Fell for a Thai whore

[stillgottheblue]

You enjoyed the evening that is enough said. The new girl is putting out her line, waiting for bait liao, hahaha... Target spotted.

[Blast88]

[QUOTE=anthonyKKW;8657667]

Originally Posted by Blast88

If that's the symptom for being KCed then, shit, I have been KCed on Monday.

Monday, arrived BKK. Since my this Thai lady friend ditched me, I went to look for a FL whom I know her from my last month's trip. LINE messaged her. Her name is TP (quite a long Thai name actually). She works in a MP, occasionally, she says. 23years old, SYT. Quite shy type.

Paid 1900baht, Got into a 90mins session with her, but we spent most of the time chatting. It took me a long time to convince her to go out dinner with me. But mama-san says I have to pay to bring her out. So I paid 3000baht, that will buy her for the rest of the evening.

Had Korean BBQ dinner, it's her first time eating Korean BBQ. Had great time together. She has a sad story, not the most sad I have came across, but quite sad. She felt a bit sorry for me that I have pay 3000baht to mama-san and she has to go home soon because her papa has been calling her. Yes, she will get 1500 out of that and she appreciated. So, she offered to "take care of me, no need pay mama-san" the next day which she has decided not to work. We agreed to meet again the next day.

Summary for Monday: brought 6000baht out, left with 200baht back to hotel. Enjoyed the evening.

I think more like carrot than KC. Or is it the same?

Not only carrot, it sound like a potato which turn into a french fries & being eaten up bit by bit

[jnudes]

[QUOTE=anthonyKKW;8657667]

Originally Posted by Blast88

If that's the symptom for being KCed then, shit, I have been KCed on Monday.

Monday, arrived BKK. Since my this Thai lady friend ditched me, I went to look for a FL whom I know her from my last month's trip. LINE messaged her. Her name is TP (quite a long Thai name actually). She works in a MP, occasionally, she says. 23years old, SYT. Quite shy type.

Paid 1900baht, Got into a 90mins session with her, but we spent most of the time chatting. It took me a long time to convince her to go out dinner with me. But mama-san says I have to pay to bring her out. So I paid 3000baht, that will buy her for the rest of the evening.

Had Korean BBQ dinner, it's her first time eating Korean BBQ. Had great time together. She has a sad story, not the most sad I have came across, but quite sad. She felt a bit sorry for me that I have pay 3000baht to mama-san and she has to go home soon because her papa has been calling her. Yes, she will get 1500 out of that and she appreciated. So, she offered to "take care of me, no need pay mama-san" the next day which she has decided not to work. We agreed to meet again the next day.

Summary for Monday: brought 6000baht out, left with 200baht back to hotel. Enjoyed the evening.

I think more like carrot than KC. Or is it the same?

What language did you use to communicate with her? Thai? English? As far as I know my Thai sucks badly. Even if I can afford to book her overnight I think communication wise will have tough time with her. Need to learn some communication skills from you bro.

[anthonyKKW]

[QUOTE=jnudes;8657845]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

What language did you use to communicate with her? Thai? English? As far as I know my Thai sucks badly. Even if I can afford to book her overnight I think communication wise will have tough time with her. Need to learn some communication skills from you bro.

Bro, you are absolutely correct. Comms is a problem. I am zero at Thai and TP's English is really bad. We were patient with each other, speak slowly and use very simple words. Hand actions helps too. We sometimes use the help of Google translator as well. That's the reason we can only be friends and not close friends because we don't know the language, culture and background. (My previous Thai lady friend, Ning, thought me this, even though she can speak reasonable English)

[anthonyKKW]

[QUOTE=Blast88;8657744]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Not only carrot, it sound like a potato which turn into a french fries & being eaten up bit by bit

You are very funny.

[anthonyKKW]

Die, I just found out that Ning (the name of my Thai lady friend), really went back to hometown. Seems that I have wronged her...

[SushiJiro]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Die, I just found out that Ning (the name of my Thai lady friend), really went back to hometown. Seems that I have wronged her...

