Do you regret marrying?

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by 911s

Without kids its easier to start over again. I wish u the very best.

Thank you. I too hope I won't be caught in the same shit if i remarry.

[january29]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

Thank you. I too hope I won't be caught in the same shit if i remarry.

i am scared of thinking on re marry LOOOOL

play in GL better i think no commitment .. not hurting ourselves again

[january29]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Read this:

http://www.star2.com/family/relation...vorce-my-wife/

Similar situation as yours

my case is an affair .. i am a guy btw ... my wife had an affair and admit to me

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by january29

my case is an affair .. i am a guy btw ... my wife had an affair and admit to me

Either she stop her affair n go back to family again or she divorce you. She has to choose either one. Long term this will be bad for the children. Either a happy family again or a broken family. Let her choose.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by january29

my case is an affair .. i am a guy btw ... my wife had an affair and admit to me

My ex-wife had her affairs and came to me to demand me to divorce her. I didn't act because she said I'm not good enough so she needs to have affairs because I forced her to and that I must pay her as compensation. She initiated divorce only for the last time.

I was held at ransom for many years like this. I only started to party and come to SBF after I broke down one night when I contemplated suicide. I was sitting by the road at Bedok Tampines area in the wee hours crying and some guy saw me and talk sense to me when he saw me there. He introduced me to the world of debauchery through sammyboy.

[january29]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

My ex-wife had her affairs and came to me to demand me to divorce her. I didn't act because she said I'm not good enough so she needs to have affairs because I forced her to and that I must pay her as compensation. She initiated divorce only for the last time.

I was held at ransom for many years like this. I only started to party and come to SBF after I broke down one night when I contemplated suicide. I was sitting by the road at Bedok Tampines area in the wee hours crying and some guy saw me and talk sense to me when he saw me there. He introduced me to the world of debauchery through sammyboy.

my life is so much easier now ... i felt like i let go of a big responsibility, i dont care anymore if she has/will have another affair .. i can just do anything at all without feeling any guilt ...

i dont have much money / assets so its ok for me ... if she wants to go .. please do so ... i couldnt care less, i can take care of the boys ...

feels like single though is married

i have been in SBF long enough not doing a shit ... but now i am free LOL

though i wouldnt be looking for a wife anymore when we get divorced ... that shits bring nightmares .. the idea of marriage terrifies me now

[january29]

Originally Posted by jnudes

Either she stop her affair n go back to family again or she divorce you. She has to choose either one. Long term this will be bad for the children. Either a happy family again or a broken family. Let her choose.

she stop the affair(she told me - 3 months affairs without me noticing), she admit she is wrong .. but i couldnt care less anymore .. i just wait until my boys is a bit bigger (5 and 3 now)

i can do anything i want without feeling guilty / un-easy

trust is something that is really hard to built once its broken ...

legally married, personally free

[Ngengheng]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

My ex-wife had her affairs and came to me to demand me to divorce her. I didn't act because she said I'm not good enough so she needs to have affairs because I forced her to and that I must pay her as compensation. She initiated divorce only for the last time.

I was held at ransom for many years like this. I only started to party and come to SBF after I broke down one night when I contemplated suicide. I was sitting by the road at Bedok Tampines area in the wee hours crying and some guy saw me and talk sense to me when he saw me there. He introduced me to the world of debauchery through sammyboy.

Bro I really pity your plight....she is such a vicious woman . Take care n stay happy. Dont ever think of remarry again the cycle will repeats again trust me.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by january29

she stop the affair(she told me - 3 months affairs without me noticing), she admit she is wrong .. but i couldnt care less anymore .. i just wait until my boys is a bit bigger (5 and 3 now)

i can do anything i want without feeling guilty / un-easy

trust is something that is really hard to built once its broken ...

legally married, personally free

This is the age of social media. If she can cheat outside so can you. What I learn from your story is a marriage need some effort to have everlasting happiness, for example, trying to accommodate her needs. The thing about affair is it only last temporarily, if I am you will ask her what need to be implemented so that divorce will not happen for the sake of the children.

But based on your comment you are after 100% freedom. Sounds pretty cool. These days it is very hard not to cheat outside. Wife get older, see young pretty gal outside beh tahan oredi. Very hard to control. This I understand. Maybe this is the secret nature of most men.

[Siriusam]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

My ex-wife had her affairs and came to me to demand me to divorce her. I didn't act because she said I'm not good enough so she needs to have affairs because I forced her to and that I must pay her as compensation. She initiated divorce only for the last time.

I was held at ransom for many years like this. I only started to party and come to SBF after I broke down one night when I contemplated suicide. I was sitting by the road at Bedok Tampines area in the wee hours crying and some guy saw me and talk sense to me when he saw me there. He introduced me to the world of debauchery through sammyboy.

wow what a way to discover sbf..

[Ngengheng]

http://www.abc.net.au/radionational/...-money/8630412

[january29]

Originally Posted by jnudes

This is the age of social media. If she can cheat outside so can you. What I learn from your story is a marriage need some effort to have everlasting happiness, for example, trying to accommodate her needs. The thing about affair is it only last temporarily, if I am you will ask her what need to be implemented so that divorce will not happen for the sake of the children.

But based on your comment you are after 100% freedom. Sounds pretty cool. These days it is very hard not to cheat outside. Wife get older, see young pretty gal outside beh tahan oredi. Very hard to control. This I understand. Maybe this is the secret nature of most men.

i am not like that ... i feel one is enough and thats it .. i never cheated .. my 100% freedom is now starting ... some of the weight on my shoulder is gone

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by jnudes

This is the age of social media. If she can cheat outside so can you. What I learn from your story is a marriage need some effort to have everlasting happiness, for example, trying to accommodate her needs. The thing about affair is it only last temporarily, if I am you will ask her what need to be implemented so that divorce will not happen for the sake of the children.

But based on your comment you are after 100% freedom. Sounds pretty cool. These days it is very hard not to cheat outside. Wife get older, see young pretty gal outside beh tahan oredi. Very hard to control. This I understand. Maybe this is the secret nature of most men.

I can stay faithful if my woman is faithful

[january29]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

I can stay faithful if my woman is faithful

Same here ... been there done that ....

Buy get shits in return

[YELLOW]

confirm i regret ..... big time