Do you regret marrying?

[localguylor]

Originally Posted by panzer3

For those who are married for long.. is it true that the love feeling will eventually die out completely?
.... Can to share?

What u said, its the truth. All marriage will eventually slow down, feel bored, lack of sex, partner having affairs etc...some will lead to divorce..because we r human after all. (Ex POTUS had affair too..lol)

But, saying that..we r e guy, we r the man. We should take e role to e bring back the passion we once had with our wife. To the extend to forgive her if she even had any affair behind our back. I never said it is easy to be a that the "man", but once u became that "man"..ur life will change for good...

It's ok to be a little noti, a little cheeky...but dont be the boring husband that ruin a girl life forever.

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by localguylor

What u said, its the truth. All marriage will eventually slow down, feel bored, lack of sex, partner having affairs etc...some will lead to divorce..because we r human after all. (Ex POTUS had affair too..lol)

But, saying that..we r e guy, we r the man. We should take e role to e bring back the passion we once had with our wife. To the extend to forgive her if she even had any affair behind our back. I never said it is easy to be a that the "man", but once u became that "man"..ur life will change for good...

It's ok to be a little noti, a little cheeky...but dont be the boring husband that ruin a girl life forever.

So troublesome . Guess I remain bachelor much better . No much headaches.

[unicornboy]

Originally Posted by Estella

That's great to keep yourself active. What I would think...as long as you have the company you enjoy. It doesn't matter whether you are married or not.. after all, marriage is just a piece of paper. Companionship? What do you think?

Reason i wish to have a companion is also cos of sex. Dont like to keep changing partners and run the risks of infecting STDs.

[Canoneos]

Originally Posted by panzer3

For those who are married for long.. is it true that the love feeling will eventually die out completely?

Any people in the same boat as me previously/now? Can to share?

Nah, just as there are many divorced there are many happily married for a long time. Ultimately, I think it is up to both parties whether they want to keep working on the marriage.

I'm fortunate. Been married for 26 years and never been happier and in love. Some factors that have helped:

- Both keep fit. Do not expect wife to look good but you become a fat slob.
- Dirty holidays away from kids .... often.
- No stress. Wife doesn't work and fortunately money never a problem.
- Know each others likes and wants.
- Sleep naked and screw often.
- Porn. Really spices things up. Soft bondage, blindfolds, sex toys.
- Humour. Remember to be funny and laugh.
- Share interests but not all. Each need to have their own time.
- Don't sweat little things. Let them go.
- Never let things build up. If annoyed at something, say something. Let it out immediately. Sometimes say it jokingly but wife knows there is an element of truth in it.

Just my 2 cents.

[cloudy0]

Yes. For the love of god, this is what I would do if ever get another partner:

1) Buy my own property. Let her buy her own. Money I manage my own. Let her spend and manage her own.

2) Live together but never sign the dotted line (ROM cert). Divorce is so much easier and less painful this way.

3) Don't like each other? You are free to go instead of being tied down by the stupid paper.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by cloudy0

Yes. For the love of god, this is what I would do if ever get another partner:

1) Buy my own property. Let her buy her own. Money I manage my own. Let her spend and manage her own.

2) Live together but never sign the dotted line (ROM cert). Divorce is so much easier and less painful this way.

3) Don't like each other? You are free to go instead of being tied down by the stupid paper.

2nd pointed is contradictory, if you never sign on dotted line than no need to even talk about divorce. Just go separate ways..

[Beretta]

Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

2nd pointed is contradictory, if you never sign on dotted line than no need to even talk about divorce. Just go separate ways..

Not necessary must have ROM certificate. In certain situations.... De Facto relationships can sue the other in the event of a breakup and in case by case basis the WC may be applicable too..... especially if there's children involved.

[broessex]

Originally Posted by Beretta

Not necessary must have ROM certificate. In certain situations.... De Facto relationships can sue the other in the event of a breakup and in case by case basis the WC may be applicable too..... especially if there's children involved.

I believe that is the case in common law spousal relationships.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Beretta

Not necessary must have ROM certificate. In certain situations.... De Facto relationships can sue the other in the event of a breakup and in case by case basis the WC may be applicable too..... especially if there's children involved.

huh wah lau you mean without that piece of paper, women still can find a way to screw us guys over.. knn jialat like that...

[Beretta]

Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan

huh wah lau you mean without that piece of paper, women still can find a way to screw us guys over.. knn jialat like that...

That's why the Find..Fuck..Forget mantra is still the best policy.

[curious11]

Originally Posted by Canoneos

Nah, just as there are many divorced there are many happily married for a long time. Ultimately, I think it is up to both parties whether they want to keep working on the marriage.

I'm fortunate. Been married for 26 years and never been happier and in love. Some factors that have helped:

- Both keep fit. Do not expect wife to look good but you become a fat slob.
- Dirty holidays away from kids .... often.
- No stress. Wife doesn't work and fortunately money never a problem.
- Know each others likes and wants.
- Sleep naked and screw often.
- Porn. Really spices things up. Soft bondage, blindfolds, sex toys.
- Humour. Remember to be funny and laugh.
- Share interests but not all. Each need to have their own time.
- Don't sweat little things. Let them go.
- Never let things build up. If annoyed at something, say something. Let it out immediately. Sometimes say it jokingly but wife knows there is an element of truth in it.

Just my 2 cents.

sounds like a nice piece of advice..

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by curious11

sounds like a nice piece of advice..

he already said "I'm fortunate"

there's at least 50 percent not as lucky

[1KnightinBKK]

Originally Posted by Bukit Mewah

Those rich guys are very careful . My cousin who is multi millionaire still remain as single. Last time he asked his gf to sign prenup and she broke off with him. Coz he has much to lose. Our media keeps on broadcast those divorce with high alimony news too. Those slut woman will show off how much maintenance and wealth split from ex hubby....

in singapore, prenuptials are not fully enforceable. In court, Women's Charter still No 1. So think long and think hard before ROM.

[Beretta]

Originally Posted by 1KnightinBKK

in singapore, prenuptials are not fully enforceable. In court, Women's Charter still No 1. So think long and think hard before ROM.

You can submit your prenuptial agreements for the court to peruse but if the terms and conditions are in conflict with the Women's Charter.... then the WC takes precedence and your prenups is just a useless piece of paper.

[michelle33]

I have a very different reason for regretting getting married. I was however pressurised into it when my parent discovered my sexual inclination and activities at that time.