Hard to get True relationship

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

I noe tat i still young n can seek ard dun need 2 rush. But i really very lonely at most of the days.

Everyday is like years 2 me. I can drive from east 2 west just 2 take my breakfast. I wan a serious bf tat can with me share my life but not my $

alot of patience is needed to be able to find a soul mate. dont give the green light to go steady becos the guy starts showering u with too much love n gifts all of a sudden. too much love at once usually comes with a motive. and the faster it comes the faster it ends too. play it cool n give both parties time to knw one another and understand each other;s likes/dislikes. most successful relationships are built on common interests and character matches. if he is serious in a relationship he will also want to knw more abt u as a person 1st and see if there r sparks btw u 2 before deciding to commit himself to say 'i love u' .

[LongTorpedo]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

I noe tat i still young n can seek ard dun need 2 rush. But i really very lonely at most of the days.

Everyday is like years 2 me. I can drive from east 2 west just 2 take my breakfast. I wan a serious bf tat can with me share my life but not my $

Sis Eve

You're feeling really lonely, may be because you have nothing to do. May I suggest below:

1) find a job. Time flies when you work. You can also widen your social circle, colleagues, business associate, supplier, customers, etc. Interaction with wide range of people will open up your eyes and mind.
2) go to church or temple. May be spiritual thing is your calling? There're definitely more decent people in there...may be except some ang mo pastors who like to prey on kids??
3) pick up a hobby. Try an outdoor one, then you can meet more people.
4) do some charity work
5) go for a backpack tour by yourself. People are more willing to open up to you, and be-friend you, when you're travelling alone. Forget tour package.

[cockerdooo]

if u know like him just tell him off and if u like him then try it, it is a kind of pleasure u can never find elsewhere.

[baby85]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

thanks jie jie for ur kind advice. Anyway nice 2 c u post in my thread 2 support me.

np =) but wen times u feel lonely u can find frens , frens are e one tat with u for life , not bf ..

n wen ur sad , ur lonely & wen u nid someone by ur side , it doesnt have to be bf tat doing all tis ..

find someting to do , maybe a very relaxing part time job to take up ur time , and many other tings tat can let u spend time on it ..

take care

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

thanks 4 ur piece of info. Next time wen i meet guys, i will take mrt or walk so tat they dun have such thinking.

No, that's negative thinking. You should date guys who drive sports cars themselves. There's a chinese saying for this. Dating within the same social class.

From a driver's point of view, you got EZ link card meh? Most drivers don't have EZ link cards or are quite unfamiliar with bus routes anymore. Singapore's transport system changes very fast.

[qsnake]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

No, that's negative thinking. You should date guys who drive sports cars themselves. There's a chinese saying for this. Dating within the same social class.

From a driver's point of view, you got EZ link card meh? Most drivers don't have EZ link cards or are quite unfamiliar with bus routes anymore. Singapore's transport system changes very fast.

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[andyhalo]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

I noe tat i still young n can seek ard dun need 2 rush. But i really very lonely at most of the days.

Everyday is like years 2 me. I can drive from east 2 west just 2 take my breakfast. I wan a serious bf tat can with me share my life but not my $

Originally Posted by Evetan86

thanks 4 ur piece of info. Next time wen i meet guys, i will take mrt or walk so tat they dun have such thinking.

aiyah. i still thot can find people dun mind going ard together to eat since im free till cny.........but.......now.......u........lol.

ok, serious note. taking mrt or public transport is a way too. i had an ex colleague who lives in a landed property, but always meet us at void deck. too bad we still found out. haha.

[naturegreen]

Basically, it depends on what you are searching and seeking for.
We are born out to be seekers anyway right from beginning,
1) we seek for good parents and a good home. Some get lucky some dun.
2) we seek for education. Some do while some drops out.
3) we seek for a good and ideal job. Very few gets the job they want. Most dun.
4a) Guys seek for bonking partners. Most gets it with/without romance.
4b) Girls seek for romance. Most who gets it get bonked. Some who dun get it also get bonk through flings/ONS. Very very few who dun get bonk and partner simply means you are lazy. There's no ugly women in this world, only lazy women.
5) we seek for an ideal partner. Most dun. Minority does while they still do their bonking behind their partners back.
6) we seek to curve a better career and for a better life.

I know of female friends who feels that their husband are not horny enough or they are unable to fulfil their wives' desires and needs. So why do you feel all guys are only out for sex? You make me think all your relationships are shallow and only based on sex, and nothing else. Sit down, reflect why is this so? It takes 2 hands to clap instead of screaming and ranting when something dun go your way.
So it really depends on whatever are you seeking for first? Your destiny is in your own hands.
Cheers

[dreammare]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

Basically, it depends on what you are searching and seeking for.
We are born out to be seekers anyway right from beginning,
1) we seek for good parents and a good home. Some get lucky some dun.
2) we seek for education. Some do while some drops out.
3) we seek for a good and ideal job. Very few gets the job they want. Most dun.
4a) Guys seek for bonking partners. Most gets it with/without romance.
4b) Girls seek for romance. Most who gets it get bonked. Some who dun get it also get bonk through flings/ONS. Very very few who dun get bonk and partner simply means you are lazy. There's no ugly women in this world, only lazy women.
5) we seek for an ideal partner. Most dun. Minority does while they still do their bonking behind their partners back.
6) we seek to curve a better career and for a better life.

