Help - my gf is lying?

cardscards · #1 31-01-2015, 09:35 AM

Friends, I really need your help. My gf of five years (and we have a kid) went to singapore to visit her friend and see if she can find a job. After two weeks, she started behaving differently, not talking as often, shorter calls, and she says shes just really busy looking for jobs. So I confronted her best friend here who tells me that she found a bf and lives with him. She says he pays for everything while she looks for a job. My heart is hurting bad.

I need someone in singapore to find out whats really going on. Her friend gave me info that I want someone to call and verify but calling from a singapore phone #. What can I do to get her to come back? Is there a way to her tourist visa ended early before she finds a job?

Does anyone know a private detective in singapore? Can someone recommend a trustworthy one? Any advice on hiring one?

sammyboyfor · #2 31-01-2015, 12:42 PM

Don't waste your time and your money.

It's pretty obvious your girlfriend has lost interest in you.

Just cut off all contact and start life afresh.

That way if she has a change of heart she'll be the one doing the begging.

conquer · #3 31-01-2015, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by cardscards

Friends, I really need your help. My gf of five years (and we have a kid) went to singapore to visit her friend and see if she can find a job. After two weeks, she started behaving differently, not talking as often, shorter calls, and she says shes just really busy looking for jobs. So I confronted her best friend here who tells me that she found a bf and lives with him. She says he pays for everything while she looks for a job. My heart is hurting bad.

I need someone in singapore to find out whats really going on. Her friend gave me info that I want someone to call and verify but calling from a singapore phone #. What can I do to get her to come back? Is there a way to her tourist visa ended early before she finds a job?

Does anyone know a private detective in singapore? Can someone recommend a trustworthy one? Any advice on hiring one?

What's the point getting a private detective? If your gf is lying on you, what you're gonna get from the detective is just a bunch of photos of your gf being fucked by another dude.

Ken79 · #4 31-01-2015, 03:20 PM

why want her back when she has already betrayed u?
she didn't do it when she arrived in singapore, must have already been planning it and discussing with her friends (in SG) before she came.
most probably her friends are the ones who intro this guy to her.

she is ready to give up the 5 years of r/s and perhaps the kid, i suggest u get on with your life and work, forget about this woman and treat your kid and yourself well.

btw, just curious where u are from.

MoJoe313 · #5 31-01-2015, 03:34 PM

In Singapore, there is a saying for this. Called Belly good! *done with putting a palm under the other arm's armpit and flapping the other arm arched like a chicken wing*

SnowLeopards · #6 31-01-2015, 03:46 PM

Mate, the issue with women is they all lie.

This is a good opportunity to stop all connections as it is clear this lady is in search of a better life for herself and does not care less about the relationship.

Such individualistic women requires no attention nor compassion.

The faster you sough this out, the better it will be for you and your future.

Good luck.

Pierre.

cardscards · #7 31-01-2015, 04:38 PM

Friends, thanks for the replies. I'm not ready to move on just yet. I at least want her to come back here so that I can confront her and then break up with her.

Any tips on ending her tourist visa early? Or referrals to PIs?

Captainoceania77 · #8 31-01-2015, 05:26 PM

Move on....Dont waste your money on PI.....

JohnWiFi · #9 31-01-2015, 05:27 PM

Why would you want to waste time and money on this woman?

Once a woman has a change of heart, it is almost over.

b0ji0 · #10 31-01-2015, 06:18 PM

TS, you should move on already. Time will heal all wounds.

hamsapkwai · #11 31-01-2015, 06:45 PM

brother all of us who hang around here are either whoremongers, liars, cheaters, pimps, junkies or drug dealers

the reason why we are not in jail is because we are nimble or lucky enough to be just one step ahead of the mata mata

we are only very good at doing bad things and very bad at doing good things

besides it sounds like your cheating gf is real badass and probably can be considered as one of us

so how dare u ask us to turn on one of our own!!!!

nihabaashi · #12 31-01-2015, 07:25 PM

Maybe one of the bros here is that bf....or even some have already screwed her.

Westcoast · #13 31-01-2015, 07:55 PM

hope all is

Westcoast · #14 31-01-2015, 07:55 PM

hope all is fine for you

HappyBuddy · #15 31-01-2015, 08:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Don't waste your time and your money.

It's pretty obvious your girlfriend has lost interest in you.

Just cut off all contact and start life afresh.

That way if she has a change of heart she'll be the one doing the begging.

please don't be so bad ..... hehehe