Do you regret marrying? - Page 28

JacqueMerlin · #**406** 14-03-2016, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

You need to correct this misconception that wives will sayang you when you fall sick..... in reality many husbands get cursed and nagged for falling sick.

My neighbor kenna dengue fever recently...... and every night I can hear his wife complaining to her parents and cursing at him for lying in hospital...... as she now has to send the kids to childcare and take public transport as he is not around to drive them.

Sad but true.
I have friends who slog like crazy to feed and clothe his wife. But she was having something with other men.

topcook1 · #**407** 15-03-2016, 10:52 AM

Marriage is not for everyone....if not ready better dont do it.

HelloAngel · #**408** 15-03-2016, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by hugs

I do not regret marrying. I have learned stuff i wouldnt have learned as a gf. Im ready to marry again

You are very brave to think about marrying again! I wouldn't. Rather used to being with my boy up as a single mom and I enjoy my freedom. Then again, who knows what the future holds? Maybe I might really be convinced there is true love out there. Good luck sis!

jnudes · #**409** 16-03-2016, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

You need to correct this misconception that wives will sayang you when you fall sick..... in reality many husbands get cursed and nagged for falling sick.

My neighbor kenna dengue fever recently...... and every night I can hear his wife complaining to her parents and cursing at him for lying in hospital...... as she now has to send the kids to childcare and take public transport as he is not around to drive them.

Currently I am taking care of my mother who just had Stage 1 ovarian cancer removal operation. Luckily it wasn't serious; she don't need to go through radiation or chemotheraphy and currently resting at home.

I am doing all the shopping and paying bill thing for her. Every 2 days need to bring her to clinic for checkup. She is expected to fully recover early next month. Luckily it was not serious; otherwise the bill could run over 100k especially for Stage 3 & 4 cancer patient and we could end up broke.

So let me tell you at least I could take care of my mother now. If I am married with wife and kids, things could be very different today. More worse is if my wife does not allow me to take care of my mother and bring her to clinic which is oredi happening in some family that I know of.

Captainoceania77 · #**410** 16-03-2016, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by jnudes

Currently I am taking care of my mother who just had Stage 1 ovarian cancer removal operation. Luckily it wasn't serious; she don't need to go through radiation or chemotheraphy and currently resting at home.

I am doing all the shopping and paying bill thing for her. Every 2 days need to bring her to clinic for checkup. She is expected to fully recover early next month. Luckily it was not serious; otherwise the bill could run over 100k especially for Stage 3 & 4 cancer patient and we could end up broke.

So let me tell you at least I could take care of my mother now. If I am married with wife and kids, things could be very different today. More worse is if my wife does not allow me to take care of my mother and bring her to clinic which is oredi happening in some family that I know of.

Most married man has this problem too. Unless the wife is not selfish and super understanding. Man always get stuck in between .

hugs · #**411** 16-03-2016, 11:24 AM

@jnudes

Omg im so touched reading ur post. That the meaning of 亲情。

Johnbass · #**412** 16-03-2016, 12:11 PM

Tiagong the problem is not marriage...
But marrying the wrong person...

Qualities of an ideal spouse: rich, hot in bed, have sex at least 3 times a day, allows to eat out, not selfish, super-understanding, cannot nag, do housework, take care of sick parents, look after children...

Remember to SIC where to find...

hugs · #**413** 16-03-2016, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnbass

Tiagong the problem is not marriage...
But marrying the wrong person...

Qualities of an ideal spouse: rich, hot in bed, have sex at least 3 times a day, allows to eat out, not selfish, super-understanding, cannot nag, do housework, take care of sick parents, look after children...

Remember to SIC where to find...

domestic maids from some villages. well you didnt say she must hold a high flying job right? they are good with the sick etc and wouldnt know that u r eating out. and considered rich when converted sg $ back to hometown.

jnudes · #**414** 17-03-2016, 02:21 PM

Marriage is the minimum amount of privacy and the maximum amount of loneliness.

Beretta · #**415** 17-03-2016, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by hugs

domestic maids from some villages. well you didnt say she must hold a high flying job right? they are good with the sick etc and wouldnt know that u r eating out. and considered rich when converted sg $ back to hometown.

After marriage domestic maids from ulu kampungs will also change.
It seems having the status of "wife" brings out the worst in most women.
And in Singapore that is made worse with the dreaded Women's Charter.
Although I am only in my early 20s' my mind is already made up to remain a bachelor for life.

You can be my girlfriend.
You can be my mistress.
You can be my fxxkbuddy.
You can be my ONS.
But you can NEVER be my wife as long as the fxxking Women's Charter exists.

Johnbass · #**416** 17-03-2016, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

After marriage domestic maids from ulu kampungs will also change.
It seems having the status of "wife" brings out the worst in most women.
And in Singapore that is made worse with the dreaded Women's Charter.
Although I am only in my early 20s' my mind is already made up to remain a bachelor for life.

You can be my girlfriend.
You can be my mistress.
You can be my fxxkbuddy.
You can be my ONS.
But you can NEVER be my wife as long as the fxxking Women's Charter exists.

Tiagong you surf too much internet, that's why your young mind got Farked...
Good Luck!

Ngengheng · #**417** 17-03-2016, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

After marriage domestic maids from ulu kampungs will also change.
It seems having the status of "wife" brings out the worst in most women.
And in Singapore that is made worse with the dreaded Women's Charter.
Although I am only in my early 20s' my mind is already made up to remain a bachelor for life.

You can be my girlfriend.
You can be my mistress.
You can be my fxxkbuddy.
You can be my ONS.
But you can NEVER be my wife as long as the fxxking Women's Charter exists.

Bro you are really a wise man. Thumbs up!!!!

hugs · #**418** 17-03-2016, 11:52 PM

and HDB law is to counter that problem. no wife, no flat. so get condo. then looking at the swimming pool and playground, u want to have a kid to run around the condo.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beretta

After marriage domestic maids from ulu kampungs will also change.
It seems having the status of "wife" brings out the worst in most women.
And in Singapore that is made worse with the dreaded Women's Charter.
Although I am only in my early 20s' my mind is already made up to remain a bachelor for life.

You can be my girlfriend.
You can be my mistress.
You can be my fxxkbuddy.
You can be my ONS.
But you can NEVER be my wife as long as the fxxking Women's Charter exists.