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Guys,my gf ask me to go her house and meet her family for my this upcoming thai trip!Do u think i should go?Her mum even ask me what i want to eat and will cook for me and they even prepared a room for me to sleep for 1 nite(cos its farout from my hotel and late by then).But my gf says she cant sleep with me together in her house,they're suppose to be traditional?
Heard from a few friends of mine that this means the gal deem me as a prospect for her future husband!I do love her alot really,but i'm scared things might not turn out as sweet in the end cos i had abit phobia of thai gals,but i do really love my gf alot,so i said yes of cos.
Bros,what do u think of this?Pls no sacarstic comments pls,thank you.
Bros,what do u think of this?Pls no sacarstic comments pls,thank you.
If u know her long, u should know whether she is the right ger, then no harm going. As visiting parents do not mean marriage. If u r not preparing to settle down with her, just give excuses.
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the lessson learned braddah is to stay away from dark-skinned women from the third world countries. i feel for you braddah, but it could have been worse. these women got nothing to lose and play you for a game. doesnt it define logic for a SG man to pair up with a thai girl from backwoods thailand?
So your fair skin mei mei from some backwater Chinese village is in what ways different from a dark skinned lady from "backwoods thailand"? BTW I was wondering if u manage to contact your mei mei after you topped up her SIM card?
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Originally Posted by Triple-X
Guys,my gf ask me to go her house and meet her family for my this upcoming thai trip!Do u think i should go?Her mum even ask me what i want to eat and will cook for me and they even prepared a room for me to sleep for 1 nite(cos its farout from my hotel and late by then).But my gf says she cant sleep with me together in her house,they're suppose to be traditional?
Heard from a few friends of mine that this means the gal deem me as a prospect for her future husband!I do love her alot really,but i'm scared things might not turn out as sweet in the end cos i had abit phobia of thai gals,but i do really love my gf alot,so i said yes of cos.
Bros,what do u think of this?Pls no sacarstic comments pls,thank you.
Relax, go with an open mind and enjoy the quite rustic charms of the countryside (she stays "upcountry" right?). I stayed in my tilak's place for a few days and it was quite relaxing to get away from the city noise & pollution.
I'm presume that your thai GF is not working in the sex industry? If thats the case unless married then its correct that you both sleep apart, at least in her parent's house, out of respect. Yes, despite what we all read in SBF the rural Thais (surprise! surprise!) are still quite traditional. Though IMHO I think their society is rather contradicting and down right hypocritical in certain aspects.
If u really love her as you said then what little phobia u have of her? Afraid that her family put a magic spell on you?
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If u really love her as you said then what little phobia u have of her? Afraid that her family put a magic spell on you?
Yeah. The rice they give you will have gong-tao!
After eating it and never marry their daughter, your kukujiao will start to rot and fester with worms. Finally, it will drop off with your lampaji.
Then, every night, your girl will appear in your room like Nang Nak and fuck herself with your rotten kukujiao like a dildo.
Joking nia lar! Go for it, bro Triple-X! Enjoy Thai hospitality! It's legendary! Kup kup!
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Thanks to all the kind bros for the feedbacks and comments.I've decided to visit her family.I'm thinking of getting a bottle of jack daniel for her father.But as for her mother,any suggestions on what to give?My friends recommend me to buy either ba-kwa??? or chicken esence or birdnest.Any other suggestions bros?I dont want to give the impression to them i rich(quite poor infact,still owe credit card thousands of $s!!).I just want to thank them for the hospitality for my 1st visit.Even before they hadnt met me,they alrdy ask my gf wat i want eat,scared spicy anot and blah blah blah.Makes me feel abit shy and embarassed if i go empty-handed.
Thanks to all the kind bros for the feedbacks and comments.I've decided to visit her family.I'm thinking of getting a bottle of jack daniel for her father.But as for her mother,any suggestions on what to give?My friends recommend me to buy either ba-kwa??? or chicken esence or birdnest.Any other suggestions bros?I dont want to give the impression to them i rich(quite poor infact,still owe credit card thousands of $s!!).I just want to thank them for the hospitality for my 1st visit.Even before they hadnt met me,they alrdy ask my gf wat i want eat,scared spicy anot and blah blah blah.Makes me feel abit shy and embarassed if i go empty-handed.
oh my oh my oh my.....i feel a sense of deja vu.........wat ur describing is exactly the same situation im in exactly a yr ago........i m not discouraging u...buut how long had u know her?
family simi pattern treat u how nice oso no use....just hospitality.....once something goes wrong....nothing matters....REMEMBER....A TYPICAL THAI FAMILY ONLY CARES ABT $$$$$....OTHER THINGS THEY DUN GIVE A SHIT....dun believe ask the long time chiongster here....