Even if she did not lie to you over this incident, i think the more important question you have to ask yourself is are you willing to continue this relationship with her and what kind of future you see for the both of you.

[prancku]

Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

Die, I just found out that Ning (the name of my Thai lady friend), really went back to hometown. Seems that I have wronged her...

Seems to me you are rather emotionally tied to her already. Your comment points to you feeling guilty for a perceived wrong committed by you.

As an outsider, we do not know fully your situation and relationship with this WL, but many advices have already been given to you - just fuck and forget. Main reason - your girlfriend who gave you your best girl friend feeling is a WL. She is used to the kind of lifestyle and easy money and it would be extremely difficult for her to break this method and way of earning a living. Besides, due to language problem, you do not really know her very well, nor understand her culture, her thinking and attitude towards life. What you have gone through was just girl friend feeling without the actual foundations for a full relationship. In other words, merely surface contact and communication. For all you know, you are just one of the fishes hooked on her rather long fishing rod. The times what she was not with you, unavailable or especially back home, her time was taken up by other fishes, inclusive of possibly husband or thai bfs.

You said yourself you have deleted her number from your handphone and determined to end the relationship. Yet now, apparently you are in touch with her and knows that she has gone back home. You are confused and yet to give up this so called 'relationship'.

Just to let you know, one of the wiles of a kc trap is to ignore or cold shoulder you for some time and then come back again. This is foxy manipulation, man. If you fall into this, you will find it difficult to pull yourself out again. My advice for you is that spend some time and do some searches on this forum on brothers who have been kced and snookered by WL, FLs, whores and learn your lessons. You will be shocked by their stories.

Once you fall into a kc trap, the end result will be that you will suffer not only financial loss but family storms, emotional upheavals and possibily even the breakup of your family. When you next wake up and realise it, it may be just too late and the damages are done.

Do what you want and what ought to be right for you as a thinking adult.

Thanks for reading my rather long post and possibly unwelcome advice. Good luck to you. Sawadee carp.

[stillgottheblue]

You're already married with two kids while the Thai girl is single. You're being selfish and will end up hurting both parties and your kids. Your kids will grow up hating you for leaving Mom for another younger slut.

You visited her in BBK because you're feeling lonely and need company.

A man must know how to go home after having fun at night. Don't loose you soul in the neon lights and sensuous music of Bangkok.

[ahpui99]

A few of my friends kenna. I had a few close calls myself. Go and get other WLs if u must. Get it out if your system and go home everyday

[pollux69]

Been reading this thread ever since it was started and have no intend to pen in but TS is getting too much. All he wants is attention from us and his free bonks.
I have been cheonging for more than 15 years, Thai, Viet, Korean, Japs, Russian, Indon and even Uzbekistans. For bros that remember, Uzbeks use to hang out at Jl Besar, Kitchener rd area, cant see any of them now. I even fly down to Tashkent to meet this girl Natasia whom i met first time at Classique Hotel here, we became very close, even get many free bonks from her. So till now stay single.
What im tryin to say is that many of us kena KCed before, but we know where we stand. This kind of guy just come and go in SBF.
Double confirmed another guy with the same scenario will come in again.
This TS just dont care of the many advices given here,he dont care about his wife well-being, he dont care about his childrens future, he dont care about that Thai Wl too, all he cares is that he get his free bonks by going out makan & entertainment.
She already knows that she is not getting money from him nor she will get any future with this guy, so she decided to move on, but this guy still want to cling to her.
Just like another bro told him to wake up, but until now still whining.
Told us lies that he deleted her number but still knows that she balik kampung.
What is he trying to get out of all this? The answer is simple- attention from us and free bonks from her.
Married with 2 childs yet so childish & naive. I can guarantee with all you guys that even if you give him 1001 advices, he will still do the same thing because he thinks with his small head. He will show you like he care but in fact he DONT CARE. Family is the most important of all above any WLs.

