Tip of finding FB

[Xiaochew]

Bros and Sis!

Lai! Lets share our experience here and get to know each other more!

[peanodood1337]

Tip #1:

Don't make threads like this.

*EDIT*

Ok a friend said I'm being angsty with that snarky reply. She's right. Just because I've had a sucky day doesn't mean I should take it out on others.

Sorry TS.

Hmmm... I'll get the ball rolling on the discussion.

Question: How do you get a FB?

Its common sense really. Are you attracted to hot girls or fugly ones? Obviously the former (unless you have a fetish for ugly chicks). So turn the tables around and ask yourself - what would girls be looking for in a FB? #1 priority = Looks. You can be super charming or super rich or have a super long dick or have amazing cunnilingus skills, all that wouldn't matter because first impressions are often deal-makers/breakers.

And I mean "looks" in a broad sense. Looks are subjective. Some girls like the bad boys. Others like suave, older gentlemen with greys in their sides. Most girls would prefer guys taller than them, so you're shit out of luck if you're a 1.6m guy looking for a FB. But hey never say never. A lot of it is being at the right place at the right time. If you happen to come across a girl who happens to like the way you look, you have a real shot at making things happen.

Question: So what do you do if you are born with completely shitty looks?

Well, grooming helps. Take care of your complexion (i.e. get rid of your acne), work out for a fitter bod, don't dress like a slob. Effort shows in this department.

As the saying goes, "there are no ugly girls, only lazy girls" - the same applies to guys. No matter how bad you look at the beginning, if you put in enough effort, you wouldn't look THAT bad. Seriously man. I've seen absolutely fugly fat asses turn into absolute hunks through sheer determination and hard work. Don't make excuses. No money for the gym? Run outdoors. Do planks and push-ups. Its free. And if you wanna continue eating that KFC, you better work harder. Otherwise, don't complain.

And after all that, if you are still not confident about your body, suit up. And I don't mean cheap ass, ill-fitting suits. There is no bigger turn off than a poorly-fitted suit. If you're on a budget and can't go to the tailor's, try Zara. Or even G2000. Go on a slow day, find the friendliest sales person you see, and ask nicely for help. They will make sure you don't leave with an unflattering suit. A good suit can make a fat ass look good. Exhibit A: Just look at that Gungnam Style guy.

No matter the scenario - you need to put in effort. Depending on where you start from, some people may need to put in shit loads of effort. Which is why it pisses me off when people make threads like "Tip of finding FB". Most of the time, they already know the answer. But they are just too lazy to see things through.

Ok I'm done for now. Will chime in more if the discussion heats up.

Good luck bros.

[vivianward]

Personally, the qualities of my FB has to be someone that I will date, less the "romance".

Unless we have been sexting/texting, else I will not be sexually attracted to someone who attempts to seduce me by sending me their dick pic or half naked body without any effort to try to warm me up. This is equivalent to not having foreplay during sex and penetration is done right away.

I do agree with the importance of height. Height is probably 50% for me as I am petite myself. To each his own.

Although the relationship is purely physical, personality is still far more important than how handsome he looks.

Cheers

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by vivianward

Personally, the qualities of my FB has to be someone that I will date, less the "romance".

Unless we have been sexting/texting, else I will not be sexually attracted to someone who attempts to seduce me by sending me their dick pic or half naked body without any effort to try to warm me up. This is equivalent to not having foreplay during sex and penetration is done right away.

I do agree with the importance of height. Height is probably 50% for me as I am petite myself. To each his own.

Although the relationship is purely physical, personality is still far more important than how handsome he looks.

Cheers

"Personally, the qualities of my FB has to be someone that I will date, less the "romance".

Pardon me, this is a contradicting statement. For you to decide someone is dateable already shows that the romance potential is there. So what in effect you're saying about the way you'll choose a FWB is you'll choose someone that clearly you would date but for whatever reasons you don't want to go any further than fucking him. I'm not sure how that's gonna work, and neither do I think it's fair to him to be "potentially dateable if only I wanted to, but definitely fuckable"?

