Found my ex-GF's profile on Friendster.

[Boliaoz]

What is your feeling when you chance upon your long out of touch old flame in friendster which you have no prior frienster profile of her and realised that she is blissfully married with her prince charming (dun look charming to me though) as she has uploaded her wedding photos on site.

Sad? Regret?
Or to many,"sign..." Life goes on.

It made me thinker a bit. Reviving sweet memories of the days when we used to talk on the phone for hours, not forgetting the wonderful sex that we had in the car, hotel, her bedroom as well as mine. Recalled how we first met, our first kiss, our virgin date, etc.

To add to my misery, I am still single , waiting for my snow white to appear, at the same time, browsing the forum, filling up my sex life with flings and FLs.

[peanut123]

Originally Posted by Boliaoz

To add to my misery, I am still single , waiting for my snow white to appear, at the same time, browsing the forum, filling up my sex life with flings and FLs.

That dun sound so bad to me. Look at it this way, when you are young and single, have all the flings you can without guilt, coz if you really did marry her, it would be the end of your flings ( or at least, severely curtailed as she will get suspicious if you fling too much ).

The right girl will come along. If not, well, lots of married people wish they were still single :-)

[digital]

U dump her or she dump u

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Boliaoz

waiting for my snow white to appear

Sometime... snow white is dress in black and along side with u all the while... u nid 2 use ur heart 2 spot her n not ur eye...

[digital]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

u nid 2 use ur heart 2 spot her n not ur eye...

Wahhh sibeh chimmm

[Microsoft]

6 at my siggy... it jus the booze talk...

[Boliaoz]

Originally Posted by peanut123

That dun sound so bad to me. Look at it this way, when you are young and single, have all the flings you can without guilt, coz if you really did marry her, it would be the end of your flings ( or at least, severely curtailed as she will get suspicious if you fling too much ).

The right girl will come along. If not, well, lots of married people wish they were still single :-)

My flings aren't quality flings. I could have said that I am enjoying my singles life, when a girl willing to bed you for your money is just a phone call away. But with inflation at sky high, every penny spend on sex means less for other things.

She was a girl that could have kept me on my toes and yah, she initiated the break-up. Though she was a distant memory, this accidental click revived a great nastalgia for her.

[jinrenhe]

It's quite a thought-provoking experience with a tingling bittersweet feeling actually...

Still remembered that day when i chanced upon my ex's friendster profile - 4 years since we broke up, thought i long forgotten about her, convinced myself that life should get on as the past gets buried with the passing of time - but at that moment, when i see that all so familiar smile on her face, a wave of emotion swept over me...

As i uncontrollably clicked on to see some of her pics, staring at the once so familiar smile and expressions on her face, a drop of tear unknowingly rolled dowm my cheek...

reminds me of elva's song ...


我们变成了世上
最熟悉的陌生人
今后各自曲折
各自悲哀
只怪我们爱得那么汹涌
爱得那么深
于是梦醒了搁浅了沉默了挥手了
却回不了神
如果当初在交会时能忍住了
激动的灵魂
也许今夜我不会让自己在思念里
沉沦

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

reminds me of elva's song ...


我们变成了世上
最熟悉的陌生人

bro..try not to listen to 933 too much at nite

TS..some things are best left unknown..sometimes not knowing will be much happier

[colins]

Until today, I'm still trying to find the profile for all my childhood sweethearts in my school days. No luck.

Guess I would feel the same way if I happen to see her wedding photos.

Let bygones be bygones, if got sweet memories good. No point trying to find out how they are doing if already no contact liao, else if you find out she married Jerry Yang ... wah lao ... cannot sleep.

[sun-x]

time had pass...bro, life still on

[Boliaoz]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Did you managed to bonk her while she was your gf? If you did then there is no regret cuz that man is taking the 2nd poke, so don't feel so sad. You now no gf doesn't mean forever no gf and since you got gf before that shows you are not that ugly and got chance lar. if die die cannot find gf in sg then shift to prc or thai or any gal outside sg lor.

One thing I discover about foreign girls is that the initial hook up is not difficult as in breaking the ice but the courtship is not as easy as most think because foreign girls are sceptical towards guys not from their homeland. Even PRCs try to look for their people in S'pore. Strange but true.

[Ex-Men]

Originally Posted by Boliaoz

Even PRCs try to look for their people in S'pore. Strange but true.

You should have no problem finding a GF then, why still look backward.

[grue76]

Same thing happened to me. I guess the best thing is to be happy for her, remember the times that you had and to move on. For me, there was this one girl that even while we were going through the break-up I knew I would always love in some way, but just wasn't meant to be. When I saw her wedding pics on friendster, was a mix of emotions for sure. In the end, good for her la! And your life must also go on...remember it only takes one gal to make it right!