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So you agree it is alright to covet another man's wife? She may be a flirt, slut or prostitute but once she's married.... she's exclusive property of her husband and off limits to others.
These horny bastards that go around seducing other people's wife should be bashed up and castrated.
takes two hand to clap, in this 3 hands, what so the wife who respond has no blame, or what about the husband who isnt satisfying the wife so she respond to external attention. Personally i would THANK the guy who flirt with my wife if i ever marry as this way she has her loyalty tested, i rather find out early if she not the faithful or the type need attention type, rather than ibest my time and effort and then find out later in life.
You're right. The wife can tell them to f off. But she didn't. Some of those guys probably don't even know she's married or has a kid.
So you agree it is alright to covet another man's wife? She may be a flirt, slut or prostitute but once she's married.... she's exclusive property of her husband and off limits to others.
Classic example, friend started his own company. Worked his ass off to provide the best for his wife.
Wife goes holiday with girlfriends... Etc and knew pilot and stewards and screwed with them.
Friend gotten evidence. Despite of evidences, wife still dare to ask for 10k plus of maintenance for herself as under women charter. After divorce men has to provide the same life style as before divorce.
Friend pissed to the core. But Lan Lan cause it's the law, Heng since wife at fault can discount. But still has to pay her and feed her for fucking around with other men until one of the idiots marry her..
Sad.
This post by itself should deter all men from ever getting married. Marriage with women these days is like giving her a loaded gun. You never know when she is gonna pull the trigger.
I mean, it is so glaringly one sided how marriage, divorce and woman's charter benefits woman only. I am in constant disbelief how so many more men are willing to take this risk, which offers virtually no benefits whatsoever.
A male divorcee would most likely have no emotional support, and yet has to suppress all emotions because he has to "man up". So apart from having half of what you have worked your ass off for taken away from you, your children will also (99%) be given custody to your ex wife, you will now have to pay alimony to someone who doesn't love you anymore and is most likely fucking someone right now, telling your children how you were "emotionally and mentally abusive".
Yeah, good luck on anyone who wishes to take this gamble.
This post by itself should deter all men from ever getting married. Marriage with women these days is like giving her a loaded gun. You never know when she is gonna pull the trigger.
I mean, it is so glaringly one sided how marriage, divorce and woman's charter benefits woman only. I am in constant disbelief how so many more men are willing to take this risk, which offers virtually no benefits whatsoever.
A male divorcee would most likely have no emotional support, and yet has to suppress all emotions because he has to "man up". So apart from having half of what you have worked your ass off for taken away from you, your children will also (99%) be given custody to your ex wife, you will now have to pay alimony to someone who doesn't love you anymore and is most likely fucking someone right now, telling your children how you were "emotionally and mentally abusive".
Yeah, good luck on anyone who wishes to take this gamble.
Very unfair ...... but it's the truth and the laws of your country.
Luckily I stay in Malaysia and under Islamic law which favors the men
This post by itself should deter all men from ever getting married. Marriage with women these days is like giving her a loaded gun. You never know when she is gonna pull the trigger.
I mean, it is so glaringly one sided how marriage, divorce and woman's charter benefits woman only. I am in constant disbelief how so many more men are willing to take this risk, which offers virtually no benefits whatsoever.
A male divorcee would most likely have no emotional support, and yet has to suppress all emotions because he has to "man up". So apart from having half of what you have worked your ass off for taken away from you, your children will also (99%) be given custody to your ex wife, you will now have to pay alimony to someone who doesn't love you anymore and is most likely fucking someone right now, telling your children how you were "emotionally and mentally abusive".
Yeah, good luck on anyone who wishes to take this gamble.
I concur with this.
As a divorcee, I am renting a place. My house has gone to the ex.
The children are taught to hate their dad.
That, and my ex-wife is now a 70+kg lump of fat.
Still, she's fucking around with guys who freeload off her. She uses my alimony to support them!
But, I'm better off than my friends who are still married.
One used to be an alpha male. Now changes diapers for his baby while his wife sleeps at night....
He works 2 jobs to provide for the family... The wife is a housewife, SMU graduate who chose not to work....
He comes back tired, she just ditches housework and babysitting duties to him...
