Hard to get True relationship - Page 3

baby85 · #31 20-01-2010, 04:22 PM

learn to understand guys on e view of them

den u will know why they always put sex together with love , in moments of rashness , guys tend to tink with e little head down dere rather den e bigger head up dere .. thus e feeling of making u feel they oni wan sex

try not to go into r/s so fast with guys u just known , or know more guys fren to pure hang out with , chat with them how they feel , slowly get to know more abt guys den u will understand it urself ..

fm my POV , if i feel , a couple in a r/s who is really in love with each other , i dont see why e gf doesnt wanna give in , unless u wish ur bf to go out find other side dishes ?

hope u find a true r/s u eager for =) good luck meimei

yummymocha · #32 20-01-2010, 04:32 PM

i agree that most guys ask for sex from gf and im one of them.

but if my gf reject i will surely respect her decision as in the case of most guys if u really love her. But then i recently broke up with my gf not becos i didnt get to have sex with her, is becos i canceled the date with her cos my mother sick ma, must bring her to see doctor. then my gf angry... walao never think for me. and somemore so xiaoqi. since our relationship started i always think for her, she want me do this, i do. she want me do that. i do. then now i want bring my mother see doctor then she angry. although i apologise alr i broke my promise to spend that evening with her, she should understand right. my mother also important to me leh. i really hope she can repent over the mistake and be a more understanding person. otherwise no1 will like her.

Lsy84 · #33 20-01-2010, 04:33 PM

Well Sis Evetan86, you are still young. Don't be in a rush to dive into a relationship, take your time to slowly explore the surroundings.

In life, there are times when there are ups and downs, take the opportunity to learn from the mistakes you made in your past relationships and treat it as a lesson learnt, in order to prepare yourself for your next relationship.

Get to know more people and make more friends. I am sure you will find someone who is nice to you.

Evetan86 · #34 20-01-2010, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by nstern

I have gone after girls, made them my gfs and had r/s that lasted at least a year but the gals I pursued never gave me the impression that I could fuck them even before we got together (some did though haha) ... I'm not being rude here but you might be giving off the wrong vibes? Perhaps your actions/behaviour might make them think you are liberal enough?

Just my honest opinion.

I never ever give any wrong signal 2 the so call bf. We yet 2 b in steady mode n we dun even haold hands how i give them a wrong impression tat i want sex? One of the guy say i look hot n sexy wen driving sport car mayb tats the case.

stiffiner · #35 20-01-2010, 05:34 PM

sis if everything is right, what's wrong of having sex? or you really want to be a virgin until your wedding night? then asked him to married you lah, i believe he will not bcos of sex, that is too much a stake is bcos he love you and if he refuse then you can keep it cos he is not the right guy he just want to eat you up, so stay away from him as far as possible.

Evetan86 · #36 20-01-2010, 05:52 PM

I noe tat i still young n can seek ard dun need 2 rush. But i really very lonely at most of the days.

Everyday is like years 2 me. I can drive from east 2 west just 2 take my breakfast. I wan a serious bf tat can with me share my life but not my $

Evetan86 · #37 20-01-2010, 05:59 PM

[QUOTE=baby85;4491607][FONT="Comic Sans MS"][COLOR="DarkOrchid"][B]learn to understand guys on e view of them

den u will know why they always put sex together with love , in moments of rashness , guys tend to tink with e little head down dere rather den e bigger head up dere .. thus e feeling of making u feel they oni wan sex

try not to go into r/s so fast with guys u just known , or know more guys fren to pure hang out with , chat with them how they feel , slowly get to know more abt guys den u will understand it urself ..

fm my POV , if i feel , a couple in a r/s who is really in love with each other , i dont see why e gf doesnt wanna give in , unless u wish ur bf to go out find other side dishes ?

hope u find a true r/s u eager for =) good luck meimei

thanks jie jie for ur kind advice. Anyway nice 2 c u post in my thread 2 support me.

