Do you regret marrying? - Page 33

HelloAngel · #**481** 28-07-2016, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

Bro, how old are you? Do not destroy your life just like that.
I am only 24 this year but I had already decided a couple of years ago to remain single for the rest of my life. That decision solved a lot of issues then in my life and also not have problems coming to mess with my life. My current lifestyle is so freedom and problem free. Best advice I ever had was being told "DO NOT EVER GET MARRIED IN SINGAPORE!"

You are only 24. There is a long journey ahead of you. Humans are emotional creatures. Should the day comes when you meet a fantastic gal that you wanna keep by your side forever or if she requests to settle down, would you give her up? Men in their 20s and 30s think differently, btw. As we grow up, our priorities change and outlook in life changes too. Most important is to be happy in whatever you do.

I suppose your advice stems from the unfair Women's Charter?

Hurricane88 · #**482** 28-07-2016, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

Bro, how old are you? Do not destroy your life just like that.
I am only 24 this year but I had already decided a couple of years ago to remain single for the rest of my life. That decision solved a lot of issues then in my life and also not have problems coming to mess with my life. My current lifestyle is so freedom and problem free. Best advice I ever had was being told "DO NOT EVER GET MARRIED IN SINGAPORE!"

Your parents will be very sad...

If your parents dun get married you wouldn't even exist...

Hurricane88 · #**483** 28-07-2016, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by HelloAngel

You are only 24. There is a long journey ahead of you. Humans are emotional creatures. Should the day comes when you meet a fantastic gal that you wanna keep by your side forever or if she requests to settle down, would you give her up? Men in their 20s and 30s think differently, btw. As we grow up, our priorities change and outlook in life changes too. Most important is to be happy in whatever you do.

I suppose your advice stems from the unfair Women's Charter?

Fully agreed with you...

Beretta · #**484** 28-07-2016, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Acemann

Wonder why just Singapore ?

Firstly it's the Women's Charter.
Secondly it's the AWARE organisation.
And thirdly it's the kuniang kangaroo courts that seems to have no backbone when it comes to matters under the Women's Charter.

When the rules are so biased and unfair favouring heavily towards the other side.... why should we play the game? Only fools play this game and get married.

Beretta · #**485** 28-07-2016, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Your parents will be very sad...

If your parents dun get married you wouldn't even exist...

That's where you are wrong.
The advice came from my uncle and my father fully agrees with him.
In grandparents time.... they were match made and marry for security.
In parents time..... they marry for love and security.
Our present generation..... treat marriage as a business venture and try to screw the other by being as mercenary as she can.

My mum works in a law firm... in her 20+ years as a secretary to a lawyer she has done countless of divorce cases. She also agrees with my decision to remain single for the rest of my life and tells me if I should decide to change my mind in future..... to leave all my assets with her or my siblings before tying the knot.

Ngengheng · #**486** 28-07-2016, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

That's where you are wrong.
The advice came from my uncle and my father fully agrees with him.
In grandparents time.... they were match made and marry for security.
In parents time..... they marry for love and security.
Our present generation..... treat marriage as a business venture and try to screw the other by being as mercenary as she can.

My mum works in a law firm... in her 20+ years as a secretary to a lawyer she has done countless of divorce cases. She also agrees with my decision to remain single for the rest of my life and tells me if I should decide to change my mind in future..... to leave all my assets with her or my siblings before tying the knot.

Perhaps you can try foriegn village woman. Most probably down to earth and wife material.

Hurricane88 · #**487** 28-07-2016, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

That's where you are wrong.
The advice came from my uncle and my father fully agrees with him.
In grandparents time.... they were match made and marry for security.
In parents time..... they marry for love and security.
Our present generation..... treat marriage as a business venture and try to screw the other by being as mercenary as she can.

My mum works in a law firm... in her 20+ years as a secretary to a lawyer she has done countless of divorce cases. She also agrees with my decision to remain single for the rest of my life and tells me if I should decide to change my mind in future..... to leave all my assets with her or my siblings before tying the knot.

I learned something from you...thank you...I take back my words...

Vectra · #**488** 28-07-2016, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Beretta

My mum works in a law firm... in her 20+ years as a secretary to a lawyer she has done countless of divorce cases. She also agrees with my decision to remain single for the rest of my life and tells me if I should decide to change my mind in future..... to leave all my assets with her or my siblings before tying the knot.

Your elders are more experienced and see bigger picture...

Hurricane88 · #**489** 28-07-2016, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Vectra

Your elders are more experienced and see bigger picture...

His case are such there are plenty of assets...

In many cases marriage involved loving couples who wanted to start families and have nothing except career. So if both spouses contribute to the housing, child education, etc...then really women charter have no real advantages...

Many parents worth taking risks because kids are more important than money...if any child successful and made plenty of money then the parents will be deemed successful...

Captainoceania77 · #**490** 28-07-2016, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

His case are such there are plenty of assets...

In many cases marriage involved loving couples who wanted to start families and have nothing except career. So if both spouses contribute to the housing, child education, etc...then really women charter have no real advantages...

Many parents worth taking risks because kids are more important than money...if any child successful and made plenty of money then the parents will be deemed successful...

Those rich guys are very careful . My cousin who is multi millionaire still remain as single. Last time he asked his gf to sign prenup and she broke off with him. Coz he has much to lose. Our media keeps on broadcast those divorce with high alimony news too. Those slut woman will show off how much maintenance and wealth split from ex hubby....

Vectra · #**491** 28-07-2016, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

His case are such there are plenty of assets...

Not just the richie rich are more wary, those middle income and above do have this concern. Do you sign a contract(marriage cert) knowing there are terms that you are abide to pay out in the future if relation not work out?

Aiya, at this Internet Age, things changed so fast... and so is relationship...

HonkyTonkyMan · #**492** 28-07-2016, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Those rich guys are very careful . My cousin who is multi millionaire still remain as single. Last time he asked his gf to sign prenup and she broke off with him. Coz he has much to lose. ...

I thought the fucking kangaroo cock don't recognize pre-nup and said its not valid in little red dot?

Hurricane88 · #**493** 28-07-2016, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

I thought the fucking kangaroo cock don't recognize pre-nup and said its not valid in little red dot?

You are right...women charter over-rides pre-nup or marriage contract...

only thing is know how transfer assets before marriage for those worried...

Captainoceania77 · #**494** 29-07-2016, 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

I thought the fucking kangaroo cock don't recognize pre-nup and said its not valid in little red dot?

Prenup will still helps ...Is also provides a confident boost too. However most woman wont sign it .

https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law...nts-singapore/

ramadel · #**495** 29-07-2016, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Prenup will still helps ...Is also provides a confident boost too. However most woman wont sign it .

https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law...nts-singapore/

Prenups that contradicts the Women's Charter will not be upheld and the Women's Charter takes precedence over it. So essentially a prenup in Singapore is bullshit and a worthless piece of paper.

Come over to Malaysia and get married here. There is no such thing as a Women's Charter here.