Guys,my gf ask me to go her house and meet her family for my this upcoming thai trip!Do u think i should go?Her mum even ask me what i want to eat and will cook for me and they even prepared a room for me to sleep for 1 nite(cos its farout from my hotel and late by then).But my gf says she cant sleep with me together in her house,they're suppose to be traditional?
Heard from a few friends of mine that this means the gal deem me as a prospect for her future husband!I do love her alot really,but i'm scared things might not turn out as sweet in the end cos i had abit phobia of thai gals,but i do really love my gf alot,so i said yes of cos.
Bros,what do u think of this?Pls no sacarstic comments pls,thank you.
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Originally Posted by Triple-X
Thanks to all the kind bros for the feedbacks and comments.I've decided to visit her family.I'm thinking of getting a bottle of jack daniel for her father.But as for her mother,any suggestions on what to give?My friends recommend me to buy either ba-kwa???
bro , "go visit parents and stay in house" is damn serious step already do you know what kind of signal you sending ? this is not a "holiday trip"
you bring present also sending signal that you are serious . you need to think carefully if you really want to marry her in the end, or if you are going kenna same problem as :
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oh my oh my oh my.....i feel a sense of deja vu.........wat ur describing is exactly the same situation im in exactly a yr ago........i m not discouraging u...buut how long had u know her?
family simi pattern treat u how nice oso no use....just hospitality.....
only you can decide for yourself if your "radar" better than bro AhKel's
After eating it and never marry their daughter, your kukujiao will start to rot and fester with worms. Finally, it will drop off with your lampaji.
Then, every night, your girl will appear in your room like Nang Nak and fuck herself with your rotten kukujiao like a dildo.
Bro r u reading some new movie script ? dont scare him lai
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bro , "go visit parents and stay in house" is damn serious step already do you know what kind of signal you sending ? this is not a "holiday trip
That means more like visiting the future "parent-in-law" , but I think bring something doesnot mean anything or enhance anything here, and it is better than empty-handed.
oh my oh my oh my.....i feel a sense of deja vu.........wat ur describing is exactly the same situation im in exactly a yr ago........i m not discouraging u...buut how long had u know her?
family simi pattern treat u how nice oso no use....just hospitality.....once something goes wrong....nothing matters....REMEMBER....A TYPICAL THAI FAMILY ONLY CARES ABT $$$$$....OTHER THINGS THEY DUN GIVE A SHIT....dun believe ask the long time chiongster here....
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Originally Posted by Triple-X
Thanks to all the kind bros for the feedbacks and comments.I've decided to visit her family.I'm thinking of getting a bottle of jack daniel for her father.Makes me feel abit shy and embarassed if i go empty-handed.
Bro Triple X... a one liter of Johnny Black for her father should be enough. The rest of the family don't have to buy them anything. You are meeting the parents, yes, but not to SERIOUSLY consider marriage. Or are you? You don't want to also spoil the family too soon. Most prob if u stay a few days 1 or 2 nights you either go out eat at local restaurant with the family or if u r unlucky 1/2 the kampong and you are expected to treat. If not your GF will ask you for some money so that mom can go marketing to prepare the feast. The thing is "face" here. Daughter goes to big city to work and comes back with an overseas (read "assumed rich") BF so family can show off a bit. Go to the poorer northeast and the big, new houses in the kampong are usually paid for by farang BFs. There is even a song about wanting to get a farang BF coz he can pay for things.
TS's post is not bullshit also. Thats usually the case especially so if your GF is a sex worker. So tread lightly, don't commit anything and treat it as a rural vacation, nothing more.
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Bro Triple X... a one liter of Johnny Black for her father should be enough. The rest of the family don't have to buy them anything. You are meeting the parents, yes, but not to SERIOUSLY consider marriage. Or are you? You don't want to also spoil the family too soon. Most prob if u stay a few days 1 or 2 nights you either go out eat at local restaurant with the family or if u r unlucky 1/2 the kampong and you are expected to treat. If not your GF will ask you for some money so that mom can go marketing to prepare the feast. The thing is "face" here. Daughter goes to big city to work and comes back with an overseas (read "assumed rich") BF so family can show off a bit. Go to the poorer northeast and the big, new houses in the kampong are usually paid for by farang BFs. There is even a song about wanting to get a farang BF coz he can pay for things.
TS's post is not bullshit also. Thats usually the case especially so if your GF is a sex worker. So tread lightly, don't commit anything and treat it as a rural vacation, nothing more.
Thanks bro for the advise.My gf resides in a small town,not kampung as she said.Her mum will be cooking dinner for us.Actually its not considered her real mum as her actual mum died when she was young,and she was raised by her aunties,thus she is very close to them.However like what u said,i should treat this as a summer vacation 1st.Anything beyond that,i'll seriously consider 1st.And by the way,my gf is a ex-FL.
03-12-2009, 08:53 AM
Re: my tragic story with a thai FL
