What would your reaction be???

Criminalz · #1 14-09-2006, 02:18 AM

Guys, let say someone is trying to chase after your gf, even if your gf told him she got bf but he still persist.....

What would you do?

Lets make it more interesting...lets say your gf din really reject him and dun really tell you whenever he talks to her and ask her out..

Reactions?

Decadence · #2 14-09-2006, 02:42 AM

not happy? can't do anything about it? find more girls to bed to get even.

MMM88 · #3 14-09-2006, 02:44 AM

BONK her until shiok shiok then Find another GF lor....if she neber reject him..

Tis reminded me of an incident my CO encountered .....three weeks ago , she was shopping in Orchard ... she was followed by a man in his early 20's ...after about 20 minutes , he mustered couraged to approach my CO in Aussino......she told him that she is married, but he insisted that it is alright and proceeded to invite her for a movie or KTV.....my CO got angry and called me .....at that moment , he wrote down his hp number , passed it to my CO , and walk away.......
so, if ur gf neber reject another man's advance , she is probably not serious or not yet ready for commitment

Eric22 · #4 14-09-2006, 02:56 AM

Well... Actually there is no right or wrong no matter what we answer.

Just take it as a test between the 2 of u. If she don't sway no matter how good he is; good looking, got $$$, etc etc. Then u know she's the one for u. If she does, then too bad. But the earth will still rotate with or without her.

I know it's easier said than done but that's the way the world is.

My humble thoughts.

Criminalz · #5 14-09-2006, 02:56 AM

no..not my gf lah...

and...not the other party too...just came back from drinking session with frd..hear his sad story loh..so come hear to seek opinions...

I just told him to talk to his girl and let her know how he feel....in the mean time, better start searching for the next one..

sg_boytoy · #6 14-09-2006, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Criminalz

Guys, let say someone is trying to chase after your gf, even if your gf told him she got bf but he still persist.....

What would you do?

Lets make it more interesting...lets say your gf din really reject him and dun really tell you whenever he talks to her and ask her out..

Reactions?

If someone is courting my GF, first of all, I make sure my CO doesn't know

Eric22 · #7 14-09-2006, 03:29 AM

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Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

If someone is courting my GF, first of all, I make sure my CO doesn't know

Hahaha... Nice one there.

_AXL_ · #8 14-09-2006, 03:56 AM

women with their double standards.

i would ask my CO if she wants to be subjected to the same kind of treatment. telling me about it doesnt make it ok for her to be abstract and lead the other guy on. if she doesnt want to make him give up outright and as blunt as possible, then i would go out and do the same thing to her just to make sure she knows exactly how it feels.

used this "put yourself in my shoes" tactic recently and it worked. CO was going out quite often with these 2 female frens who are both kept mistresses. she also made the mistake of telling me that both of them have been encouraging her to be a kept mistress with this guy who was introduced to her by the both of them. i flew into a rage but couldnt get the point across that they were bad friends. when i cooled down, told her that when we get married, i would go all out to get myself a mistress. told her she had no right to say anything bad about her as she is just like her mistress frens. now standing on the other side of the river made her see my point and voila, she would pass me her hp nowadays whenever they call so that i can fuck them off properly.

i guess my lesson here is that i need to be calm and collected when executing this and not make it look like i'm a petty person, else it would have a double whammy effect of making the other party look better than before.

by the way, why is it that some guys need to do that, going after attached/married women? happened to my bro's wife with her colleague recently and we (the 3 brothers, 2 mid 30s n 1 late 20s) had to go down to his office to offer him an "incentive" to stick one (each) in his face, so that he looked more like tom cruise in vanilla sky.

boss had to come out of his office to mediate (small office). nowadays, the bloody asshole dont even dare to go lunch together with her in a big group.

bro criminalz, dont really encourage the use of violence but i guess these guys think that everyone is like them, only NATO. that's why they r getting bolder. but if the lady is a willing party, then nothing to say, lppl find another CO lor.

sg_boytoy · #9 14-09-2006, 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by _AXL_

happened to my bro's wife with her colleague recently and we (the 3 brothers, 2 mid 30s n 1 late 20s) had to go down to his office to offer him an "incentive" to stick one (each) in his face, so that he looked more like tom cruise in vanilla sky.

boss had to come out of his office to mediate (small office). nowadays, the bloody asshole dont even dare to go lunch together with her in a big group.

Wah~ you damn gangster leh, body got ang kong or not?

_AXL_ · #10 14-09-2006, 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

Wah~ you damn gangster leh, body got ang kong or not?

no have ang kong, cant even find the chewing gum type. (u would know what i mean if u r old enough) too fat, too fair and looking very out of shape. my CO call me polar bear, only know how to sleep. how threatening can it be?

very threatening cos defending my brother's honour mah...

sg_boytoy · #11 14-09-2006, 04:12 AM

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cant even find the chewing gum type. (u would know what i mean if u r old enough)

Chewing gum was already banned when I was born

_AXL_ · #12 14-09-2006, 04:20 AM

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Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

Chewing gum was already banned when I was born

that probably makes u like 12 years old. ai si ah, boy, so late still dont want to sleep ah? tomorrow how to go to school? this year PSLE, u know?

ok, enough here. if want to tcss, we go raid the "go fuck yourself thread". this one serious thread lah!

yankim3 · #13 14-09-2006, 08:48 AM

i will ask my OC to jio him out for dinner or lunch and talk to him as per norm and look at him straight in the eyes. norm peop will feel guilty.

dancer60 · #14 14-09-2006, 11:43 AM

sometimes, some IDIOTS out there just wouldnt get things straight.. this AngMo keep pestering my gf.. keep on calling her, and somemore say wanna talk things straight with my her.. the last meeting of her and him was, he went down her place find her, and ask her to break off with me and go with him.. in the very first place, my gf says he's insane,... why would she do that.. he's not anything to her.. i guess my gf got pretty piss off and walk away.. cause she say if keep on talking both of them are going to get into a fight..lol

Offspring · #15 14-09-2006, 11:52 AM

It all comes down to the gal. Once a woman/gf/oc/co says no, they can block it off no matter what.

But once they leave the door open like what u just described, it will come down to an ugly end.

As the saying goes, what goes around, comes around. Don't hold back in asking other gals out for movie/dinner/pub etc. Then she will feel the pain and maybe wake up.

If not, ask her to continue behaving like that thinking she has a long q of guys all the way to JB!