Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 947

shysaint · #**14191** 04-06-2012, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

my viet bff lives in seascape.. always like to pay her a visit.. damn posh.. whole night party also can, hehe

sorry sorry ... A bit complicatied and confused

" My Viet 'bff' " then became " pay 'her' a visit"

Paingz

vietboy · #**14192** 04-06-2012, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

If u have read through most of our posting,u will notice that after marrying a vietnamese,some of the usual things will pop up like vietnamese girl stubborness,their financial problem,family 'baggage and etc.

Like what u say,if is due to matters of the heart,u tend to let your heart take over then i believe if she is really setting up a viet KC trap then u will surely fall into it as they are totally different compare to sg girl when treating sg guy.

I am not saying all is no good cos we bro here up to now,still have a very good wife beside us.Through thick or thin,they still here so is really how u see this 'game'

If it was a real KC trap, he will kenna heart attack if he got to know of it.

Honey Boon · #**14193** 04-06-2012, 01:50 PM

haha, quite common nowadays

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Originally Posted by shysaint

sorry sorry ... A bit complicatied and confused

" My Viet 'bff' " then became " pay 'her' a visit"

Paingz

vietboy · #**14194** 04-06-2012, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hope you understood that marrying her means marrying the entire family...in Vietnam, female brings money home...

I spoke to my gf in hcm about your case...she told me that you need learn Viet culture and also learn from her....ask her what she needs now and future...set the expectation right...get her family involved too...so no surprises in future...

agreed with yur gf. Marrying a foreigner be it a Viet, a Thai or any other nationality, we have to learn their culture. From their culture, we can better understand why they do certain thing and why they think n behave in a certain way. Also like bro shysaint mentioned a couple of times, marriage involved communication, no communication how to understand each other better?

KangTuo · #**14195** 04-06-2012, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Vietnamese couple tend to "pak tor" for a few months, then get married. So it normal for his gf to pop the question after 6 mths.

mine is 6 years.... on 4th year, bx pop the Q till this year then i tie the knot

vietboy · #**14196** 04-06-2012, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

sorry sorry ... A bit complicatied and confused

" My Viet 'bff' " then became " pay 'her' a visit"

Paingz

Bff is best friends forever. Its a young girl's thingie. But she not that young leh i remembered.

shysaint · #**14197** 04-06-2012, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Bff is best friends forever. Its a young girl's thingie. But she not that young leh i remembered.

so is BI lah ... jio me leh

Hurricane88 · #**14198** 04-06-2012, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

agreed with yur gf. Marrying a foreigner be it a Viet, a Thai or any other nationality, we have to learn their culture. From their culture, we can better understand why they do certain thing and why they think n behave in a certain way. Also like bro shysaint mentioned a couple of times, marriage involved communication, no communication how to understand each other better?

xin cam on...that 's why i always preach marriage is a long haul...if you dun understand each other then how to last long...think 2 yrs enough to tell how the relationship will last...all the patterns or problems will surface by then...never take the plunge if not ready...

Honey Boon · #**14199** 04-06-2012, 03:49 PM

that's a long wait for vnam standard ....

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

mine is 6 years.... on 4th year, bx pop the Q till this year then i tie the knot

Kim91 · #**14200** 04-06-2012, 06:10 PM

Hi i agreed with Bro H88, time is always on man side. Take your time to understand each other. It be good for both. If relationship can perserver thru time n distance, its battle won. Time will let both go thru alot of difficulties n you will realise if you two can make it.

My 2cham thots

vietboy · #**14201** 04-06-2012, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

so is BI lah ... jio me leh

Wat BI??

Jio u go where do wat?

jf66312 · #**14202** 05-06-2012, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Wat BI??

Jio u go where do wat?

you want to join him?

vietboy · #**14203** 05-06-2012, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

xin cam on...that 's why i always preach marriage is a long haul...if you dun understand each other then how to last long...think 2 yrs enough to tell how the relationship will last...all the patterns or problems will surface by then...never take the plunge if not ready...

Dung noi cam on anh oi. Just voicing my agreement.

If 2yr not enough, need to take more time then take more time. Knowing n understanding a person 不是一朝一夕的事. Moreover tge other party is from another country another culture.

vietboy · #**14204** 05-06-2012, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

mine is 6 years.... on 4th year, bx pop the Q till this year then i tie the knot

Yur bx different, cos she u inside out.

In a way, u also give each other time to know the each other better.

vietboy · #**14205** 05-06-2012, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Kim91

Hi i agreed with Bro H88, time is always on man side. Take your time to understand each other. It be good for both. If relationship can perserver thru time n distance, its battle won. Time will let both go thru alot of difficulties n you will realise if you two can make it.

My 2cham thots

Wa, yur thoughts very expensive leh.