Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Gals ask similar questions over and over again is becoz they want assurance.
i.e questions like 'do you love me'.... they just want to hear us say 'i love you'

hahaha...all kinds of gals always wanted their other halves to say "A yeu e nhieu nhieu" to feel secure...anyway say only what as long as she is still submissive to you and gives you what you wanted...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Tee-Muay

So how to bring her in? She is a decent girl and not gonna 'work' in SIN.

How do ICA Officers know she is a decent coach...everyday ICA officers met so many coming in...also you have no relationship to the gal until you have a marriage cert...marry your gf and gives her the status...eventually Sin citizen travelling on Sin passport...read SingViet's former post on his wife now a Singaporean travelling on Sin passport...wish you good luck and enjoy your matrimony...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

many brothers that try to bring their gals into singapore 2 months before the actual ROM date and often they will face problem with ICA.

If no ROm, then even if you come in with her also no use. Last time its quite possible to just say you `guaranttee her' but now, they do not bother even when you say that.

Originally Posted by Tee-Muay

So how to bring her in? She is a decent girl and not gonna 'work' in SIN.

Maybe you can write a letter to ICA and tell them the situation, that your friend is visiting you... etc. See what thier response is. But expect to vomit blood with their response.

"You can try.... but..... depends" these are the few words in their vocabulary that they use everyday in their work.

At least threre are black and white to record your correspondence. You can ask your gal to show it to the custom. This somhow will shows that you and your gal are truly, sincerely following the rules set by the custom.

My friend tried this method for his PRC galfriend. (now his wife). Everyday very free, drop ICA an email

Originally Posted by SingViet

Since she is a decent gal, then put some cash into her wallet and bring her in on social visit pass lor. 2 weeks or 1 month, it depends on the ICA officer lor.

I will put tons of cash in my galfriend handbag when i bring her to sillypore by year end.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I will put tons of cash in my galfriend handbag when i bring her to sillypore by year end.

Bro, your gf kanna black listed before by ICA. Don't have too high hopes of bringing her back to Singapore. Chances will be very much lower than the normal gals. But, like they always say, no harm trying.

[ekemono]

Actually I wonder....
if I am met with situation that my gal was black listed by ICA but we are determine to be together, can a ROM cert in VN helps pass custom to let her pass? Agter which I assume ROM is SG isn't much of a problem

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, your gf kanna black listed before by ICA. Don't have too high hopes of bringing her back to Singapore. Chances will be very much lower than the normal gals. But, like they always say, no harm trying.

Don't ICA know about 'yellow ribbon'? banned 3 years = jail term over.

Yes. I will try. Chances low doesn't mean no chance. I will try to make the chance high.

I will definitly write to ICA and be truthful about the situation. Else I will just register for marriage and bring her in 2weeks before ROM.

[ted26]

Dear bro out there,really need advice from u all about this WL viet gal that i just met.
Got to know this gal (which is friendly and careing to mi)this is her first time in SIN,she dun even know how to speak or understand proper chinese/english.After our first meeting ,i were offen pick her up after work for supper.We do have physcial contact(but no sex between use yet).I had express my feeling for her and wanted her to be my Gf.But she tell me that she had only know me for a short time although she like me alot she is treating me as her bestfriend,asking me that we should go slowly in our relationship.I accept her answer and i told her i were not any how touch her in anyway since she treated me as a friend only.But after this everytime we met she were intentionly touch and kiss(since we are friend i never touch her back)even sending me sms eg l miss me l want too kiss you)All this really trouble me ,i am really scare that she is slowly setting up a big KC trap for me to fall in.She is making mi confuse now.what should i do? Something more to add the $ i spend on her is only the tips that i give her when we first met.She never ask for $ or ask me to buy anything when we go out.Pls pardon me for my lousy english.

