Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Spud_Boy]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Yes well said...while she is willing to be temp no. 2, 3, 4...she also looking out for being others no. 1. What is there for her to lose...she is working and you won't know who she is sleeping with...can you afford the time...

yup.. my vn girl started off being happy to be no. 2.. but as times goes by, she just couldn't take it (that's what she claims & took off)..

have another 1 on hand now.. also say dun mind being no.2.. will see how it goes.. & if history repeats..

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by 69ASIMO69

Can bros around who have obtain PR for their Vietnamese spouse kindly enlightened on the following.

I am married this year, my wife has got the 1 yr Long Term Pass within 1 month.

I have book an E-appointment to submit the PR application forms and documents.

1. Can I check do you guys submit the HOUSE CENSUS BOOK ( Its the book thats state who is the family member in this family )

2. You guys bring your wife Vietnam Birth Cert to translate to english at where? Vietnam Embassy in Singapore????

You will not need the Household book for submission for PR. But the Viet birth certificate is surely needed. If you are not in VN, then you can have it translated and certified at the Vietnamese embassy in Singapore. You may also need your wife's educational certificates, if she has any.

[serioussillyguy]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Anyone out there help me? I'm married with a viet gal, and my baby is 2 years old already.. Recently kena involved with another Viet gal from JC, dun know wht the heck and how i involve with her.

I went down to JC with my friend (i reach there 1st). I reject most of the gals which come over to my table as a bit sian, dun feel like cuddling 1.. But after 1 hour plus later, while still waiting for him.. Finally get 1 gal.. So, as per normal sop... She look also quite normal only. In fact her sister is quite a looker but didn't come over but her instead. So just grab lor, after my friend reach already. We hang around for a short while then i went off already because have to pick up my wife..

We exchange numbers only.. Nothing much happens in the pub, only for some kissing and hugging.

The next day, decided to give her a call and ask her out.. She ask her another sis to come along also. We we went for a meal together and went to some places for some beautiful views of Singapore, then i send them back.. Her sis went back but she follows me.. Then thats how my rendevous affair starts.. I did not finish her that day but only countless times of meeting up, around near 2 months later.. I also do not know how liao.. After she went back, she keeps calling me, now she is back in Singapore.. She also keeps calling me, tmr is her birthday, which i dun remember, it's her who sms me that then asking me whether i coming or not.. Because I've been avoiding her after 2 meeting with her after her 2nd visit.. Actually i wanted to adopt the fuck and forget method which i use every time.. But she really wants to capture me like her husband, at the start when i know her, i already told her that I'm married with kids, but she says she dun mind..

And the most headache thing is here.. She is not taking a single cent from me except the first day.. That is the most headache 1.. By adopting the fuck and forget method.. The most important is pay and fuck.. But........ Haiz.. This one really makes me headache.. If anyone ask me, her character and her overall surpass my wife.. But I'm married, i cannot say wants to change partner just because another gal is better a bit, then i divorce and change. I still have to think for my baby... There is a commitment and responsibility to my family.. Having an affair outside must also know must go home...

Anyone can advise on my situation?

Bro, 1st, asks yourself wat the reasons for hanging out at jc those pub? if the reasons mainly becos biz entertainment, or relaxing yourself or once a while pampering yourself, is fine,drink,hug,kiss,bonk then payup n go home.
The above is providing ur current wife and u having a happily relationship.

If u n ur wife not on good terms, i thus see the reasons u want find another gal at present. accordingly to ur story, u shld be on good terms w ur wife somemore having a cute baby gal.

Personally i just feels that the viet gal just mainly invest on u as future financial supporter when she's in n out of singapore, of cos to her, the best thing if u could be muddlehead enough to divorce your wife for her.In this kind place, gals in relationship with customers and providing countless foc bonking to their so-called ong xa or bf do not really means the gals love the guy.investment came in long term or short term.

If u just want to have fun,u shld not go into relationship in the 1st place. Just think wat's gd deals she can get from u by remain as second, nothing much and when she has enough she will force u to divorce your wife,think abt ur kid? and ur wife will cut off your dick(i heard viet gals quite like to do this to their unfaithful hubby) Now if u r certain u got no problems with ur wife. Do cut off all contacts w this gal n returns to ur wife.(of cos, as a man, is alrite to go flirting n clean up nicely before u went home, do not becos of foc bonking, creates a big problems to yr family..becos u r a family man)

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by naemlo

No woman in this world is willing to be 2,3,4... In this case it is called lan lan. Provoke them more, they will not hesitate to chop off half your dick.

The so-called willing to be no 2 is just a ploy. Later KC deep deep liao the true colour will come out.

Bro, when you come back again huh? I still owe you one round of drink!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

Bro, when you come back again huh? I still owe you one round of drink!

So good boy?? At home surf net?? Not going out?

[retsoor]

Spud_Boy, I like your signature.

