FB quality: what do we look for

[DaLeonardo]

It seems like there is a trend in sbf where samsters just post a short 2 liner describing themselves and stating the intention of getting a fb.

If it is only that easy. Even a super newbie like me knows it.

Which prompted the curiosity to find out what defines a suitable fb or what a gd fb constitutes of?

Good sex? Of course. Good look/physical attributes? It will be a bonus. Personality compatibility? Important right? What about kind, caring, mature thinking etc so called virtues?

Can bros and sis share ur valuable views what u loooking for in your fb or what ur current fb has? If he/she has all the your requirement boxes checked, won't you fall for him/her and jeopardize the whole fb ideology?

Thanks in advance for valuable inputs.

[DaLeonardo]

Yikes! Nobody cares what a newbie says...

[BiRd13]

First of all, this topic have been posted many times already. If you did a search, should have a few such threads... =)

Secondly, you start a thread at 1154pm... Not many are around and still surf sbf at such hour... =)

Anyway, back to your question... I think each and individual have his/her own preference. Some will want a FB to be good in sex.. But how will you know? Until you bedded her...

To me, I prefer those with chemistry, and perhaps non-commitment kind. Or should say 'making love' compare to just 'sex'... I will prefer to hug and cuddle in bed with some chatting before and after sex....

Hence to me, finding a FB with chemistry is important...

[DaLeonardo]

Thanks bro BiRd13 for ur input.

Precisely, once u get one that got chemistry, wouldn't u fall for her? Can u draw the line to just make love and cuddle but no other "lovey dovey" feelings for her?

Ya sorry about repeating similar thread. I think there is one also which developed into the question I have base on replies from bro there: http://samsforum.asia/showthr...83#post6681183

[bearish1]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Hence to me, finding a FB with chemistry is important...

Agreed with you bro. Actually I have a fb which we grow from "sex everytime we meet" to sometime just "dine/movie/chat" without sex type, like a girl friend with no string attached. Like a soul mate if you ask me.

[aseandude]

Load of bull, forgive me as no pun intended.

Its sad that your FB is your soul mate. Either you or him/her is attached. Would be with regrets if you can only be an FB with your soul mate.

The definition of an FB in my words are:

1. First and foremost someone you have no strings attached - no commitment

2. Friends with benefits, sexually - you want sex, I want sex

3. Limited/restricted feelings for each other - cannot involve true love

4. Discretion of relation between both parties - keep a low profile

5. Mutual understanding of both sides involvement -respect each others timing

6. Universal rules of engagement - don't ruin your partners relationship with his/her other half.

Break any of these and things may turn sour.

Its not paid services, don't expect 24/7 on call.

You are itchy does mean he/she is. You are available doesn't mean he/she is.

It takes both hands to clap.

That's my 2 cents worth of comment.

Lost an FB because I broke 1 of the rules. Hope sam bros here learn from my experience.

Wish me luck in getting another...

[DaLeonardo]

Originally Posted by bearish1

Agreed with you bro. Actually I have a fb which we grow from "sex everytime we meet" to sometime just "dine/movie/chat" without sex type, like a girl friend with no string attached. Like a soul mate if you ask me.

Hi bro Bearish1, precisely what I meant in my thread starter...
Do you still consider her your fb? U realize u r calling her ur soulmate don't you?

Mind sharing either one of u r attached already?

[DaLeonardo]

Aseandude, thanks for sharing. Sorry about your fb.

Wishing u all the best!

[bearish1]

Originally Posted by DaLeonardo

Do you still consider her your fb? U realize u r calling her ur soulmate don't you?

Mind sharing either one of u r attached already?

to be honest I kind of get too emontionally involved and yes we are both attached. I mention we started as fb then it become something else, , I dont know what should I call that kind of relationship , it is just not so standard or typical, its kind of mutual feeling.

sorry for loads of bullsh** which some bro here dont really like it . I sincerely apologise to anyone who is offeneded.

[DaLeonardo]

Originally Posted by bearish1

to be honest I kind of get too emontionally involved and yes we are both attached. I mention we started as fb then it become something else, , I dont know what should I call that kind of relationship , it is just not so standard or typical, its kind of mutual feeling.

sorry for loads of bullsh** which some bro here dont really like it . I sincerely apologise to anyone who is offeneded.

No apologies needed, everyone has his opinion.
Well, respect you for the well balancing act there.

To find another person that holds similar level of understanding is difficult, let alone sex is involved. All the best!

[mclovin_boy]

My criteria for FB is that she can squirt. Love it when gal's squirt.

[TheGreatOne]

Originally Posted by DaLeonardo

Thanks bro BiRd13 for ur input.

Precisely, once u get one that got chemistry, wouldn't u fall for her? Can u draw the line to just make love and cuddle but no other "lovey dovey" feelings for her?

that will depends if you yourself are single or married.

i personally categorised the loose term FB into 2 categories.

1st. You know the person as a friend for sometimes and had been rather close, as in confiding in each other etc. And one day, the sex part just happened and subsequent sessions just pop up randomly as and when the time is right.

2nd. Random figures you get to know be it from nightspots, online etc and happened to be horny during that time and had it almost right there and then and you know next to nothing about that person except her performance, her skills, her figure etc. You either give your contact for further match-ups or you just bade your goodbyes for good.

either ones, i make it a point to not make it official. at most, stay as buddies aka close friends or simply exit from her life.

it can be complexed if you let emotions lead you or it can be just simple if you can still recall what prompted you to even started.

just my thoughts

[aseandude]

As thegreatone has said but simply divided into 2 categories of fb;

1. You were buddies with before you fcuk

2. You fcuked before you became buddies

Personnally is it worth it to jeopordize the relationship of your buddy if they became you fb.

Do you want to risk it?

But end of the day again, it takes 2 hands to clap.

On category 2 its normally an extension or upgrade of an ons relationship.

[44mm]

Originally Posted by aseandude

As thegreatone has said but simply divided into 2 categories of fb;

1. You were buddies with before you fcuk

2. You fcuked before you became buddies

Personnally is it worth it to jeopordize the relationship of your buddy if they became you fb.

Do you want to risk it?

But end of the day again, it takes 2 hands to clap.

On category 2 its normally an extension or upgrade of an ons relationship.

Well said!

[SparkleDoll]

To me there are 2 types of FB,

1. Fuck Buddy

2. Friends with Benefits

With a fuck buddy, whether we were friends before does not matter and meet ups are purely of a sexual nature. No talking and other bulls about our personal lives.

Whereas with friends with benefits, we would actually be hanging out together and confining in each other and stuff with the added benefit of sexual release.

At no time though will I get emotionally attached enough to want to be in am actual r/s with either type of FB. Everyone is different, so communication beforehand is vital.