[nitin]

Originally Posted by ted26

Dear bro out there,really need advice from u all about this WL viet gal that i just met.
Got to know this gal (which is friendly and careing to mi)this is her first time in SIN,she dun even know how to speak or understand proper chinese/english.After our first meeting ,

Just makan her and forget about it lah...why so troubled?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ted26

WL viet gal

(but no sex between use yet).I had express my feeling for her and wanted her to be my Gf.
KC trap for me to fall in.She is making mi confuse now.what should i do? Something more to add the $ i spend on her is only the tips that i give her when we first met.She never ask for $ or ask me to buy anything when we go out.

WL viet gal = working to earn living and sending money home. Spent huge amount of $$$ to come to Sin...so have to earn la..

No SEX with you = doesn't mean she dun have SEX with client...

KC trap is their specialty. Maybe you are sinking into it w/o knowing yourself..

She hardly speak Chinese/English so how both of you communicate...

You never give her money so ask yourself how she survive daily, weekly, monthly...she has to pay for rental, food, transport, air-ticket, loans, etc..

This is a typical story which others had encountered here in this thread. If you search or read the whole thread, you will find out your case and others are very similar. Alot of advices had been given...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Don't ICA know about 'yellow ribbon'? banned 3 years = jail term over.

Yes. I will try. Chances low doesn't mean no chance. I will try to make the chance high.

I will definitly write to ICA and be truthful about the situation. Else I will just register for marriage and bring her in 2weeks before ROM.

hahaha...I like your figting spirit...just go ahead to write to ICA daily...bore them to death until they approve...let us cheer you on, KT, KT, KT...

Originally Posted by ekemono

Actually I wonder....
if I am met with situation that my gal was black listed by ICA but we are determine to be together, can a ROM cert in VN helps pass custom to let her pass? Agter which I assume ROM is SG isn't much of a problem

Geez..I oso wan to know the answer...from what I know, even after ROM in Vn, your new wife still not allowed to enter Sin but you can appeal to lift the ban...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ted26

Dear bro out there,really need advice from u all about this WL viet gal that i just met.

After our first meeting ,i were offen pick her up after work for supper.We do have physcial contact(but no sex between use yet).I had express my feeling for her and wanted her to be my Gf.

But after this everytime we met she were intentionly touch and kiss(since we are friend i never touch her back)even sending me sms eg l miss me l want too kiss you)All this really trouble me ,i am really scare that she is slowly setting up a big KC trap for me to fall in.

Who is the one setting up KC trap? I think its you. She fell in and continue where you left.

If you are troubled by this, STOP contacting her.

[nitekids]

my wife`s a prc i still fighting for her PR.So fight for it bro i support you

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by ted26

She never ask for $ or ask me to buy anything when we go out.Pls pardon me for my lousy english.

she has some carrot heads providing for her. Pay her suprise visit often and you will bump into her sponsers.

[SingViet]

same scenario, different gals and different guy. (maybe same gal.. ) We discussed so many times roi.... yawn... yawn..... better fxxk her, pay her and forget it.

[cashier]

Originally Posted by SingViet

same scenario, different gals and different guy. (maybe same gal.. ) We discussed so many times roi.... yawn... yawn..... better fxxk her, pay her and forget it.

agree with singviet, he is the man that knows the inside out. last year regret never listen to her and take effort to know the decent viet gal he intro me. got involved in a viet wl and waste big time on her. they are here to earn money. money is their 1st priority follow by family than their bf and lastly u. to them u are just their atm machine which need coaxing and some 'love'. i learn the truth from a old timer in gl lor 23 and he told me my so call baxa have many bf and lovers. also he say usually 1st time or 2nd time they come here they usually is tamer but once they get full time into the trade, they change. next, it is easier to find decent gals in vietnam than to find them in wl. spend more effort to find a decent gals than waste time on the wls.

FYI: they share "loving' sms among the WLs to send their their "lover customer', do u think u look like jin chen wu for them to fall in love with u? vietnasm man are much more handsome than singapore man fyi!