Fell in love with this PRC KTV girl who hurt me real bad

[DunhillSmooth]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

[CoolBlack]

NO!! The signs are crystal clear! There wont be any happy ending!

[Joverick]

We all can tell you not to help her but will you listen?

If won't listen, then only thing left is for you to get hurt by her again and again until one day you wake up from the lies she fed you

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by DunhillSmooth

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

Just start to chiong? Lol ok serious answer here to u

U know why u think she is special to you? Cos you haven’t meet someone even prettier than her boobs bigger than her figure better her and KC u better than her…

Many fishes in the pond… trust me after a year u look back and think why are u so foolish

[ilovepantyhose]

dun be carrot

dun be robert

dun be simp

dun be atm

[fbtogo888]

Red flags everywhere in your story. You are nothing to her. Wake up. This applies to any girl who behaves in this way to you, not just KTV girls. Please learn to love yourself before you even think about loving someone else. Enough said.

[Topper]

Originally Posted by DunhillSmooth

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

Looks like you are in too deep like tio gong tao already.

It's human to have some feelings or like a FL/WL/KTV girl, but never get too serious.

Always remember, a man's objective and mindset when go to such places is to find sexual solace while having fun by acting out your fantasies with the ladies to ensure you get value for money with good ROI. Key thing is never stick to one lady, always go for the thrill of finding new and better ones with multiple standbys. This should be the way. Such skills can be mastered quite easily.

But once your direction is wrong, which is to go there and find love, then Hong Kanz already. These girls have 6th sense and can spot such kum gong guys easily and will sharpen their knives sharp sharp for the kill.

Since now although you still 'have strong feelings' and yet know you are stupid, I believe you still can be saved.

There is a saying by Li Ao which still rings true: " 中国人深不可测，台湾人可爱，新加坡人笨 “, if you get the drift.

It is not that there is no love in such places. There are stories of local men marrying a nice KTV/WL/FL girl after their contract here expires. But these cases are very rare. Key thing is, such ladies have good character are really kind-hearted after passing through many tests by the guy. So such ladies are worth to fall for and marry even.

For your case is a total opposite, the lady you describe seems like a habitual liar with deep character flaw who is out to pwn you. She also seems like an expert to toy with your feelings so definitely not worth for you to develop any feelings at all.

Unless you wish to be eventually squeezed dry and siphoned of all your monies and become bankrupt with debts some more which she will suddenly MIA, pls move on and wake up before it's too late.

If I were you and encounter such KTV ladies, she will not get an additional single cent from me except those standard rates and if she tries to be funny, I will just play along to extract maximum fun and pleasure from her without getting burnt. This should be the way. Why get so serious for fiak? LOL.

You may wish to read up my post reply to a similar case like yours involving a WL: https://samsforum.asia/showpost.php?p...4&postcount=31

[titan]

strong feelings will die off over time. go meet someone new, hangout with that person/group of people. dont let yourself be alone or u will start to think too much

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by CoolBlack

NO!! The signs are crystal clear! There wont be any happy ending!

Bro, you're right. Damn... but keep looking at handphone and her wechat moments just trying to figure out how she is... stop messaging her but the heart is feeling the tinge

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by Joverick

We all can tell you not to help her but will you listen?

If won't listen, then only thing left is for you to get hurt by her again and again until one day you wake up from the lies she fed you

Bro, you're right. The big head keeps telling me "wake the f*ck up!", but the heart keep feeling the ache... like keep asking to get hurt like that... damn stupid I know

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Just start to chiong? Lol ok serious answer here to u

U know why u think she is special to you? Cos you haven’t meet someone even prettier than her boobs bigger than her figure better her and KC u better than her…

Many fishes in the pond… trust me after a year u look back and think why are u so foolish

No leh bro, actually there are prettier fishes out there. But somehow my heart only tinge for her. I got girls that like me... but just i can't let her go. A friend told me, it's not that you like her... you are mmm gam wan (cannot take it) that she went for a pai kia (bad boy) and you are just the loser standing there sucking thumb

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by ilovepantyhose

dun be carrot

dun be robert

dun be simp

dun be atm

Bro, well said... I think i should change my nick to Simp_Rob_ATM.. you hit the nail with every quote there

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by Topper

Since now although you still 'have strong feelings' and yet know you are stupid, I believe you still can be saved.

There is a saying by Li Ao which still rings true: " 中国人深不可测，台湾人可爱，新加坡人笨 “, if you get the drift.

It is not that there is no love in such places. There are stories of local men marrying a nice KTV/WL/FL girl after their contract here expires. But these cases are very rare. Key thing is, such ladies have good character are really kind-hearted after passing through many tests by the guy. So such ladies are worth to fall for and marry even.

For your case is a total opposite, the lady you describe seems like a habitual liar with deep character flaw who is out to pwn you. She also seems like an expert to toy with your feelings so definitely not worth for you to develop any feelings at all.

Unless you wish to be eventually squeezed dry and siphoned of all your monies and become bankrupt with debts some more which she will suddenly MIA, pls move on and wake up before it's too late.

If I were you and encounter such KTV ladies, she will not get an additional single cent from me except those standard rates and if she tries to be funny, I will just play along to extract maximum fun and pleasure from her without getting burnt. This should be the way. Why get so serious for fiak? LOL.

You may wish to read up my post reply to a similar case like yours involving a WL: https://samsforum.asia/showpost.php?p...4&postcount=31

Bro, thanks for the sincere words. I love the story you share, and thank you for encouraging me saying that acknowledging that I am stupid there's still hope for me.

Maybe I watch too many Stephen Chow movies that he could have been with Zhu Ying, but he gave up the chance... I am no Stephen Chow, but I could learn to be like him, to be a man to be strong and make a strong choice and move on.

Love that you share your wisdom with me. Much appreciated, got chance would love to meet you for a beer or a drink of your choice.

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by titan

strong feelings will die off over time. go meet someone new, hangout with that person/group of people. dont let yourself be alone or u will start to think too much

Bro, you can be a psychiatrist siah! you're right. Time will wash all the pain and feelings away... you know what's the funny thing? I know the answers, but the heart still sibeh KNN...
got any advice to make the heart feel less pain?

[loneyheart]

What is " Love " or is it a moment of urge n temptation of lust tat her svc is sooo good ?
Giving $$$ to MLs /FLs / KTV girl r like throwing $$$ into the black hole as they never get enough
She will only be yours when u r with her maybe 1 or few hrs when u engage her svc .. even on phone with u she may have another daring beside her ... then she will be having tens / or more customers tats so call hers " Only One "
Tats why PRCs like to moan " Lao Gong " when she is FxxKing U

U joined in 2007 should be a exp chionger
There r terms like ..KCed ... Gongtao ... Whores r for Fxxking ... Horny / urge / lust ... addicted ... for a same reason but still many fall into it

No one can really be specially escape even if they said he will never ... only too early tat he hasn't meet 上得山多终遇虎 。。。Should he be lucky / unlucky tat never meet the Special Sooo Good One

U should fell blessed tat u met a good one may in terms of look .. fig .. svc .. GFE tat let u asking for more
But u should know how to control yrself n her too in terms of fav / $$$
Always bare in mind working ladies r here for only $$$ ... enjoy yrself while she is still around but in the 1st place know how to " TaiJi" / control $$$ ... unless u have a very big n deep pocket

Bare in mind u never be the " Only One "
99.99% 欢场无真爱 。。只是一场游戏一场蒙
Its just a mind game ... so r u game ? ... not for the weak hearted one pls

Don't worry bro ... yr heart ache will not last too long if u just move on n may meet another as good svc or even better Good luck bro