[flowbow]

Originally Posted by pollux69

Been reading this thread ever since it was started and have no intend to pen in but TS is getting too much. All he wants is attention from us and his free bonks.
I have been cheonging for more than 15 years, Thai, Viet, Korean, Japs, Russian, Indon and even Uzbekistans. For bros that remember, Uzbeks use to hang out at Jl Besar, Kitchener rd area, cant see any of them now. I even fly down to Tashkent to meet this girl Natasia whom i met first time at Classique Hotel here, we became very close, even get many free bonks from her. So till now stay single.
What im tryin to say is that many of us kena KCed before, but we know where we stand. This kind of guy just come and go in SBF.
Double confirmed another guy with the same scenario will come in again.
This TS just dont care of the many advices given here,he dont care about his wife well-being, he dont care about his childrens future, he dont care about that Thai Wl too, all he cares is that he get his free bonks by going out makan & entertainment.
She already knows that she is not getting money from him nor she will get any future with this guy, so she decided to move on, but this guy still want to cling to her.
Just like another bro told him to wake up, but until now still whining.
Told us lies that he deleted her number but still knows that she balik kampung.
What is he trying to get out of all this? The answer is simple- attention from us and free bonks from her.
Married with 2 childs yet so childish & naive. I can guarantee with all you guys that even if you give him 1001 advices, he will still do the same thing because he thinks with his small head. He will show you like he care but in fact he DONT CARE. Family is the most important of all above any WLs.

I believe it's not that he doesn't care about his family la. I believe he started this thread with an intention to seek advice since he thinks he kenna kc gao gao already, but unable to heed all advice because he let the emotions get the better of him. Then you might say: if he can't heed the advice, then ask for what?

Sometimes there are many things we want to do, but when our mind struggles with our heart over what is the most right/rational action to take, most of the time our heart wins... Unless you're a very strong-willed person. I know I'm not, so I can fully understand what TS is going through.

Btw, I'm not siding him or anything like that, I too agree that he should not be in this situation right now since he's already married with kids, and I completely am against him being in contact with this Thai WL. I'm just saying I can empathise with his situation; that's the reason why it's called kc and why some people can remain kc for years. Still, at the end of the day it all boils down to how determined one is. If you're determined to break out of the kc trap, you will be able to regardless of anything.

[hOsEhKiA]

fuck this TS case closed. let him burn to death ba guys

[fictionman]

Originally Posted by hOsEhKiA

fuck this TS case closed. let him burn to death ba guys

TS just wat to prolong this thread...Im outta here...

[anthonyKKW]

Originally Posted by prancku

Seems to me you are rather emotionally tied to her already. Your comment points to you feeling guilty for a perceived wrong committed by you.

As an outsider, we do not know fully your situation and relationship with this WL, but many advices have already been given to you - just fuck and forget. Main reason - your girlfriend who gave you your best girl friend feeling is a WL. She is used to the kind of lifestyle and easy money and it would be extremely difficult for her to break this method and way of earning a living. Besides, due to language problem, you do not really know her very well, nor understand her culture, her thinking and attitude towards life. What you have gone through was just girl friend feeling without the actual foundations for a full relationship. In other words, merely surface contact and communication. For all you know, you are just one of the fishes hooked on her rather long fishing rod. The times what she was not with you, unavailable or especially back home, her time was taken up by other fishes, inclusive of possibly husband or thai bfs.

You said yourself you have deleted her number from your handphone and determined to end the relationship. Yet now, apparently you are in touch with her and knows that she has gone back home. You are confused and yet to give up this so called 'relationship'.

Just to let you know, one of the wiles of a kc trap is to ignore or cold shoulder you for some time and then come back again. This is foxy manipulation, man. If you fall into this, you will find it difficult to pull yourself out again. My advice for you is that spend some time and do some searches on this forum on brothers who have been kced and snookered by WL, FLs, whores and learn your lessons. You will be shocked by their stories.

Once you fall into a kc trap, the end result will be that you will suffer not only financial loss but family storms, emotional upheavals and possibily even the breakup of your family. When you next wake up and realise it, it may be just too late and the damages are done.

Do what you want and what ought to be right for you as a thinking adult.

Thanks for reading my rather long post and possibly unwelcome advice. Good luck to you. Sawadee carp.

Chinese saying: good advice is often painful for the ears. Thanks, bro, although its painful good advice.