is herpes a deal breaker for you?

[BerryAirlearn]

i know there's already a sticky on herpes. Recently met some chick i really like, but she has herpes. i am clean. Before any bros go into "does the girl even like you back" etc etc, ans is yes but that's not the point of this discussion. Just assume that the only issue on the table is herpes.

Is herpes a deal breaker? Anyone in this situation before?

[antfox]

Statically, you will bound to get it in your lifetime either from her or from some random encounter. For all you know, maybe you have it too just asymptomatic.

[Ecuader]

Originally Posted by BerryAirlearn

i know there's already a sticky on herpes. Recently met some chick i really like, but she has herpes. i am clean. Before any bros go into "does the girl even like you back" etc etc, ans is yes but that's not the point of this discussion. Just assume that the only issue on the table is herpes.

Is herpes a deal breaker? Anyone in this situation before?

Dump her. Unless u wanna stock up on acyclovir.

[ai1ai2ai3]

For me, depends on the type of herpes. If it's life threatening I think I'll bail out. Unless I'm crazy in love for this girl and willing to take the risk and acyclovir ya.

[Laianh]

Originally Posted by Ecuader

Dump her. Unless u wanna stock up on acyclovir.

Nahhh, I'll quit bro. Haha

[BerryAirlearn]

Originally Posted by antfox

Statically, you will bound to get it in your lifetime either from her or from some random encounter. For all you know, maybe you have it too just asymptomatic.

I checked every few months and all clean. but yes, long run there is a statistical likelihood of getting from random or commercial sex or elsewhere, even non-sexual transmission.

Originally Posted by ai1ai2ai3

For me, depends on the type of herpes. If it's life threatening I think I'll bail out. Unless I'm crazy in love for this girl and willing to take the risk and acyclovir ya.

this is the current dilemma....

[aaazzz]

Her outbreaks is the cold scores on the lips?

[BerryAirlearn]

Originally Posted by aaazzz

Her outbreaks is the cold scores on the lips?

so far i have not seen her with outbreaks

[aaazzz]

Originally Posted by BerryAirlearn

so far i have not seen her with outbreaks

oh just wondering if the outbreaks are often.... any other symptoms from her too?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by BerryAirlearn

i know there's already a sticky on herpes. Recently met some chick i really like, but she has herpes. i am clean. Before any bros go into "does the girl even like you back" etc etc, ans is yes but that's not the point of this discussion. Just assume that the only issue on the table is herpes.

Is herpes a deal breaker? Anyone in this situation before?

Most people have herpes so it's pretty much unavoidable.

However there's a high chance you'll never experience any symptoms so I wouldn't bother too much if I were you.

[gralo]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Most people have herpes so it's pretty much unavoidable.

However there's a high chance you'll never experience any symptoms so I wouldn't bother too much if I were you.

usually the herpes will re-appear if the immune system is low. always try to boost your immune system, that's the key.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by gralo

usually the herpes will re-appear if the immune system is low. always try to boost your immune system, that's the key.

The data shows that about 80% of those who are infected with the Herpes virus never have any symptoms.

[titts82002]

If the person is worth in your life, go for it.
We are outsiders, we won’t know how this would end..

Finally you have to make a decision.
I think reversely from what I have seen and know,
Girls or ladies , most of them if they really fond or love the person, they have lesser huddle to clear to stay with whom they want.
Not a good answer, just personal experiences and observations.

[Bbtt332023]

Originally Posted by BerryAirlearn

so far i have not seen her with outbreaks

So how does she know? Where are her outbreaks? And what kind of herpes?

Herpes can be caused by two different types of herpes viruses, and then there's herpes zoster, caused by another common virus.

[kingfisher1987]

definetely a deal breaker for me. not the risk I would like to take.