Fell for a Thai whore - Page 8

anthonyKKW · #**106** 14-03-2013, 05:43 PM

Appreciated all your comments, sharing and encouragement.

I just thought of being truthful over my "messed up feelings" and having someone to talk to this matter (confidentially).

Sorry that I have pissed off some bros.

Let me figure out how to close this thread.

timeonmyhands · #**107** 14-03-2013, 06:06 PM

Not the first time a client has become emotional with the service provider. Is this how you think of her? If this is no longer the case, perhaps that is where your conflict is ... that her current status has not changed and you no longer feel like a client but something more.

Anyway, "catch and release" you could still be theone that makes the choice, power to you. "Catch and bring home"... gets complicated.

Choices, such a beautiful thing. When you go against your better judgement, thats when internal conflicts start!

adonis · #**108** 14-03-2013, 07:19 PM

What does a seasoned smart Cassanova do when his Thai tirak or any other nationality whore turned girlfren asks for pocket money? Thanks.

anthonyKKW · #**109** 14-03-2013, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by adonis

What does a seasoned smart Cassanova do when his Thai tirak or any other nationality whore turned girlfren asks for pocket money? Thanks.

Ning has been ”bao”ed once before by a American who works in Singapore and visits BKK once every month. She was bao-ed for close to 6 months before they broke up. She received pocket money every month. Easy money. That's when she started gambling and lost all her money. She realized that easy money means easy go. She no longer wants to be bao-ed want to depend on herself.

Unfortunately she has no skills, no education. Her circle of friends are all WLs and even her sister in BKK is also WL. She has been thinking of how to get out of the WL service provider business and maintain a reasonable lifestyle.

In short, we had spoke about the topic of pocket money, but no, she wouldn't want pocket money from me.

anthonyKKW · #**110** 14-03-2013, 09:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by timeonmyhands

Not the first time a client has become emotional with the service provider. Is this how you think of her? If this is no longer the case, perhaps that is where your conflict is ... that her current status has not changed and you no longer feel like a client but something more.

Anyway, "catch and release" you could still be theone that makes the choice, power to you. "Catch and bring home"... gets complicated.

Choices, such a beautiful thing. When you go against your better judgement, thats when internal conflicts start!

You hit the nail, bro. Yes, it's a struggle for me. Is it a client relationship or is it a friend relationship? Sometimes I feel it's both.

ahpui99 · #**111** 14-03-2013, 10:18 PM

Ouch

All of us have either kenna, closed to kenna or had a friend who kenna.

It is scewed up but WL is WL

timeonmyhands · #**112** 15-03-2013, 06:15 AM

We all have compassion and if valued and appreciated in light of being a blessing and grace, the universe will bless all kind souls and the world gets a little better with each act of kindness. Lady probably pressed the right buttons with you and she hit jackpot when you respond with generosity. But seriously, how many strays do you want to bring home?

Many of us here rate the service provider with a GFE factor. The pros will distance themselves when they see that the client sees this a real. Some will take the extra step to milk. I am not saying this lady is any of the above but pause and if any rescuing is needed, its to extract yourself to what is real and what is a possibility. Yes, marry her, have kids and learn more than sawasdee. That is possibility, a fantasy that you perhaps can make real. But is she the real beneficiary of your action or just a fulfilemt of yoir urge that will probably fade.

No offense but you can do better with your life sir.

Metzloff · #**113** 15-03-2013, 07:08 AM

Dear TS

You've had good times with your massage girl-treat it as a nice interlude in your life but you have to get back to your REAL life with your wife and kids.You might want to check out the Stickman site-plenty of stories there about guys ( mainly Ang Mo) losing their way in BKK and abandoning their wives, kids and jobs. Most don't turn out very well.

stillgottheblue · #**114** 15-03-2013, 07:09 AM

WL + Gambler = Epic Fail.

What else to say? Maths can solved many difficult issues in life.

adonis · #**115** 15-03-2013, 12:17 PM

anthonyKKW it sounds like love if she doesn't want pocket money from u.

wells · #**116** 15-03-2013, 12:26 PM

Do you have load of cash to feed her or put it nicely "invest"?

If you cannot she will go back to her trade...becoz that trade is easy money.

trust the experiences of the few bros advice given to you.

adonis · #**117** 15-03-2013, 01:26 PM

Amendment: Maybe she has other sources of income...

anthonyKKW · #**118** 15-03-2013, 03:33 PM

The advice from all good bros out here points towards a common principle: Do not cross the line when it starts to impact the family.

The advice is well received.

My conclusion is that I should only desire that Ning be my friend and BKK companion, and it stops there.

carmeo88 · #**119** 16-03-2013, 11:44 AM

Many bros here have given you their say here already, just walk straight and don't look back. That's life.

prancku · #**120** 16-03-2013, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by anthonyKKW

My conclusion is that I should only desire that Ning be my friend and BKK companion, and it stops there.

Looks like you still want your cake and eat it. So be it.

Sometimes the line between the family and your private actions are not so clear, even if you try to keep them separate.

For example, if you ever do it RAW, you are exposing yourself to diseases that she is exposed to, not forgetting that she is WL and she does with ang mos too. This trip no problem, no guarantee between this trip and next trip, she might pick up something for free for you!!!

Even if you do not do it RAW, you can never be sure your other actions in the bedroom with her are absolutely safe .... a cut in the lips, a sore in the mouth, a lick in the cxxx or combinations of these ...are all potential sources of infection. Such infections can be brought back to the family, including of children...

The above is written, not to frighten you, but just stating the obvious.

As much as you want to neatly segregate your life, but often times things just don't work out the way we wanted or planned.

Again, you do what you want, just be prepared to pay the price when the cards are on the table.

Enough said. Cheers.