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tiagong as woman get older they become more naggy, angry and impatient. tats y they want to faster get married so the man who marry them can giv them the chance to release stress everyday.
tiagong as woman get older they become more naggy, angry and impatient. tats y they want to faster get married so the man who marry them can giv them the chance to release stress everyday.
They wanna marry fast is because of biological clock ticking and wants security la...
most of the women I know, including my wife, FB, do not cook or do housework.
In fact I know for a fact, men today have to wash their own clothes, iron their own stuff, clean the house(if no maid DIY lor) because the wife or gf is too lazy having beauty sleep. And if hungry settle yourself, either cook or go buy
I have lived like this for 9 years, and the FB of 6 years also same pattern, so what cook, clean???
that is a old myth women are invincible because they take care of house, family, husband, can still wake up and go to work and come back and take care of the home
I only seen very very very few that do that today, with no maid. And I know lots of successful women who do not do anything household anymore.
Hence the increase in house husbands.
I must be living in the wrong world 😂.. my world seems opposite. Anyway there is happily married couples la.. I have seen quite a few with kids .. they prob dun come to this forum that's all haha or is the quiet majority.
__________________ dreams will never equate to reality
Marriage is a never ending work in progress.
It's abt gv n take n constantly adapting to the changes.
We all change. Many can't seem to understand this.
As we age more, our financial ability changes, our kids grow bigger, our parents grow older, all these factors will lead to some form of change be it psychological or emotional.
It's always easy to blame the other half but we must remember, it takes 2 hands to clap in a marriage.
A lot of compromise, a lot of closing one eye, a lot of not nick picking etc
I've been married since 1995 till now, kid in uni liao.
I hv posted this many years b4:
U marry someone not because u love them
U marry someone cos u know that person is mentally prepared to settle down
U marry someone who is ready to move to their next phase in life n start a family wif u
U marry someone who has integrity
U marry someone not because he or she is a good fuck but bcos he or she will make a good spouse
U marry someone whom u know will take care of ur family n u shud the need arise
This is what you get married for.
Many made the biggest mistake. LOVE!
This will fade away....but its the journey TOGETHER that makes it all worth while.
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
Marriage is a never ending work in progress.
It's abt gv n take n constantly adapting to the changes.
We all change. Many can't seem to understand this.
As we age more, our financial ability changes, our kids grow bigger, our parents grow older, all these factors will lead to some form of change be it psychological or emotional.
It's always easy to blame the other half but we must remember, it takes 2 hands to clap in a marriage.
A lot of compromise, a lot of closing one eye, a lot of not nick picking etc
I've been married since 1995 till now, kid in uni liao.
I hv posted this many years b4:
U marry someone not because u love them
U marry someone cos u know that person is mentally prepared to settle down
U marry someone who is ready to move to their next phase in life n start a family wif u
U marry someone who has integrity
U marry someone not because he or she is a good fuck but bcos he or she will make a good spouse
U marry someone whom u know will take care of ur family n u shud the need arise
This is what you get married for.
Many made the biggest mistake. LOVE!
This will fade away....but its the journey TOGETHER that makes it all worth while.
Marriage is a never ending work in progress.
It's abt gv n take n constantly adapting to the changes.
We all change. Many can't seem to understand this.
As we age more, our financial ability changes, our kids grow bigger, our parents grow older, all these factors will lead to some form of change be it psychological or emotional.
It's always easy to blame the other half but we must remember, it takes 2 hands to clap in a marriage.
A lot of compromise, a lot of closing one eye, a lot of not nick picking etc
I've been married since 1995 till now, kid in uni liao.
I hv posted this many years b4:
U marry someone not because u love them
U marry someone cos u know that person is mentally prepared to settle down
U marry someone who is ready to move to their next phase in life n start a family wif u
U marry someone who has integrity
U marry someone not because he or she is a good fuck but bcos he or she will make a good spouse
U marry someone whom u know will take care of ur family n u shud the need arise
This is what you get married for.
Many made the biggest mistake. LOVE!
This will fade away....but its the journey TOGETHER that makes it all worth while.