Originally Posted by Spud_Boy

One can like many, but can only love One at a time..

I am also a serial monogamist when it comes to true love. But I am always trying to improve, my ideal is universal love^^

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

1) you got yourself a vn wife, she should have know how a vn gal thinks. Especially those who come sillypore to work, they will dfinitely not mind being a number 2, 3, 4....

2) you already know what to do. You avoided her and already cut down the frequency of meeting her. Why not totally cut off and erase her phone number.

3) If you think that you have not up her and that is why you continue contacting her, why not ask her to go hotel. After the sexxion, give her $ as a fuck and pay. Tell her that you treat her the same as other gals working in JC.

4) Do not meet her on her birthday... do not do anything for her.

5) Do not exchange phone numbers with any gal again if you do not want to get into this mess. It is always dangerous for married man to play KC game.

Thanks for your advice.. Will definately cut off liao... i also dun want to play the game with her liao..

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by fazer6s

and they say"Lightning doesn't strike twice"woah bro Xplorer two viet gals for yourself.makes other bros envious of you .Do leave some for us

Go JC or Geylang then you can find 2 , 3 or even 4...

Or you want to take over my 1? I can transfer to you ...hahaha.. If the gal wants.. i immediately transfer without delay.. Not she is no good, but like all other advice.. I do not want to contact her liao.. And i do not want to have other problems with my family...

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by serioussillyguy

Bro, 1st, asks yourself wat the reasons for hanging out at jc those pub? if the reasons mainly becos biz entertainment, or relaxing yourself or once a while pampering yourself, is fine,drink,hug,kiss,bonk then payup n go home.
The above is providing ur current wife and u having a happily relationship.

If u n ur wife not on good terms, i thus see the reasons u want find another gal at present. accordingly to ur story, u shld be on good terms w ur wife somemore having a cute baby gal.

Personally i just feels that the viet gal just mainly invest on u as future financial supporter when she's in n out of singapore, of cos to her, the best thing if u could be muddlehead enough to divorce your wife for her.In this kind place, gals in relationship with customers and providing countless foc bonking to their so-called ong xa or bf do not really means the gals love the guy.investment came in long term or short term.

If u just want to have fun,u shld not go into relationship in the 1st place. Just think wat's gd deals she can get from u by remain as second, nothing much and when she has enough she will force u to divorce your wife,think abt ur kid? and ur wife will cut off your dick(i heard viet gals quite like to do this to their unfaithful hubby) Now if u r certain u got no problems with ur wife. Do cut off all contacts w this gal n returns to ur wife.(of cos, as a man, is alrite to go flirting n clean up nicely before u went home, do not becos of foc bonking, creates a big problems to yr family..becos u r a family man)

Thanks Bro, Very detailed and good advice.. Will heed your advice..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Thanks Bro, Very detailed and good advice.. Will heed your advice..

Good that you are willing vn follow brothers advices...hope your family always live harmoniously...

[excudus]

off topic abit:
may i check if any senior bros know -
my viet ger was deported (raid at pub) from singapore last oct.
now she just renewed her passport (not a fake passport) as the old passport expired on Aug'09 and she was given a new passport number. if the name and DOB remains the same, will our ICA have the record of her being blacklisted if she tries to enter sg again and they do not scan her thumbprint at the airport?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by excudus

owill our ICA have the record of her being blacklisted if she tries to enter sg again and they do not scan her thumbprint at the airport?

Has she changes her fingers?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by excudus

off topic abit:
may i check if any senior bros know -
my viet ger was deported (raid at pub) from singapore last oct.
now she just renewed her passport (not a fake passport) as the old passport expired on Aug'09 and she was given a new passport number. if the name and DOB remains the same, will our ICA have the record of her being blacklisted if she tries to enter sg again and they do not scan her thumbprint at the airport?

Not that the WL have the words `WL' imprinted on their forehead or tits, but if you see them everyday, you will be damm expert to spot them easily. ICA officers are damm expert now to know who are WL and who are not. So unless:

(1) fingerprint system break down;
(2) ICA officer attracted by her tits;
(3) she changed her fingers;

or else the chances for her to enter singapore again soon is nearly ZERO. But of course, if you want to support the airlines, please do so

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Not that the WL have the words `WL' imprinted on their forehead or tits, but if you see them everyday, you will be damm expert to spot them easily. ICA officers are damm expert now to know who are WL and who are not. So unless:

(1) fingerprint system break down;
(2) ICA officer attracted by her tits;
(3) she changed her fingers;

or else the chances for her to enter singapore again soon is nearly ZERO. But of course, if you want to support the airlines, please do so

Bro singviet, pls be gentle...some of the newbies not very familiar with this thread and our ica way of handling WL...anyway you had mentioned the facts...

[SingViet]

Oops, i better learn to be gentle. After being in VN for some years, i have forgotten how to be gentle