"I've done the day shift, now you do the night shift"
Simi cibai?!
Another friend was in debt as his wife spent too much on going on holidays overseas. Then, wife asked him to buy a new BMW (which she drives) while he takes the bus / MRT ...
She's also a graduate (NUS) who chose to be a housewife....
I asked him if he wanted to buy a $150 Thinktank photo backpack, he told me his wife doesn't allow it.....
He skips lunch everyday to save money and now has gastric problems...
LKY was right la...
No point sending these girls to university, if all they become are useless fatass housewives...
Don't even have to mention, but both these wives are piling on the pounds from staying at home and watching Korean dramas...
I concur with this.
As a divorcee, I am renting a place. My house has gone to the ex.
The children are taught to hate their dad.
That, and my ex-wife is now a 70+kg lump of fat.
Still, she's fucking around with guys who freeload off her. She uses my alimony to support them!
But, I'm better off than my friends who are still married.
One used to be an alpha male. Now changes diapers for his baby while his wife sleeps at night....
He works 2 jobs to provide for the family... The wife is a housewife, SMU graduate who chose not to work....
He comes back tired, she just ditches housework and babysitting duties to him...
"I've done the day shift, now you do the night shift"
Simi cibai?!
Another friend was in debt as his wife spent too much on going on holidays overseas. Then, wife asked him to buy a new BMW (which she drives) while he takes the bus / MRT ...
She's also a graduate (NUS) who chose to be a housewife....
I asked him if he wanted to buy a $150 Thinktank photo backpack, he told me his wife doesn't allow it.....
He skips lunch everyday to save money and now has gastric problems...
LKY was right la...
No point sending these girls to university, if all they become are useless fatass housewives...
Don't even have to mention, but both these wives are piling on the pounds from staying at home and watching Korean dramas...
Stay clear from marriage is a commitment . WC pawn the man here .
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I concur with this.
As a divorcee, I am renting a place. My house has gone to the ex.
The children are taught to hate their dad.
That, and my ex-wife is now a 70+kg lump of fat.
Still, she's fucking around with guys who freeload off her. She uses my alimony to support them!
But, I'm better off than my friends who are still married.
One used to be an alpha male. Now changes diapers for his baby while his wife sleeps at night....
He works 2 jobs to provide for the family... The wife is a housewife, SMU graduate who chose not to work....
He comes back tired, she just ditches housework and babysitting duties to him...
"I've done the day shift, now you do the night shift"
Simi cibai?!
Another friend was in debt as his wife spent too much on going on holidays overseas. Then, wife asked him to buy a new BMW (which she drives) while he takes the bus / MRT ...
She's also a graduate (NUS) who chose to be a housewife....
I asked him if he wanted to buy a $150 Thinktank photo backpack, he told me his wife doesn't allow it.....
He skips lunch everyday to save money and now has gastric problems...
LKY was right la...
No point sending these girls to university, if all they become are useless fatass housewives...
Don't even have to mention, but both these wives are piling on the pounds from staying at home and watching Korean dramas...
Your 1st friend should just hire a maid.
So cheap to hire a maid in singapore.
And wife should just go work!
Slove all problems.
2nd friend cant even afford a $3 lunch at the Hawker?
That why bother to get married?
And tell him to fuck off his wife who do nothing at home!
This kind of wife is usless.
Most of the girls in SG watch too much Korean Drama.
All wanting to meet their dream guys and girls.
Please explain to them all under the knife lah!!
Your 1st friend should just hire a maid.
So cheap to hire a maid in singapore.
And wife should just go work!
Slove all problems.
2nd friend cant even afford a $3 lunch at the Hawker?
That why bother to get married?
And tell him to fuck off his wife who do nothing at home!
This kind of wife is usless.
Most of the girls in SG watch too much Korean Drama.
All wanting to meet their dream guys and girls.
Please explain to them all under the knife lah!!
Eh...
1st friend has a maid!
Wife still refuses to work...
Denies him sex too..
Not that she's that hot..
We used to go out with models together, but he said they would not make good wives...
So he went for this above average looking girl..
A cups tits. Slim
Now after 1 kid, got tummy, stretch marks. Can't even wear bikini anymore, must wear 1 piece at the pool and can see her tummy.
