Should I give her another chance - Page 3

DaTan · #31 22-10-2013, 04:05 PM

Hi Bro,

You guys are not married yet and since you really love her, no harm giving it 1 last chance... if she really lie to you again, u can jus break off with her right?

(o)(o) Tuner · #32 22-10-2013, 04:06 PM

Ok TS, lets not talk about how long or how much you love her. You just have to ask yourself. Can you accept the fact that your gf was fucked by another man whom she only knew for only a couple of weeks?

Can you ensure that you'll not think of this incident when you're having sex with your gf in future?

Do you know how song she felt when she was fucked by the other guy? Imagine she hornily spread her legs wide open and allow him to fuck her pussy, calling him to fuck her faster & harder...., letting him cum all over her face. Can you accept this? If your answer is yes, then please go ahead forgive her.

angelababy · #33 22-10-2013, 05:13 PM

to the TS:

being let down in a relationship can happen in so many ways. having your loved one cheat on you does not hurt any less than a partner who is there in the relationship, only physically,but has lost all intention to grow the relationship with you.

everyone errs. everyone has hurt our loved ones before one way or another.

she is not quitting on you yet because you have not quitted on her.

work it out. love always deserves second chances because that is what is love is all about. (till the day the heart and love dies, of course.)

he-man11 · #34 22-10-2013, 05:47 PM

bro datan, i did think about that. i'm just afraid that if it happens again, i will have to go through this emotional roller coaster again. this is 1 fuck up feeling that i would nvr want to experience again.

bro tuner, i guess i already accept it when i forgave her the first time round. first few days were terrible. the thought of what happened just made me not wanna touch her at all. but as the days pass, it actually got better.

there's a very unique way of thinking that was shared with me. a girl who had sex with 3 ex-bfs compare to a girl who had sex with 2 and cheated with 1. they still slept with 3 guys. it's the sense of betrayal that we can't get over with.

i think i may be already pissing off some bros here with my indecisiveness. i apologise for that. i just hope that anyone out there who experienced it before could share with me what happened in the end on your side. what are the consequences/results of your decision? how did you feel yrs down the road? was it tiring/painful or did it ended up well.

for the few bros who shared with your personal experience, i thank you again for that.

justl00king · #35 22-10-2013, 07:12 PM

TS bro,

U with your gf for 5 years. She only got to know the guy for 2 weeks and decided to break up with u?

Unless u want to have de javu, its pretty clear what needs to be done.

Wish u all the best.

thomko · #36 22-10-2013, 09:42 PM

5 years bro is a long relationship, but the knowledge of cheating will linger in your head year in n year out. Can you manage that thought.?

Intltuk · #37 22-10-2013, 11:43 PM

Are u serious bro? The writing is on the wall:
1. She lies
2. She slept with another man
3. Her mind is with him, not u

U've realized she came back bec she is touched, NOT bec she is IN LOVE with u. When there is no trust in a relationship............

U know in ur heart this relationship cannot be sustain. Move on. It will be painful no doubt to part and u will grieve for a while but u will recover.

sadfa · #38 23-10-2013, 03:06 AM

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Originally Posted by he-man11

bro datan, i did think about that. i'm just afraid that if it happens again, i will have to go through this emotional roller coaster again. this is 1 fuck up feeling that i would nvr want to experience again.

The conventional wisdom in this forum whenever something like this happen, is:

Pretend everything is OK so u can continue to fuck her until song song while looking for a new gf or wife.

Anyway, she betray u once so easy, she can betray you again next time.
If you cant live with that, suggest you find new gal.

lonelygirl · #39 23-10-2013, 01:18 PM

Maybe she just don't meant for you? Move on!!!

2wire · #40 24-10-2013, 01:40 AM

There's always this "invisible" scar lingering around and to TS: Will you really trust her 100% again and won't have any doubts when you "feel" something is up again? I think all these guessing and stuff in future will eat you up from the inside leh.

hornynoobie · #41 24-10-2013, 02:06 PM

Bro... I m facing something lk urs too recently... take ur thread to share...

I met this ger sometime back n know she is married but gg thru a divorce. The husband cheated on her.... she too slept ard but jus wasnt caught by the husband. I knew she was feeling empty n thats y she keeps hanging out w dudes n slept ard w a few before me too. During e beginning I thought I can just take her as a fuck buddy... but as time past my feelings grew for her. I do know she is constantly toking to her ex flings n one she really likes n couldnt get over w. But I carried on w her till one day... my jealousy got e better of me n I confronted her. From e conversation we had... I realised she nvr really loved me n was taking me as a filler... to fill up her emptiness... it just happened not too long n I m feeling like a loser in me. Guess e bros here r right...

tink abt e time when ur partner is enjoying herself w other guys... does she even give a damn abt how u feel? They r just being sluts... we r better off without these kind of gers in our life.

hornynoobie · #42 24-10-2013, 02:11 PM

But for all I said above... I m also confused. .. want her back badly but dun tink I can trust her at all...

If ever we do get bk again... I will just f her many times n at e same time look for somebody else... I will prob feel lk taking revenge... I know tts bad....

banana81sg · #43 24-10-2013, 08:02 PM

cn talk to her n c how she feel n say. " i wan u back, but i can never trust u 100% again"

twilight13 · #44 25-10-2013, 02:49 PM

If an relationship of 5 years can be so easily rock after knowing another guy for only 2 weeks, there is only 1 thing about your relationship.

She does not love you at all and she will definitely do it again!

Like our PM like to say 'Let's move on'.

porscheclub · #45 25-10-2013, 07:22 PM

He-man, one week since the post & you're still in a daze....so still with her?

I can accept that my woman has a few partners before me but not a habitual liar like yours. That's one of the main issue you raised before she even slept around.

You're already a 30yrs old man. Wake up!!!! Look for a wife quality woman instead of worrying about a wife who's constantly making you a cock unless you enjoy it. What happens if she tells you next month that she's pregnant, is it yours or someone else's? You cannot check till few months later alright? The torment will be greater by then & some women can be crafty, just look at how many cheating women on your thread alone.