generalize but still, these MLs has exceptionally high possibility of reflecting a personality trait where it could be best described as :" 可共富贵， 不可共患难". When one day you could no longer provide her with the material life, will she be willing to stay by you or will she take the route like she did many years back...? I believe this question is a MUST question for bros who are considering to settle down with the MLs.
Thanks for the long and meaningful wake up message. To be honest, i kinda fall for this trap currently. Everytime when I decided to get it out, i got kc-ed again. Its hard when they are so good in manipulating us
In that case it is best you stop. Stop this habit entirely. At least for an extended period of time. Force yourself away from it and all these girls for some time.
Go seriously date someone or pick up a new hobby or class or something.
Then you will realize the world is much bigger to be overly attached to anything or anyone.
It will still hurt here and there but you know you can live without it and the girls.
Thanks for the long and meaningful wake up message. To be honest, i kinda fall for this trap currently. Everytime when I decided to get it out, i got kc-ed again. Its hard when they are so good in manipulating us
Alamak. Sure have all the fun you want when you are in the ML room or spa. I go out to have an experience, rather than just wanking or physical pleasure. I play nice and try to make a connection with the lady, and more often than not it works (sometimes just doesnt!).
But at the end when I hand over the money, it's a wake-up call that the game is over, till the next time.
Stay in charge of the chionging, not the other way round.
18-11-2018, 05:30 PM
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