Just stick to your ending point about personality and looks clicking with you enough to get the minimum sexual chemistry going. That's very different from "being dateable but without the romance".

Of course, if I misunderstood you, correct me.

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

"Personally, the qualities of my FB has to be someone that I will date, less the "romance".

Pardon me, this is a contradicting statement. For you to decide someone is dateable already shows that the romance potential is there. So what in effect you're saying about the way you'll choose a FWB is you'll choose someone that clearly you would date but for whatever reasons you don't want to go any further than fucking him. I'm not sure how that's gonna work, and neither do I think it's fair to him to be "potentially dateable if only I wanted to, but definitely fuckable"?

Just stick to your ending point about personality and looks clicking with you enough to get the minimum sexual chemistry going. That's very different from "being dateable but without the romance".

Of course, if I misunderstood you, correct me.

I'm guessing it's something along the lines of a guy whom she would potentially date but definitely wouldn't marry. Keep the fella around for some fun that's it.

[vivianward]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

"Personally, the qualities of my FB has to be someone that I will date, less the "romance".

Pardon me, this is a contradicting statement. For you to decide someone is dateable already shows that the romance potential is there. So what in effect you're saying about the way you'll choose a FWB is you'll choose someone that clearly you would date but for whatever reasons you don't want to go any further than fucking him. I'm not sure how that's gonna work, and neither do I think it's fair to him to be "potentially dateable if only I wanted to, but definitely fuckable"?

Just stick to your ending point about personality and looks clicking with you enough to get the minimum sexual chemistry going. That's very different from "being dateable but without the romance".

Of course, if I misunderstood you, correct me.

I guess in this effect, the "qualities" that I was referring to can be pretty diverse. I apologise if I wasn't clear.

Sometimes the person you are sleeping with (not bf/gf) can be someone who has amazing qualities but you just don't feel that way (romance) for them? For whatever reason. Something just does not click enough for us to wanna commit a proper relationship with each other. This was what I am referring to.

Of course a FB relationship has to be two ways. If I know the other party wants something more than what I can give, I will not hesitate to clarify.

Having said all the above, all that I have mentioned are my personal preferences/thoughts. It may or may not float everyone's boat and that is perfectly fine

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by vivianward

I guess in this effect, the "qualities" that I was referring to can be pretty diverse. I apologise if I wasn't clear.

Sometimes the person you are sleeping with (not bf/gf) can be someone who has amazing qualities but you just don't feel that way (romance) for them? For whatever reason. Something just does not click enough for us to wanna commit a proper relationship with each other. This was what I am referring to.

Of course a FB relationship has to be two ways. If I know the other party wants something more than what I can give, I will not hesitate to clarify.

Having said all the above, all that I have mentioned are my personal preferences/thoughts. It may or may not float everyone's boat and that is perfectly fine

Thanks for your clarification.

[masterwanker]

It would be easier if you have the following traits :

1 ) Good looking

2 ) Rich

3 ) Car

4 ) Able to hole a conversation.

5 ) Good sense of humour .

[Az284]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

Tip #1:

Don't make threads like this.

*EDIT*

Ok a friend said I'm being angsty with that snarky reply. She's right. Just because I've had a sucky day doesn't mean I should take it out on others.

Sorry TS.

Hmmm... I'll get the ball rolling on the discussion.

Question: How do you get a FB?

Its common sense really. Are you attracted to hot girls or fugly ones? Obviously the former (unless you have a fetish for ugly chicks). So turn the tables around and ask yourself - what would girls be looking for in a FB? #1 priority = Looks. You can be super charming or super rich or have a super long dick or have amazing cunnilingus skills, all that wouldn't matter because first impressions are often deal-makers/breakers.