Worse of all, she has forced him to go for 6 overseas holidays in the past 13 months..
USA, Taiwan, London / Paris, Gold Coast, Korea, Hong Kong.
Excluding a 5 star damn ex hotel in Langkawi too!
It costs $$$ and he's taking too much time away from work!
He is a rich man's son, but the money is running out fast...
Your 1st friend should just hire a maid.
So cheap to hire a maid in singapore.
And wife should just go work!
Slove all problems.
2nd friend cant even afford a $3 lunch at the Hawker?
That why bother to get married?
And tell him to fuck off his wife who do nothing at home!
This kind of wife is usless.
Most of the girls in SG watch too much Korean Drama.
All wanting to meet their dream guys and girls.
Please explain to them all under the knife lah!!
2nd friend dreams of committing suicide.
I'm afraid one day he will.
I remember them telling me about some fucked up Korean drama, where the girl was unhappy with her boss, and the dream guy bought over the company and fired her boss!
And some cock where the dream guy brings the girl by private helicopter to a private island he owns....
Cibai shows man!
At least watch some porn with an 18 inch African cock! That one is more realistic!
I concur with this.
As a divorcee, I am renting a place. My house has gone to the ex.
The children are taught to hate their dad.
That, and my ex-wife is now a 70+kg lump of fat.
Still, she's fucking around with guys who freeload off her. She uses my alimony to support them!
But, I'm better off than my friends who are still married.
One used to be an alpha male. Now changes diapers for his baby while his wife sleeps at night....
He works 2 jobs to provide for the family... The wife is a housewife, SMU graduate who chose not to work....
He comes back tired, she just ditches housework and babysitting duties to him...
"I've done the day shift, now you do the night shift"
Simi cibai?!
Another friend was in debt as his wife spent too much on going on holidays overseas. Then, wife asked him to buy a new BMW (which she drives) while he takes the bus / MRT ...
She's also a graduate (NUS) who chose to be a housewife....
I asked him if he wanted to buy a $150 Thinktank photo backpack, he told me his wife doesn't allow it.....
He skips lunch everyday to save money and now has gastric problems...
LKY was right la...
No point sending these girls to university, if all they become are useless fatass housewives...
Don't even have to mention, but both these wives are piling on the pounds from staying at home and watching Korean dramas...
This is really sad. Unfortunately, guys everywhere around the world still believe in marriage.
It is easy to say that marriage will work out fine as long as you find the "RIGHT ONE". But the fact to the matter is you will only know whether she is the right one when you are on your death bed. So why risk it?
Marriage is only if you have some sick compulsion to give away half of your stuff, your emotional stability and your children.
At the end of the day, you can still have children, love, stability without bringing the law into your relationship.
As much as people refuse to admit, there has to be a balance of power involved in a relationship. Once that paper is signed, that balance is completely skewed towards the female.
eh...
1st friend has a maid!
Wife still refuses to work...
Denies him sex too..
Not that she's that hot..
We used to go out with models together, but he said they would not make good wives...
So he went for this above average looking girl..
A cups tits. Slim
now after 1 kid, got tummy, stretch marks. Can't even wear bikini anymore, must wear 1 piece at the pool and can see her tummy.
Worse of all, she has forced him to go for 6 overseas holidays in the past 13 months..
Usa, taiwan, london / paris, gold coast, korea, hong kong.
Excluding a 5 star damn ex hotel in langkawi too!
It costs $$$ and he's taking too much time away from work!
He is a rich man's son, but the money is running out fast...
This is really sad. Unfortunately, guys everywhere around the world still believe in marriage.
It is easy to say that marriage will work out fine as long as you find the "RIGHT ONE". But the fact to the matter is you will only know whether she is the right one when you are on your death bed. So why risk it?
Marriage is only if you have some sick compulsion to give away half of your stuff, your emotional stability and your children.
At the end of the day, you can still have children, love, stability without bringing the law into your relationship.
As much as people refuse to admit, there has to be a balance of power involved in a relationship. Once that paper is signed, that balance is completely skewed towards the female.
Is because of this word "loneliness" which cause many guys into misery la.
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