I know of female friends who feels that their husband are not horny enough or they are unable to fulfil their wives' desires and needs. So why do you feel all guys are only out for sex? You make me think all your relationships are shallow and only based on sex, and nothing else. Sit down, reflect why is this so? It takes 2 hands to clap instead of screaming and ranting when something dun go your way.
So it really depends on whatever are you seeking for first? Your destiny is in your own hands.
Cheers

Wah now this something to learn. I have to agree some ladies are very horny , my friend said his wife more horny then him .

Any sis eve , guys around your age are usually more horny (due to body function) . If you want to find a good guy, follow what LongTorpedo
said increase your circle of friend . And oh a gal who drives sport car is trophy that point i agree .

If you find a true r/s firstly ask what you want in r/s . If you can't figure that out , it would be hard for you go with any guys . Stop going to clubs , it full of horny guys , plus it ages girls .

I recalled i hit full throttle on "sex drive" when i was in my mid-twenties and started sbf recommendation . I do have a friend who hasn't have sex in his three decade all he ever does is watch hentai and jerk off . He said he want to be a virgin when he marries a girl . I wonder is he horny or plain siao?

[bigblackycat]

Originally Posted by andyhalo

zzzzzz...........7 pts sia. not ez loh. lol. but ok lah. help u since u admit ur mistake. dunno enuf to cover boh. keke.

Tks bro, have cover u...
Next on list will be AV-Taiso

[selrahc]

you have to learn to say "NO", to the things that you are not comfortable with. Even if the person is already your BOYFRIEND. you are not obliged to do anything for anyone, if you do not like it. And he will respect you, if hes taking things seriously, like you do.

All in all, treat yourself with respect and others will treat you back with respect. Have to be honest with your own feelings, because end of the day, you need to face up to yourself girl.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Evetan86

According 2 wat my so call bf told me tat if he never release 4 too long the sperm will go up his brain 2 make he crazy. I dun believe such things he treat me like 3 yrs old. He even ask me to blow 4 him but i only try 4 1 lick at the tip taste very salty dun quite like it so reject him.

No 1: Wash before Sex..DUH

No 2: He wants is his issue.. can always PCC.

No 3: Sex and intimacy are different.. go figure that out.

Originally Posted by Evetan86

I need a serious bf tat i can share my happiest n unhappiest. Wenever i not in good shape he will b there 2 console me care 4 me love me. I ever have tis bf who is after my $. 1st time dating wan me 2 buy him rolex king. He must b crazy liao. I told him off tat i not luking 4 xiao bai lian.

You need friends.. NOT a boyfriend. And u cannot decide overnite that this will be your serious BF.. It takes time to know each other and progress (if there is mutual feelings)

I have a few friends who never got it with any lady. Reason being:

No 1: See a few times..want to marry people .. heck, frighten the damn girl who is just treating u as a friend.

No 2: Juz want sex sex sex...duh

No 3: Can play together, cannot cry together type.

Originally Posted by Evetan86

I think younger guys r easily get sex excited than mature man. Correct me if i m wrong.

Younger man have lesser experience hence more eager to explore and learn..

Hey, when I was younger.. I was prowling the streets ever other day...Now, I have seen almost all there is to experience.

Maybe I will do a list like Chinababe2001 and frds...hahahaha... maybe a jap/korean tarma fantasy or a russian ....

Nah.. on 2nd tots... I am a simple man. No need such exotic thrills..for now.

TS mei mei... get a life and more friends that are not from nitespots.

Look back at the old friends that you may have forgotten since your schooling days, ya?

[Evetan86]

Sorry no time 2 post in 2day damn busy with my course enrol. I now taking some course 2 keep myself busy so tat i wont b out of the direction. All the gege here really enlighten me so much with very good advise. Thks for all.

In fact i got a bf abt 5 yrs ago n is tat guy who took my virgin. Now we still in contact but not in other things since we breakoff 3yrs ago. He is the 1 who to refer sbf 2 me since i always complain 2 him i m very bore. It really help to solve my problems after i start 2 post in n get 2 noe so many nice gege n jie jie here 2 guide me correctly.

[BlackerKnighter]

Izit me and I may be wrong but this whole thread just sounds like another ridiculous school project lor..

Well to each her (more probably his) own and have a good time finding what you are looking for, whether it is data, reactions, a handsome BF or a FB with energizer bunny endurance and 12" dicky.

Anyway a bit of skepticism gets you a loooooong way lor. Works in any direction too.

[AdamAng89]

WAHHHHHHH THis KinD of ThReAD ALSO CAN AHHH?????

Double-plus-hilarious, ain't it?

Hello guys (gege-sama) I am young and virgin pussy waits deflowering. Questionable England included and intended.

Ya, about as true as the bullshit in this thread.

Oi this person is very obviously pulling your legs and cocks why you all so blind and dumb? No wonder you keep hearing stories of FLs conning retards.

Typical sillyporean forumer intelligence.

Haha new nick, 14 crappy posts, still under mod and already 59 points??? Can imagine all the desperate ji hong losers leaving notes on the rep page and shooting off PMs begging, "Hey I up you, can you let me up you too?"

Guys get some pride and sunshine lah. And stop daydreaming about the non-existent. Enjoy the ride!