And I mean "looks" in a broad sense. Looks are subjective. Some girls like the bad boys. Others like suave, older gentlemen with greys in their sides. Most girls would prefer guys taller than them, so you're shit out of luck if you're a 1.6m guy looking for a FB. But hey never say never. A lot of it is being at the right place at the right time. If you happen to come across a girl who happens to like the way you look, you have a real shot at making things happen.

Question: So what do you do if you are born with completely shitty looks?

Well, grooming helps. Take care of your complexion (i.e. get rid of your acne), work out for a fitter bod, don't dress like a slob. Effort shows in this department.

As the saying goes, "there are no ugly girls, only lazy girls" - the same applies to guys. No matter how bad you look at the beginning, if you put in enough effort, you wouldn't look THAT bad. Seriously man. I've seen absolutely fugly fat asses turn into absolute hunks through sheer determination and hard work. Don't make excuses. No money for the gym? Run outdoors. Do planks and push-ups. Its free. And if you wanna continue eating that KFC, you better work harder. Otherwise, don't complain.

And after all that, if you are still not confident about your body, suit up. And I don't mean cheap ass, ill-fitting suits. There is no bigger turn off than a poorly-fitted suit. If you're on a budget and can't go to the tailor's, try Zara. Or even G2000. Go on a slow day, find the friendliest sales person you see, and ask nicely for help. They will make sure you don't leave with an unflattering suit. A good suit can make a fat ass look good. Exhibit A: Just look at that Gungnam Style guy.

No matter the scenario - you need to put in effort. Depending on where you start from, some people may need to put in shit loads of effort. Which is why it pisses me off when people make threads like "Tip of finding FB". Most of the time, they already know the answer. But they are just too lazy to see things through.

Ok I'm done for now. Will chime in more if the discussion heats up.

Good luck bros.

Good point re gangnam style guy

[HiTeaLover]

Actually I'm just curious about why will lady find a fb when they can find a SD?

Finding a SD, there is sex involve and u get to be pampered and allowance
Finding FB, there is sex involve but u don't get allowance and don't get pampered?

Then why would a lady find a fb instead of a SD? Just curious. Don't mind me

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by HiTeaLover

Actually I'm just curious about why will lady find a fb when they can find a SD?

Finding a SD, there is sex involve and u get to be pampered and allowance
Finding FB, there is sex involve but u don't get allowance and don't get pampered?

Then why would a lady find a fb instead of a SD? Just curious. Don't mind me

Lady finding FB: Sex is the main purpose, everything else is a bonus. You're finding someone to fuck first and foremost. How rich he is is often of no significant influence; after all, being rich doesn't make you a good fuck in bed.

Lady finding SD: Money is the main purpose, everything else is a bonus. You're finding someone to give you money every month first and foremost. Whether you have sex with him or not, or just go out with him socially as his public GF companion is simply terms of exchange you agree with him. Some SDs will want sex. Some won't.

And actually, my two cents' worth of opinion: the line between SD/SB and dating someone because he/she is rich and has the material goods you desire in a partner is a very VERY blurry one.

[peanodood1337]

Originally Posted by HiTeaLover

Actually I'm just curious about why will lady find a fb when they can find a SD?

Finding a SD, there is sex involve and u get to be pampered and allowance
Finding FB, there is sex involve but u don't get allowance and don't get pampered?

Then why would a lady find a fb instead of a SD? Just curious. Don't mind me

Because some people have a backbone?

Just because you can sell your body, doesn't mean you need or want to sell your body.

Besides, the people that you may want to be FBs with may not be SD material, and vice-versa.

[HiTeaLover]

Icic. Thanks Bros for the guidance! Haha

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by masterwanker

It would be easier if you have the following traits :

1 ) Good looking

2 ) Rich

3 ) Car

4 ) Able to hole a conversation.

5 ) Good sense of humour .

I tick all the boxes but no FB

[peanodood1337]

Originally Posted by justl00king

I tick all the boxes but no FB

That's because you are "just looking" and not serious about getting one