This is true. We always want to have that someone we can rely on and be able to trust. Sometimes even when the above criteria listed has been fulfilled, either party can still do sorry things for the marriage. I admire those marriage/relationship that tolerates mistakes and look forward to corrective path.
Not many people can do it. I don't even know what kind of marriage has my respect anymore. One that can mend the cracks, or one that has to end because they can't tolerate the cracks. I guess there's not right or wrong as long as we live happy...?
I must be living in the wrong world 😂.. my world seems opposite. Anyway there is happily married couples la.. I have seen quite a few with kids .. they prob dun come to this forum that's all haha or is the quiet majority.
Most ppl who come here either they are single like myself, getting divorced, already divorced seeking sexual partner or service or cheating behind their partner. I have met some SBF bros in real life so I know after hearing their story.
And most of them have problem back home either financially, emotionally or their sexual needs have not been fulfilled (no sex for long time). Those happily married couples do quarrel but they don't end up divorcing each other which is good for their children when they grow up. And they settle their problem indoor rather than spilling them out in the forum.
nothing stays the same. people change, situations change.
everyone laments at the divorce you are not the same person I married
its silly and foolhardy to believe people don't change. everything does. time causes change, things break down after usage don't they?
simple theory of vibration, everything has energy and is in constant vibration. a table you have today, come back in 20 years, will not be the same table 20 years ago.
marriage takes work and commitment, 2 hands to clap.
everyone believes they married the right person when they tie the knot. no one thinks they are going to get divorced in the future.
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
Marriage is a never ending work in progress.
It's abt gv n take n constantly adapting to the changes.
We all change. Many can't seem to understand this.
As we age more, our financial ability changes, our kids grow bigger, our parents grow older, all these factors will lead to some form of change be it psychological or emotional.
It's always easy to blame the other half but we must remember, it takes 2 hands to clap in a marriage.
A lot of compromise, a lot of closing one eye, a lot of not nick picking etc
I've been married since 1995 till now, kid in uni liao.
I hv posted this many years b4:
U marry someone not because u love them
U marry someone cos u know that person is mentally prepared to settle down
U marry someone who is ready to move to their next phase in life n start a family wif u
U marry someone who has integrity
U marry someone not because he or she is a good fuck but bcos he or she will make a good spouse
U marry someone whom u know will take care of ur family n u shud the need arise
This is what you get married for.
Many made the biggest mistake. LOVE!
This will fade away....but its the journey TOGETHER that makes it all worth while.
Shame ur partner by posting on social media.
Complain about ur partner by posting on social media.
Compare other peoples partner on social media.
Wanna quarrel? Use whatsapp to quarrel.
Do u regret getting married? Do u feel like giving a last try?
Remove u n ur partners smartphone and I can promise ur relationship will improve.
Shame ur partner by posting on social media.
Complain about ur partner by posting on social media.
Compare other peoples partner on social media.
Wanna quarrel? Use whatsapp to quarrel.
Do u regret getting married? Do u feel like giving a last try?
Remove u n ur partners smartphone and I can promise ur relationship will improve.
true, when my wife was working in office work when she left as trolley dolly, I asked her to come back for dinner, for 2 years, never did it. Didn't even message to tell me if she is late home even after I asked her to, fought about it countless times, most days 9-10pm eating her dinner outside so I always eat alone. When she was flying, I also always eat alone. Cook for her, she doesn't even eat much. So just imagine 1 person eating leftovers all the time, whole pots of soup, congee for days. You get my drift?
Its as if I have no wife. Communication nothing.
Now we have a child, everything is about the child, she rushes home after work, reach home 7pm. Still I don't get to eat with her, but at least can see her face and have short conversations which result in her throwing her famous temper. Almost gave up on the marriage, but after 7 years, we had a child. Funny when we wanted it, nothing happened, when we gave up, the baby came along
Once married, I was no longer a priority. Don't know what happened, but I have come to accept it. Surrender to fate. I just stay together for the child. She does her thing, I do mine, we don't talk about our work, or anything, if there is a conversation its about the child.
Bro, although this reply is 2 years late, I hope you are doing better now.
01-12-2016, 10:12 PM