Big Sister80 · #38 20-01-2010, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Evetan86

Y man always put sex top priority in relationship. Every bf i had b4 we go steady, they will ask 4 sex. I just dun understand y?

Posting in to tell you that i being ditched after i give in to their needs. I had learnt my lesson hope you can take my kind advise.

misled · #39 21-01-2010, 12:55 AM

If you are looking for a real relationship with substance, you shouldnt give in if the guy is more interested in sex than in you. Once you get together with the wrong kinda guy - one who values sex more than love and commitment - then you may be stuck with someone who will always cheat on you. It isn't because you arent good enough, its just cos he is selfish and wants to satisfy his sexual urges without caring abt how you feel. so just wait it out, u are better off on your own than with a sleazebag.

TightV · #40 21-01-2010, 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by elainehoal

eve girl.. my 2c worth is here.
i had an interesting conversation with my colleagues the other day... y do ppl ALWAYS feel men want/think about sex all the time...

answer: women won't say it even if they're thinking about it.

so bottomline to you, eve, is this...... accept men are horny animals.. and we live to pamper girls.. in a way we know how.

sex is not everything.. but its something we must have.

bravo bro elainehoal! well said!

Cheers

sammyboyfor · #41 21-01-2010, 02:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Sister80

I had learnt my lesson hope you can take my kind advise.

Should be "Hope you can take my kind ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

genius · #42 21-01-2010, 04:26 AM

Unfortunately it can be quite ironic, I used to think I don't really need sex (infact have not had it for at least 5 months) but I always think about it. I always want to bed some gal (maybe any gal), many times it's easy to said then done.

I know a few MSN gal, we have exchange pictures but has not meet each other. We have chat a fair bit.. but I choose not to meet up... This way, hopefully there will be less problem. Anyway I am busy most of the time thus they are rather safe from me

You may want to start find stranger on MSN/SKYPE etec to chat... just be careful, there are many con man and nasty guy around.. but if you are lucky, you may find some soul mate...

On another note, I strongly believe most young people of your age, i assume about 25, tends to be more hot blooded.. I am in my 40s, I am still at time, but I think I can resist better... maybe you should consider look for slightly older and more mature guy.. (if available)...

Good luck...

[QUOTE=Evetan86;4491955]

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Originally Posted by baby85

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][COLOR="DarkOrchid"][B]learn to understand guys on e view of them

den u will know why they always put sex together with love , in moments of rashness , guys tend to tink with e little head down dere rather den e bigger head up dere .. thus e feeling of making u feel they oni wan sex

try not to go into r/s so fast with guys u just known , or know more guys fren to pure hang out with , chat with them how they feel , slowly get to know more abt guys den u will understand it urself ..

fm my POV , if i feel , a couple in a r/s who is really in love with each other , i dont see why e gf doesnt wanna give in , unless u wish ur bf to go out find other side dishes ?

hope u find a true r/s u eager for =) good luck meimei

thanks jie jie for ur kind advice. Anyway nice 2 c u post in my thread 2 support me.

Evetan86 · #43 21-01-2010, 04:57 AM

I think younger guys r easily get sex excited than mature man. Correct me if i m wrong.

Xgenre · #44 21-01-2010, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Evetan86

I think younger guys r easily get sex excited than mature man. Correct me if i m wrong.

You are right.

Older guys have seen more of the world, been there done that. Plus it's a fact that as you grow older, recovery times between rounds of sex is longer and your sex desire isn't as high (too busy with life already).

Maybe guys want to bed you as a conquest. You are the sports car babe. So the aim is to bed the babe with the sports car, (hopefully she'll let me drive the car after I drive her ass). Just like how biker chick, hooters girl, fhm model, SQ air stewardess, etc are symbols to be conquered...

Evetan86 · #45 21-01-2010, 07:25 AM

thanks 4 ur piece of info. Next time wen i meet guys, i will take mrt or walk so tat they dun have such thinking.